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AverageOldGuy

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Thu Jan 8, 2026, 11:50 AM Thursday

Very troubling phone call from daughter [View all]

She is a DC attorney with a big white-shoe law firm. She is a life-long, active, committed Democrat who has worked as a legal observer at elections, riots, demonstrations and the like.

Renee Nicole Good was a volunteer legal observer.


Now that ICE has been declared by Trump, Miller, and Noem to be a law unto itself, she is (1) worried about when she will be shot while working as a legal observer; (2) in tears about the future of this country; and (3) losing sleep over the world her two nieces (her brother's daughters) will inherit.

She has determined what is needed to become a long-term, legal resident of England, Ireland, or Scotland along with Canada, Switzerland (her great-grandparents), and Germany (where she was born). She also has a lead on a couple of jobs in Great Britain as well as leads on homes for sale there.

I told her that what little bit of an estate my wife and I have will be split between her and her brother with some going to the granddaughters and she can have her share anytime she wants to leave. In fact, I will buy from her her Capitol Hill residence so she pockets that profit.

Ms. Average Old Guy and I have renewed our passports and been in contact with the Swiss embassy(my grandparents).

My community in Northern Virginia has a BIG minority population -- Hispanic, Muslim, and Asian. We have seen almost no ICE activity, an occasional arrest is all. However, we (whom I will not define) have been meeting quietly -- what can we legally do in the face of ICE or NG; how to do it; establishing contact with local community leaders and faith leaders. If they show up here WE WILL NOT COMPLY.

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I just had the same conversation last night with a friend. Irish_Dem Thursday #1
I read where the IRS popsdenver Thursday #9
The rich have it all figured out by now. Irish_Dem Thursday #12
of course climate change is real rampartd Thursday #32
Melting the ice will reveal priceless resources the billionaires want. Irish_Dem Thursday #33
if they wanted to save money they would put the data centers on the moon rampartd Thursday #34
Consumers and taxpayers are paying most of their costs. Irish_Dem Thursday #36
ain't america great? rampartd Thursday #37
And maybe some microscopic entities they won't Ilsa Friday #61
Billionaires don't care. They have state of the art medical care on demand. Irish_Dem Friday #63
They probably will be hit with double taxation. DFW Friday #50
I broke down in tears at a vigil tonight. yellow dahlia Thursday #45
We are all grieving the loss of our country. Irish_Dem Friday #51
Is is worse than we thought it would be... yellow dahlia Friday #58
Exactly. Irish_Dem Friday #59
I wrote a "piece" that was a warning, and I toned it down... yellow dahlia Friday #60
I dont have enough money to move and become a resident of a foreign country, its very very expensive. I wish I could Cheezoholic Thursday #2
If you can't move to another country, maybe try moving to a deep blue state thought crime Thursday #10
That's be nice. I cant. I have a small home in the country paid off. I'm 63 and disabled Cheezoholic Thursday #15
If you have a donkey, you'll be okay. thought crime Thursday #35
I'm in a similar situation Random Boomer Friday #47
Moving anti-repub Friday #55
I'm okay. thought crime Friday #62
It's not necessarily that expensive cannabis_flower Thursday #16
Won't the credit card companies BonnieJW Thursday #20
Soc sec is protected from credit card garnishment Catlady123 Thursday #27
That's good to know even for someone like me who has no debt. llmart Thursday #43
No, they can't cannabis_flower Thursday #28
Like I said, 20 years ago sure. But I'll be lucky to live another 10 years. Not worth the trouble Cheezoholic Thursday #22
It is no longer cheap to move to Mexico. MoonchildCA Thursday #41
I understand her concerns, but the midterms (if they happen) will key to seeing if things can improve. Doodley Thursday #3
I understand your daughter's concern and yours. But I question this Dan Thursday #4
I have homegirl Thursday #5
Your daughter is not alone in that thinking Quiet Em Thursday #6
My great grandfather immigrated here from Italy Dave says Thursday #39
Ireland allows dual citizenship for Americans Quiet Em Thursday #42
I need to research it myself, not have others do the work for me, but... Dave says Thursday #44
Your daughter's situation might be a little different FakeNoose Thursday #7
Doing same with my daughter cpamomfromtexas Thursday #8
Good luck with all that, however Europe might not be terribly safe for much longer misanthrope Thursday #11
I told my trans kid in NC to make an escape plan, NOW FirstLight Thursday #13
Contingencies are made... WokeAintWhatIAm Thursday #25
I have a nephew who has moved to the UK mnhtnbb Thursday #14
All some of us can do is hunker down. Linda ladeewolf Thursday #21
I've had friends move to Spain and Norway TBF Thursday #17
My niece got an MA at Edinburgh University. stollen Thursday #31
My career had me circumnavigating the globe Dave says Thursday #40
I get that. stollen 14 hrs ago #64
Be safe. Joinfortmill Thursday #18
WHY jaymac Thursday #19
Words cannot offer solace, but now is not the time for that. WokeAintWhatIAm Thursday #23
Check direction WokeAintWhatIAm Thursday #24
Renes's family is saying otherwise. RandySF Thursday #26
It takes about a year from start to finish to get out ime Arazi Thursday #29
I don't know how to feel about people who choose to leave because things are difficult. Srkdqltr Thursday #30
How do you feel about the people who left Germany before the outbreak of WWII? Random Boomer Friday #48
Yes, but i was just wondering how the left behind felt. Even if they survived? Srkdqltr Friday #49
I'm one of the left-behinds Random Boomer Friday #53
Ok good. Srkdqltr Friday #54
I ain't leaving Nigrum Cattus Thursday #38
"The only chains, that we can stand, are the chains of hand in hand" struggle4progress Thursday #46
It is good you have the financial ability to help her. Many trapped here do not have such help. I wish her well artemisia1 Friday #52
Thank you for your daughter's service LetMyPeopleVote Friday #56
Are there safe places? GreenWave Friday #57
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