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raging moderate

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37. My mother was a non-racist Republican. But she finally voted for all Democrats.
Sun Dec 14, 2025, 06:09 PM
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My mother was descended from staunch Abolitionists, and they were all Republicans. Her mother's grandparents (he was a minister) had hosted Black houseguests several times because they were all attending a Methodist Church meeting together. And they waited on those Black people themselves; they never had servants. And they were proud to do so; each of them had had an older brother who had been killed fighting to abolish slavery in the Civil War, when the Republican Party was mostly Abolitionists and their sympathizers. My mother never let us use racist words or phrases; she always did what she could to educate us about the bad treatment Black people still endured. She was so happy when new laws helped Black people get good education and good jobs. She told me how her family, suffering poverty and hunger in the Great Depression, had mourned over the even greater suffering they could see in Black people they met. But, as the Dixiecrats and Northern racists began to take over the Republican party, she gradually voted for more and more Democrats (and so did her parents and her brothers and her sister). Right before the last election of her life, my mother told me, with widened eyes, "I guess I'm voting for all Democrats this time!" So Yes, there was a political shift in this country.

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You better believe it. Dave Bowman Yesterday #1
My eyes were opened when they fought against the ERA on the late 70's. SharonAnn 10 hrs ago #88
My eyes were opened in the early 70s BaronChocula 7 hrs ago #96
Yes RandySF Yesterday #2
I'm 76 years old. Growing up, half my family was Republican. Joinfortmill Yesterday #3
And the long answer is YES, YES, and DEFINITELY YES DeeDeeNY 8 hrs ago #93
Yes. Yes you are. USS_Dauntless Yesterday #4
Or, just decide that you are too embarrassed to do anything other than hide? OldBaldy1701E Yesterday #24
They were willing to pretend until Obama became President JI7 Yesterday #5
Definitely. And remember when a Roman Catholic was elected president? erronis Yesterday #17
In Texas markodochartaigh Yesterday #23
I was in the 7th grade in Monterey County, California, at a k-8 elementary school. The vice principal came in and told cksmithy Yesterday #30
That's horrible EncantoCatColony Yesterday #42
the nuns at my school were distraught rampartd Yesterday #57
The rambling made me think the writer doesn't know what's going on. Tetrachloride Yesterday #6
Indeed Scott Alan Swaggerty Yesterday #49
He should ask himself if he ever believed that the end justifies the means. nt BootinUp Yesterday #7
Im 84. They have always been there just not so much media. If you didn't live in it then Srkdqltr Yesterday #8
The virus has spread to all of them. Swede Yesterday #9
I was hoping someone would post this. Timeflyer Yesterday #14
Sure Boo1 Yesterday #25
I see this scene frequently here, but what is the movie? tblue37 4 hrs ago #102
That Mitchell and Webb Look Boo1 3 hrs ago #103
I need to go find a thread where I can work in Numberwang. Xavier Breath 2 hrs ago #106
Ronald Reagan, born in Illinois, rose to fame and power in California rsdsharp Yesterday #10
Of course this did actually pre-date Reagan - Nixon and Goldwater and the "Southern Strategy" erronis Yesterday #11
Ah, yes the Golden Years of Lee Atwater . . . . hatrack 22 hrs ago #62
I was about to post this fujiyamasan 19 hrs ago #67
Ain't that the truth? stage left Yesterday #47
Yup lonely bird 13 hrs ago #74
+1 Scott Alan Swaggerty Yesterday #50
Who gave us the Lee Atwater political cesspool Gum Logger 9 hrs ago #91
If the Gucci fits, wear it. twodogsbarking Yesterday #12
or the jackboot GopherGal Yesterday #36
My view is the Republicans have been openly racist since the Goldwater candidance and were cemented into that corner by ShazamIam Yesterday #13
I read this letter in the Post this morning. I wondered if it was real. Probably, I suppose. Martin68 Yesterday #15
Hahahahahaha...like to believe conservatism wasn't always thus hibbing Yesterday #16
It's who they've always been. BurnDoubt Yesterday #18
The Republican party left Eisenhower's Dave in VA Yesterday #19
Absolutely right ... I call them "my Grandpa's Republican Party" FakeNoose Yesterday #35
