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In reply to the discussion: New angle shows Good blocking the street and honking before the shooting. [View all]LuckyCharms
(21,876 posts)with a long diatribe of meaningless words...when your intention is to imply that the victim somehow was at fault.
Your intentions are showing through in this post, and that's why you are getting unfavorable feedback.
People are reading this in a way that says "She was at fault".
It's because of the language you used.
People are genuinely sickened by what happened. People are worried for their wives and daughters. People are worried if they will be next.
And to read your long OP containing the words "she showed her ass" negates everything you THINK you are trying to say.
I don't think we've interacted before, but if a lot of people tell you that you are wrong, than you likely are indeed wrong.
Your OP insulted the memory of the victim, and an apology, rather than a lame clarification, would probably go a long way.