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LisaM

(29,465 posts)
5. This is why I don't understand why people like violent movies.
Sat Dec 6, 2025, 11:03 AM
Dec 6

I hate them and even get resentful when a preview pops into my viewing, usually on TV, but now at the movie theatre, too. They used to cater the previews to the movie we were watching but now we have to see everything (as a loose example, I went to see "Barbie", but still had to see a preview for 'Oppenheimer", which I was trying my best to avoid).

This reminds me of a book someone gave my partner for Christmas years ago, called "Sex Life in Ancient Rome". It was from one of his sisters, and they clearly had shopped only by title and hadn't looked at the contents. I started reading it and had to put it down, because it was like the scene described above. The people in the crowd were actually experiencing orgasms from watching other people get killed. It was a horrible, if revealing book.

I know people who would rather their kids be exposed to violence in movies rather than sexual situations, which floors me.

It's easy to blame Hegseth and he is a horrible person, but we as a culture seem to worship violence, at least in our movies and in our video games too. This is just business as usual. Can people watching even differentiate from this and what the entertainment industry exposes us to on a constant basis?

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It's from an excellent op-ed by Phil Klay. WhiskeyGrinder Dec 6 #1
Thank you! I looked, but couldn't find it again. niyad Dec 6 #3
Trumpism is more than just Trump. Beartracks Dec 6 #16
Thanks for sharing. yellow dahlia Dec 6 #21
That shit has been going on for ages. Turbineguy Dec 6 #2
As has been frequently said on DU dlk Dec 6 #4
Yes, I agree. They showed all the snuff films. Walleye Dec 6 #10
This is why I don't understand why people like violent movies. LisaM Dec 6 #5
Especially if you dehumanize them by labeling them "terrorists." surfered Dec 6 #6
Narco-terrorists "criminal illegal aliens." surprised they haven't thought up another hateful adjective to put in there Walleye Dec 6 #11
Authoritarians have to change public perspectives on the use of violence, tell them it's for the good of the nation. Timeflyer Dec 6 #7
Maybe this is why IT is always referring to people he doesn't like as "animals". The same as LoisB Dec 6 #8
There are a lot of us who will never be desensitized Six117 Dec 6 #9
The discussion frame has gone from illegal war to war crime to double tap. hay rick Dec 6 #12
I remember some of the debates here on DU about violent video games malaise Dec 6 #13
High School Shooters Kid Berwyn Dec 6 #15
Worked on 9-11 Kid Berwyn Dec 6 #14
I watched that whole progression with increasing horror and revulsion, niyad Dec 6 #17
At the time, I said to myself "Pearl Harbor reference in 1...2...3..." malthaussen Dec 6 #19
In "Woman of the Year," Kate Hepburn's character becomes a baseball fanatic... malthaussen Dec 6 #18
Napoleon .. aggiesal Dec 6 #20
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