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karynnj

(60,997 posts)
22. You know your acquaintance.
Fri Dec 12, 2025, 05:01 PM
Dec 2025

Think about all you know and try to map out what his values are and what is important to him. Then look to find areas where HIS values are in line with us and are damaged by Trump.

For example, is he someone without company provided insurance. If he is either self employed or working for a small business or simply working on a job without that benefit, he may now have increased costs for health insurance. This is a very clear issue that divides the party. If he is old enough to have adult kids, could they be impacted?

Does he value the US as a leader on universities, medical research, basic research etc? Does he understand the potential (if not already in motion) brain drain as we lose some of the brightest minds, some US citizens and some immigrant.

In addition to tariffs which you mentioned, these would be good if you think these are issues he would care about.

The key is to focus on what you know moves him.

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LOL LuvLoogie Dec 2025 #1
The Big Bullshit Bill will add three trillion to the deficit over the next decade. CrispyQ Dec 2025 #2
Ask how they feel about US veterans being deported berniesandersmittens Dec 2025 #3
Nothing, I walk away, just like I did when my brother told me to leave the country. cayugafalls Dec 2025 #4
Say "I don't follow politics," eyeroll, and walk n/t leftstreet Dec 2025 #14
I thought this sentence was rather interesting.. Dan Dec 2025 #5
"reasonable person" + "voted for Trump" oxymoron. Ping Tung Dec 2025 #6
Make him follow his own road to its logical end. Does he want to make pencils for a living? Dolls? Maru Kitteh Dec 2025 #7
Not worth your time and energy to initiate without a clear indication dalton99a Dec 2025 #8
Explain something to me: Chasstev365 Dec 2025 #9
Post removed Post removed Dec 2025 #10
Crime. Stick to the topic of crime. Mister Ed Dec 2025 #11
There's a meme for this. Swede Dec 2025 #12
I'd start by asking him what it is he likes about Trump and what he is doing for the country meadowlander Dec 2025 #13
The government is not a business, and even if it were, evidence that Trump isn't a particularly good businessman AZJonnie Dec 2025 #15
Ask him if he supports the US Constitution... Trueblue Texan Dec 2025 #16
If he is "happy" with what he is doing, then I wouldn't waste time talking with him. GoodRaisin Dec 2025 #17
More power to you if you have the inclination to engage with these types of people. LuckyCharms Dec 2025 #18
Well, "WTF were you thinking?" is probably not recommended. surfered Dec 2025 #19
No suggestions here. I couldn't get beyond "Are you fucking nuts?" Vinca Dec 2025 #20
Your Basic Premise Is Demonstrably FALSE. Moreover,... ColoringFool Dec 2025 #21
You know your acquaintance. karynnj Dec 2025 #22
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