Gingrich... lonely bird 13 hrs ago #75
Eisenhower's political views were obviously shaped by his promotion to Allied Supreme Commander. OAITW r.2.0 9 hrs ago #89
spawn of the devil himself UpInArms Yesterday #20
Reagan was a racist cow. mercuryblues Yesterday #21
Yes. They are veritable pieces of shit NewHendoLib Yesterday #22
If there WERE good guys. WmChris Yesterday #26
Yes, and they also need to stop calling themselves conservatives. KY_EnviroGuy Yesterday #27
My mother was a non-racist Republican. But she finally voted for all Democrats. raging moderate Yesterday #37
Thank you for your story. I think it mirrors what a lot of people/families have gone through. erronis Yesterday #56
This is exactly how I grew up radical noodle 10 hrs ago #85
Mine as well. OAITW r.2.0 9 hrs ago #90
I call them lonely bird 13 hrs ago #76
As my Friend and DU Member says.... Turbineguy Yesterday #28
Sometimes you have to be told! state of stupid 8 hrs ago #94
Here's the URL link ffr Yesterday #29
Thanks. And here's an archived link. It looks like the same content. erronis Yesterday #31
Fella, it's the bigots who gave conservatives their victories. JHB Yesterday #32
ah for the days when they at least had enough shame to use code words. GopherGal Yesterday #39
I'm a 79 year old Liberal Democrat. Believe me, it was always there. patphil Yesterday #33
yup Skittles Yesterday #52
To be succinct: YES. ColoringFool Yesterday #34
Short answer yes.. reagan launched at KKK site for a reason JT45242 Yesterday #38
We're not wondering. We've always known. NNadir Yesterday #40
Yep Jean Genie Yesterday #41
Bwahahah-- yes, you are, motherfuckers LymphocyteLover Yesterday #43
This label-hijacking has been going on since the 1960s DFW Yesterday #44
Republicans should not be referred to as conservatives. overleft Yesterday #46
After 20 years DFW 19 hrs ago #66
lolololol Oh, sorry. Duh! Y'all have ALWAYS been this way. ALWAYS!!!! Solly Mack Yesterday #45
Yes. Yes, you are the bad guys. Scott Alan Swaggerty Yesterday #48
Do not have to read his response in detail rustbeltvoice Yesterday #51
Most of the good pukes went dem after Bush when it was clear the pukes were going full Nazi, total info awareness Blues Heron Yesterday #53
Kick. N/T Upthevibe Yesterday #54
Great OP malaise Yesterday #55
- In ten words or less- Conjuay Yesterday #58
As a 42 year old US born Indian guy whose parents are Jspur 23 hrs ago #59
The racism/sexism/bullying especially in the school years is still intense. erronis 23 hrs ago #60
I agree I hear it all the time from parents of kids Jspur 23 hrs ago #61
Profound malaise 12 hrs ago #78
Hah - DUH UTUSN 22 hrs ago #63
Yes Robert the virus fully took root as far back as the racist Nixon southern strategy administration. flashman13 21 hrs ago #64
Um... you really have to ask? calimary 20 hrs ago #65
It has taken until now for you (whoever you are) soldierant 18 hrs ago #68
The party's have switched roles Deminpenn 18 hrs ago #69
After signing the Civil Rights Act in '64 SomedayKindaLove 5 hrs ago #99
It's only been 7 years since Trump started tearing families apart and... LudwigPastorius 17 hrs ago #70
Concentration camp vibes right there wolfie001 14 hrs ago #72
Yes. Yes you are rpannier 15 hrs ago #71
It goes back further than you might think. Morbius 13 hrs ago #73
This is why it's infuriating to hear that the Democrats' problem is "messaging" Walleye 12 hrs ago #77
I keep returning to the death scene of Tom Jordache in no_hypocrisy 12 hrs ago #79
Oh it goes further back than Reagan or even Nixon for that matter. Crowman2009 12 hrs ago #80
Yes, Mr. Conservative, they are your descendants! Vogon_Glory 12 hrs ago #81
There is one difference between conservatives and liberals that has always been true. mwb970 11 hrs ago #82
Just now wondering? GreenWave 11 hrs ago #83
Here is the actual WP link LiberalArkie 11 hrs ago #84
And the non-paywalled archive link: erronis 10 hrs ago #86
Trajectories PATRICK 10 hrs ago #87
Yeah, you are the bad guys. hadEnuf 8 hrs ago #92
Here's a hint that you might be the bad guys: Karma13612 7 hrs ago #95
The conservative mindset is afraid of change crimycarny 6 hrs ago #97
He's "beginning" to wonder? louis-t 6 hrs ago #98
They live in a world with no mirrors. mdbl 5 hrs ago #100
You've always been the real bad guys. Initech 5 hrs ago #101
You figure it out. Marcuse 3 hrs ago #104
Yes. Next question. niyad 2 hrs ago #105
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