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Pacifist Patriot

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26. Every time I've been called that...

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Sun Jan 11, 2026, 04:41 PM

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I either feared for my physical safety or my career was sabotaged.

Men have no idea how dangerous it is to simply allow a man to experience his insecurities.

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He shot her in the face [View all] mountain grammy 19 hrs ago OP

Has anyone else had their anxiety triple with the murder of Renee Good? vapor2 19 hrs ago #1

How about a hug? Trailrider1951 19 hrs ago #3

Yes. mountain grammy 19 hrs ago #8

My anxiety soared when the Orange Hellbeast attacked a sovereign nation and abducted their head of state. ShazzieB 17 hrs ago #27

I needed this Joinfortmill 17 hrs ago #31

I'm exactly there, SB. Anyone can join, just BYOBlanket. littlemissmartypants 1 hr ago #45

That video. mountain grammy 5 min ago #50

I have heard it for many different reasons, was raised with it. MuseRider 19 hrs ago #2

Yep mountain grammy 19 hrs ago #10

That man is a domestic abuser sboatcar 19 hrs ago #4

Sure not the actions of an innocent man. mountain grammy 19 hrs ago #5

Me, right before I hit the wall with abdominal staples dehisced Maru Kitteh 19 hrs ago #6

You're still here mountain grammy 19 hrs ago #7

You too MG. You too. Maru Kitteh 19 hrs ago #9

How awful, Maru Kitteh. My heart breaks for you. MIButterfly 18 hrs ago #19

Thank you for your kind MuseRider 15 hrs ago #39

"We know what we see when we see it." Silver Gaia 8 hrs ago #43

The real question is xmas74 19 hrs ago #11

Well.. stillspkg 18 hrs ago #15

This is why my ex-husband is my ex..... Bayard 17 hrs ago #33

I'm so sorry mountain grammy. Scrivener7 18 hrs ago #12

Thank you mountain grammy 18 hrs ago #16

That doesn't go away. No matter how long ago. Scrivener7 18 hrs ago #17

It's a common phrase spoken by weak men... LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #13

I hope i say this right Srkdqltr 18 hrs ago #14

You just did MuseRider 15 hrs ago #40

Say it with me: BurnDoubt 18 hrs ago #18

Me, moved on, survived, and surpassed. I saw it again in tRump when he first ran for office, txwhitedove 18 hrs ago #20

Hugs to all of us who have had to listen to this verbal hateful abuse. Clouds Passing 18 hrs ago #21

the only time I heard YOU FUCKING BITCH Skittles 18 hrs ago #22

👍 mountain grammy 17 hrs ago #28

Yes, a very long time ago. Joinfortmill 18 hrs ago #23

Dead!? We'll be lucky if they don't apotheosize him! nt Wednesdays 17 hrs ago #32

Post today from JoJoFromJerz erronis 17 hrs ago #24

That's a good read. Highly recommend it underpants 17 hrs ago #29

Great piece mountain grammy 16 hrs ago #37

Yes. Thank you for sharing this with us. Silver Gaia 8 hrs ago #44

I am very lucky. I have been called that a number of times, as well as niyad 17 hrs ago #25

Every time I've been called that... Pacifist Patriot 17 hrs ago #26

This may be the reason why this incident resonates with so many Wednesdays 17 hrs ago #30

If that asshole murderer doesn't beat his wife, there ain't a cow in Texas. raccoon 17 hrs ago #34

This is the first time I've heard this aspect of the murder Bayard 17 hrs ago #35

I was putting gas in my car and a truck Zackzzzz 16 hrs ago #36

Thank you for this mountain Grammy. democrank 16 hrs ago #38

My neighbor calls me that though not to my face. He just tells everyone Raine 14 hrs ago #41

So very sad for all those who have been on the receiving end of violent, ugly words. summer_in_TX 9 hrs ago #42

My first marriage was a short one, not even a year. ... littlemissmartypants 1 hr ago #46

She did not hear those words. He needlessly & illegally shot her point blank inches away. But it's telling that he.. themaguffin 1 hr ago #47

Here's My Theory DallasNE 49 min ago #48

I made a lot more money - the marriage lasted 2 years TBF 37 min ago #49

The instant I learned what that murderer said Grammy23 31 sec ago #51