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AnotherMother4Peace

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20. He has extremely awkward mannerisms, especially when challenged. The way he speaks, shifts his eyes,
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 02:57 PM
Feb 1

holds his body, tilts his head - he's socially awkward. It seems that the idea that he's wrong is a personal threat and challenge to him. That's when he displays his extremely awkward mannerisms.

I believe that he was bullied as a child, and learned how to be a bully. He learned how to be a cruel bully, more cruel than the people who bullied him.

From my experience working with children/adults on the autism spectrum, he may be autistic. He reminds me a bit of Sheldon from the Big Bang theory (the early seasons). Children w/autism are different and are often bullied. Their social skills are limited, but often have great knowledge about subjects that interest them.

I had a little group of 5 year olds at the beach, all playing in the sand, except for one little boy. He was trying to figure out which rays of the sun were penetrating the umbrellas, and wanted to talk to the other kids about it. Needless to say they weren't interested.

EDIT to add: I believe he doesn't think people can love unconditionally, can give for the sake of giving, care about others because of empathy. I really believe that he thinks everyone has ulterior motives, and judges people as such.

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Diagnostically difficult to say Fiendish Thingy Feb 1 #1
we can all agree that this guy IS a very strange (and repulsive) specimen stopdiggin Feb 1 #4
Out of curiosity, True Dough Feb 1 #6
Lots of Beatles fans would choose a TxGuitar Feb 1 #12
Malignant narcissism with sociopathy, imho, though I am not a credentialled expert. Nevertheless, I have 40+ artemisia1 Feb 1 #2
I think there's an element of insecurity to him, also... buzzycrumbhunger Feb 1 #13
"malignant narcissism" H2O Man Feb 1 #14
Shoved into too many school lockers n/t leftstreet Feb 1 #3
One more time! True Dough Feb 1 #8
Weld it orangecrush Feb 1 #21
He's no different from racists from the past. We are just not used to seeing it this close and up front tulipsandroses Feb 1 #5
No need to pathologize him. He's simply racist asshole. WhiskeyGrinder Feb 1 #7
Hard to say. I raised the question to a psychiatrist I know about why some people are evil, Ocelot II Feb 1 #9
Psychopath. Irish_Dem Feb 1 #10
I think he's on the low end of the Hitler - Pol Pot spectum orangecrush Feb 1 #16
He lacks empathy and morally is a three year old. Phoenix61 Feb 1 #11
Thank you orangecrush Feb 1 #17
Recommended. H2O Man Feb 1 #15
Thank you orangecrush Feb 1 #18
psych training - does watching newhart count? nt msongs Feb 1 #19
Of course orangecrush Feb 1 #22
He has extremely awkward mannerisms, especially when challenged. The way he speaks, shifts his eyes, AnotherMother4Peace Feb 1 #20
Thanks orangecrush Feb 1 #23
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