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Sanity Claws

(22,332 posts)
3. No longer a thing for most people
Mon Dec 29, 2025, 09:25 PM
Monday

I haven't sent a card in about 20 years. I get cards only from businesses these days.

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i get one from my cpa... ret5hd Monday #1
I got one from Sal's pizza. Shambala Monday #2
No longer a thing for most people Sanity Claws Monday #3
I get 1 back for every 3 I send Johonny Monday #4
Yeah, about the same return ratio for me Shambala Yesterday #21
Price Maninacan Monday #5
I've sent cards I got from Estate Sales the last 10 years. maxsolomon 17 hrs ago #37
The younger families send cards with photos of them and their kids on them, i love them. dem4decades Monday #6
Yes I mostly get these types newdeal2 Monday #13
I have a couple of relatives that send Shambala Yesterday #22
A lot of people I know have stopped sending them completely, or send them only to their highplainsdem Monday #7
Mail delivery is not unreliable. maxsolomon 17 hrs ago #38
I've received enough mail late and heard enough about USPS packages highplainsdem 17 hrs ago #41
I don't know where you live, but maybe your issue is local. maxsolomon 16 hrs ago #42
I'm in the center of the country, but I've heard about problems like the ones I've run into both from highplainsdem 16 hrs ago #44
Cards and packages I sent out on 12/15 are just now being received 15 days later. Totally Tunsie 7 hrs ago #54
Not really. Ocelot II Monday #8
It requires hours and hours of work. Few women have the bandwidth Maru Kitteh Monday #9
I'm the one who does it in my house. I still believe it's important to my elder relatives. maxsolomon 17 hrs ago #39
I only send them to people who care OnionPatch 42 min ago #61
Not so much. Ms. Toad Monday #10
fewer every year, and not just people dying Skittles Monday #11
They have 50 cent Hallmark cards at Dollar Tree.nt helpisontheway 1 hr ago #56
I guess it depends - on age, personal tradition, available time, number of friends and/or family NewHendoLib Monday #12
I still send them out to family and friends Bayard Monday #14
Most that i received this year, were from businesses BlueWaveNeverEnd Yesterday #18
My wife and I send them ITAL Monday #15
My 88-year-old mother still sends Christmas cards. LudwigPastorius Yesterday #16
One of my cousins would not only tout the highlights of the past year Shambala 20 hrs ago #25
Yes Rebl2 20 hrs ago #27
I've always hated those "brag" cards. StarryNite 7 hrs ago #55
I havent mailed a card in years BlueWaveNeverEnd Yesterday #17
I spent about $75 on postage alone. notinkansas Yesterday #19
Heathens. Trump will issue an executive order to restore this sacred tradition dalton99a Yesterday #20
Come to think of it I don't know if we got any this year fujiyamasan Yesterday #23
We haven't been able to coordinate a family photo to use on a card the past few years Shambala 20 hrs ago #24
I think Rebl2 20 hrs ago #26
Only family in other states to whom I'm including a Christmas check. tavernier 20 hrs ago #28
My wife and I have been sending fewer and fewer. Life in the Trumpocene has made us increasingly jaded and cynical. Borogove 19 hrs ago #29
Waste of money and paper in my opinion... FascismIsDeath 19 hrs ago #30
I had some custom ones made this year. gay texan 19 hrs ago #31
My wife and I are experiencing the same thing. patphil 19 hrs ago #32
I quit social media several years ago Shambala 18 hrs ago #33
Crazy where the years have gone. patphil 12 hrs ago #50
We got a ton of them this year bif 18 hrs ago #34
I stopped sending them six years ago. I don't blame people for dropping me off their list for not reciprocating theirs, chia 17 hrs ago #35
We just Zelle things Sympthsical 17 hrs ago #36
I still send them Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin 17 hrs ago #40
People with kids send them Renew Deal 16 hrs ago #43
I like the custom photo cards Shambala 13 hrs ago #46
Yes and I'm glad. It became a chore. CTyankee 13 hrs ago #45
I don't do them. Haven't for years. JustKay 12 hrs ago #47
I send them out. Ecards don't do it for me. n/t valleyrogue 12 hrs ago #48
A few years ago i received an ecard Shambala 12 hrs ago #49
I sent a few this year, Pinback 11 hrs ago #51
Seems to be fading out vapor2 11 hrs ago #52
I haven't sent one in years, I got one from a doc03 10 hrs ago #53
I work for Hallmark (not the Hallmark store) and we sell a lot of cards helpisontheway 1 hr ago #57
My wife still sends them out. Emile 1 hr ago #58
We sent out close to 80 of them. DFW 1 hr ago #59
I send a few out to friends who live far away. Dulcinea 1 hr ago #60
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