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haele

(15,045 posts)
66. Not quite. I grew up a poor Southern California urban kid in the 1960's.
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 11:56 AM
2 hrs ago

As a kid in the 1960's, you were still expected to respect your elders..
School days, maybe you got to play after school, but most times you were doing homework and cleaning up before and after dinner. The stereo was for background music while cleaning. The TV was for watching the news and maybe one show your parents approved of. The rest of the night was for homework, a family game or project, or to spend an hour bringing out the toys you were going to play with or reading. Then pick up and get ready for beds.

Weekends were never "carefree and casual" - you still had to get up "early" (by 06:30/07:00) on Saturday to gather up your dirty clothes to put in the laundry, make your bed, put up everything in your room, and go out and get a broom to sweep your room (including under your bed) before coming out to a cooked breakfast and a short time watching cartoons on TV if you had one.
Then you helped with heavy cleaning until late morning.
And then...the Family weekend - day trip to a park (walk or bike), home or furniture repair (basic carpentry, auto, painting, plumbing, roofing, yard work, ect...), going berry picking, walking the dog, family games, club events (camp fire, sports or hobby groups) heading to the library...

Summer was for the family camping trip, hanging out at the city park or running around the block, or a hobby jobs "for pin or sweets money", or charity work - whether or not you belonged to a church, there was always some sort of local charitable organization that needed quick hands or a kid with a bike or wagon to check on people or deliver items.

Spending the day sitting on your ass in the morning or afternoon watching TV was only for the days there was a televised sports event to watch.

I've always believed Teen Age as we know it in the US is a product of Marketing and a conservative economic push to create generations of passive drones forcing families to have two working adults and a lot of unsupervised or non-directed free time for adolescents.

Teens aren't necessarily stupid, but they can be selfish and pig-headed in thinking they're adults without understanding the responsibility on what being an adult in a community entails.

And the "Leave it to Beaver/Happy Days/Brady Bunch" BS TV was pushing on kids of the 60's and 70's was not what most of their parents experienced growing up, unless their folks were well off enough to have a housekeeper or nanny.

Most urban/suburban kids grew up with chores, neighborhood friends, and periods of family boredom where they had to read, make things, explore the local area, or otherwise figure out ways of entertaining themselves in the 1960's and 70's.

