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Staph

(6,456 posts)
17. The exception to everything he said....
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 01:41 PM
1 hr ago

is if you are a woman, driving alone.

I was told by a sheriff's daughter some advice from her old man. If you are a woman driving alone, especially at night, and you see flashing lights directly behind you, turn on your flashers and drive to the nearest populated area - a gas station, a store parking lot, whatever. If you know where there is a nearby police station, go there.

Turning on your flashers says "I see you". Going to a populated space may keep you from getting raped or worse.

That advice is 30 years old, but I still think about it when I see a police car coming up behind me. Thankfully, I've never had to use it.


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4 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

What worries me is that these roid-raging thugs will interpret someone getting out as a threat-- viva la 3 hrs ago #1
You only get out if they tell you to nt EX500rider 2 hrs ago #6
Seldom do I watch YouTube's because they take too long to get to the point..but this was outstanding, easy to watch and Ninga 3 hrs ago #2
Here is a little bit different take on this... NowsTheTime 3 hrs ago #3
Transcript. If you can't copy and paste or print out a video. usonian 2 hrs ago #13
really good information Roc2020 3 hrs ago #4
not necessarily good information cab67 3 hrs ago #5
Basically stay in the car with window down & hands in sight unless told to exit EX500rider 2 hrs ago #7
When ordered to get out of your car, lock the door behind you. It becomes another 4th Amendment blockade and the cops OMGWTF 2 hrs ago #14
It looks like an advertisement. I say situational awareness is the first rule of self defense. littlemissmartypants 2 hrs ago #8
In what neighborhood? Cirsium 2 hrs ago #9
Would be nice to have a written list of do's and don't's . . . AverageOldGuy 2 hrs ago #10
Good luck rolling the window up & locking the door ...instead simply state that "I do not concent to any searches" NowsTheTime 2 hrs ago #11
Yes, You start rolling up your windows before getting out..... Zackzzzz 1 hr ago #18
Transcript, in case you can'r memorize videos. usonian 2 hrs ago #12
So we should assume they won't prevent us from closing the door? Raven123 2 hrs ago #15
Can't they just unlock the door Mossfern 1 hr ago #16
The exception to everything he said.... Staph 1 hr ago #17
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