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niyad

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25. I am very lucky. I have been called that a number of times, as well as
Sun Jan 11, 2026, 04:41 PM
5 hrs ago

the c-word (which, as I have posted previously, I proudly claim, knowing the origin) but physical violence never followed. For some reason, those trying to frighten and insult me have tended to be intimidated. The times someone did try, "you fucking bitch" was not part of it.

However, from many years of DV work, I know all too well that far too many other women have not been so fotunate.

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He shot her in the face [View all] mountain grammy 7 hrs ago OP
Has anyone else had their anxiety triple with the murder of Renee Good? vapor2 7 hrs ago #1
How about a hug? Trailrider1951 7 hrs ago #3
Yes. mountain grammy 6 hrs ago #8
My anxiety soared when the Orange Hellbeast attacked a sovereign nation and abducted their head of state. ShazzieB 5 hrs ago #27
I needed this Joinfortmill 5 hrs ago #31
I have heard it for many different reasons, was raised with it. MuseRider 7 hrs ago #2
Yep mountain grammy 6 hrs ago #10
That man is a domestic abuser sboatcar 7 hrs ago #4
Sure not the actions of an innocent man. mountain grammy 7 hrs ago #5
Me, right before I hit the wall with abdominal staples dehisced Maru Kitteh 6 hrs ago #6
You're still here mountain grammy 6 hrs ago #7
You too MG. You too. Maru Kitteh 6 hrs ago #9
How awful, Maru Kitteh. My heart breaks for you. MIButterfly 6 hrs ago #19
Thank you for your kind MuseRider 3 hrs ago #39
The real question is xmas74 6 hrs ago #11
Well.. stillspkg 6 hrs ago #15
This is why my ex-husband is my ex..... Bayard 4 hrs ago #33
I'm so sorry mountain grammy. Scrivener7 6 hrs ago #12
Thank you mountain grammy 6 hrs ago #16
That doesn't go away. No matter how long ago. Scrivener7 6 hrs ago #17
It's a common phrase spoken by weak men... LuckyCharms 6 hrs ago #13
I hope i say this right Srkdqltr 6 hrs ago #14
You just did MuseRider 3 hrs ago #40
Say it with me: BurnDoubt 6 hrs ago #18
Me, moved on, survived, and surpassed. I saw it again in tRump when he first ran for office, txwhitedove 6 hrs ago #20
Hugs to all of us who have had to listen to this verbal hateful abuse. Clouds Passing 6 hrs ago #21
the only time I heard YOU FUCKING BITCH Skittles 5 hrs ago #22
👍 mountain grammy 5 hrs ago #28
Yes, a very long time ago. Joinfortmill 5 hrs ago #23
Dead!? We'll be lucky if they don't apotheosize him! nt Wednesdays 5 hrs ago #32
Post today from JoJoFromJerz erronis 5 hrs ago #24
That's a good read. Highly recommend it underpants 5 hrs ago #29
Great piece mountain grammy 4 hrs ago #37
I am very lucky. I have been called that a number of times, as well as niyad 5 hrs ago #25
Every time I've been called that... Pacifist Patriot 5 hrs ago #26
This may be the reason why this incident resonates with so many Wednesdays 5 hrs ago #30
If that asshole murderer doesn't beat his wife, there ain't a cow in Texas. raccoon 4 hrs ago #34
This is the first time I've heard this aspect of the murder Bayard 4 hrs ago #35
I was putting gas in my car and a truck Zackzzzz 4 hrs ago #36
Thank you for this mountain Grammy. democrank 3 hrs ago #38
My neighbor calls me that though not to my face. He just tells everyone Raine 2 hrs ago #41
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