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Interesting take FHRRK 16 hrs ago #1
Never wanted to stay home from school sick. multigraincracker 15 hrs ago #16
This is AI slop from a channel posting videos on different subjects every couple of days, with highplainsdem 14 hrs ago #36
How to vilify a generation with a broad brush... NotHardly 14 hrs ago #43
It's almost like the well of resilience we need is in our 1960s generation bucolic_frolic 16 hrs ago #2
What stands out to me PoindexterOglethorpe 16 hrs ago #3
We were free range kids... ananda 16 hrs ago #5
Yep. Just be home by dinner. Martin Eden 16 hrs ago #7
my HS School years, we'd get 20 or so social misfits to play baseball. A lot of LL kids that never made it to JV OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #28
I remember that. And I got to be 11 or 12 years old in the boys told me I couldn't play anymore because I was a girl. Walleye 4 hrs ago #55
Me as well, I played from early morning until it was too dark to see. CanonRay 4 hrs ago #62
They're AI graphics. No Black people, either. Imagine, no Black people in a video ostensibly about the 60s. AI slop. WhiskeyGrinder 16 hrs ago #9
So the message lacks legitimacy? OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #15
This video describes fairly universal themes through a lens that makes "60s kids" feel unique -- which is catnip for just WhiskeyGrinder 15 hrs ago #21
You are 16 dimensions above me in your moral perspective. OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #31
To put it simply: "Every generation after mine is terrible" Orrex 4 hrs ago #57
I started feeling like something was wrong extremely on, and I admit I quit half way to the end. 1WorldHope 15 hrs ago #32
The narrator is speaking with a British accent, I'm pretty sure this is mostly about the UK FakeNoose 14 hrs ago #42
You are right about no black people, but of course there would PoindexterOglethorpe 14 hrs ago #44
Whaaat? There are plenty of films and photos of Black people from the 1960s. But this video was made in 2025 with 2025 WhiskeyGrinder 5 hrs ago #50
I graduated in 1967 and I remember quite clearly when our schools desegregated. Walleye 4 hrs ago #56
I graduated also from h.s. in 1967! I may have seen, probably did see, Blacks..... ColoringFool 2 hrs ago #65
We always had a good percentage of Black people living in Delaware. And I live right next-door to a stone cold racist Walleye 2 hrs ago #68
I have always said the downfall and the weight issues with this Country started with the remote control for tv. a kennedy 16 hrs ago #10
Right. Because you get so much exercise walking PoindexterOglethorpe 16 hrs ago #12
Yah, those how ever many steps they take from right after super to bed time, what 4 hours??? a kennedy 15 hrs ago #13
I had lots of PE in my school. Formal and informal. OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #17
California required 1 hour of PE daily mainer 15 hrs ago #18
I hated it because I have thick hair and Tree Lady 15 hrs ago #20
No PE in school Diamond_Dog 4 hrs ago #54
It wasn't changing the channel where moonscape 15 hrs ago #14
Well, that is part of it. OldBaldy1701E 5 hrs ago #53
There were plenty of so-called "overweight" kids then. Don't kid yourself. valleyrogue 2 hrs ago #63
We didn't eat out, or fast food mtngirl47 14 hrs ago #40
People took diet pills, especially women. Girls were fat shamed to high heaven, often by their mothers. valleyrogue 13 hrs ago #47
This is my life MoonlightHillFarm 16 hrs ago #4
Who is When Jekyll Meets Hyde? What research goes into these assertions? What are these AI-voiced claims based on? WhiskeyGrinder 16 hrs ago #6
I watched, I related. You didn't? OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #19
You related to it because you were primed to and it's designed to be relatable. WhiskeyGrinder 15 hrs ago #22
It's fundamentally wrong because it's made with unethical tools trained on stolen intellectual highplainsdem 15 hrs ago #25
I get what you are sayings....and yes, maybe a warning should warn the consumer that AI content is involved. OAITW r.2.0 14 hrs ago #37
Yeah, I watched a little of their, 'Psychology of People Who Grew Up in the 1980s" video. progressoid 15 hrs ago #27
I was curious myself.... IcyPeas 14 hrs ago #39
Some are copycats. Some apparently operate multiple channels. Some are likely from content farms highplainsdem 13 hrs ago #46
Ok Boomers.... multigraincracker 16 hrs ago #8
I kept my 50 cents a week allowance in a metal Bandaid can... 3catwoman3 16 hrs ago #11
This is AI slop, from a channel set up a couple of months ago that already has 26 videos. This sort highplainsdem 15 hrs ago #23
Thank you canetoad 15 hrs ago #33
More than 20% of the videos that YouTube's algorithm shows to new users are "AI slop" chia 4 hrs ago #60
Those who didn't live through it and try to defend 3825-87867 15 hrs ago #24
Not everyone's Keepthesoulalive 15 hrs ago #26
As a witness of the actual 60's (and the bullshit this video is trying to turn into "Happy Days"), Conjuay 15 hrs ago #29
You are absolutely right. my mom's 1st cousin never really returned from WW2 and OAITW r.2.0 14 hrs ago #41
Also a reality back then: thucythucy 4 hrs ago #59
I'm not sure canetoad 15 hrs ago #30
Every generation has its challenges. BarbD 14 hrs ago #34
De rec. AI slop. Shallow, sweeping, pop psychology generalisations. It's self-congratulatory fortune cookie-style cringe Celerity 14 hrs ago #35
YouTube is rapidly becoming full of AI slop like this. tinrobot 2 hrs ago #69
Interesting. H2O Man 14 hrs ago #38
I kind of relate Historic NY 14 hrs ago #45
Pre and post The Wizard 7 hrs ago #48
My youth was spent... BH liberal 6 hrs ago #49
I am curious, will we just assume AI is slop, or will cachukis 5 hrs ago #51
I remember all the things in that video but I question the conclusions it draws. Ocelot II 5 hrs ago #52
49'er Here. We Have Been Labeled, Vilified, Praised, Envied, Etc. Boomers are NOT.... ColoringFool 2 hrs ago #67
We are so unprepared for people using AI to manipulate us ThreeNoSeep 4 hrs ago #58
And after all that, Turbineguy 4 hrs ago #61
EVERYONE should see reply 39 from IcyPeas. highplainsdem 2 hrs ago #64
Not quite. I grew up a poor Southern California urban kid in the 1960's. haele 2 hrs ago #66
I hated "Leave it to Beaver" Wifes husband 1 hr ago #70
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