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Sympthsical

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81. Yep. Just like Weinstein and Ronan Farrow
Mon Apr 13, 2026, 10:49 AM
Apr 13

Rumors or knowledge swirling around for a period of time. Power and influence being used to shut it down from being "officially" public. Then someone hears about it and decides to dig - and victims or people with evidence are willing to go on record.

Boom. And the house of cards falls down.

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KNR niyad Apr 13 #1
Tribes protect valuable members. OC375 Apr 13 #2
It's California Bettie Apr 13 #4
Agreed. OC375 Apr 13 #5
Which makes the question posed in the article even more compelling. yardwork Apr 13 #12
If this was known Bettie Apr 13 #3
Yes. "Open Secret?" I certainly had not heard the rumblings but perhaps within the beltway... hlthe2b Apr 13 #6
"So, yeah. It appears the pump was fully primed on Friday within the circles who fully "knew" but amazing to me, did not WhiskeyGrinder Apr 13 #8
I Believe The Term Refers To Those Working With Or For Swalwell, Not "Us". ColoringFool Apr 13 #78
My daughter is a CA Dem delegate and a caucus chair, and she had never heard those rumors. deurbano Apr 13 #93
I concur. In this world there are "upstanders" snd Ninga Apr 13 #104
I have never come across any decent humans who are cheaters jfz9580m Apr 13 #124
Same here.... I guess 'open secret' meant within the House of Reps ONLY--- Jack Valentino Apr 13 #145
Exactly WSHazel Apr 13 #7
One of the reasons I didn't quite believe it at first Bettie Apr 13 #9
Madoff is the epitome of this behavior WSHazel Apr 13 #59
Broken stair analogy, plus organizations like to hold on to high performers, even when they're terrible people. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 13 #10
And the biggest missing stair in our politics happens to be President! (n/t) thesquanderer Apr 13 #94
Arnold Schwarzenegger fathered a son with the family's housekeeper, kept the child a secret while he was sop Apr 13 #11
The sad fact is that a lot of men get away with it. yardwork Apr 13 #16
Thank you jfz9580m Apr 13 #27
Just to be clear, a lot of the "wait and see" was about not SEEING all the facts yet RandomNumbers Apr 13 #28
Wait and see is one thing. yardwork Apr 13 #31
Yes, I agree with you on that point. RandomNumbers Apr 13 #35
It has helped me make a final decision jfz9580m Apr 13 #77
"Immediately blaming every woman in sight is something else." MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #123
Nope. I'm not calling out any DUer. yardwork Apr 13 #128
There was someone here yesterday asking what was expected if a drunk woman goes to a man's hotel room EdmondDantes_ Apr 13 #45
Should be asking, why would a responsible man RandomNumbers Apr 13 #67
More than one poster suggested that the bank accounts of the victims needed to be investigated MichMan Apr 13 #68
The question was MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #125
That's not the post I was referring to EdmondDantes_ Apr 13 #129
I have seen post, that in my opinion suggest voting for him Lifeafter70 Apr 13 #60
That's what stood out to me jfz9580m Apr 13 #82
It is VERY sad that a Democrat who has been so effective against Trump, Jack Valentino Apr 13 #146
Based on Arnold, obviously he had a good reason to think so. LisaL Apr 13 #62
I had no idea this was an open secret. Disgusting. Passages Apr 13 #13
People thought the party was taking crazy pills Sympthsical Apr 13 #14
I imagine the Republicans were hoping he'd be the nominee. yardwork Apr 13 #17
I still haven't heard a credible explanation from "The timing is suspicious!" crowd Sympthsical Apr 13 #19
There was a spontaneous eruption of that phrase on DU. yardwork Apr 13 #20
Hasn't hurt many of the GOP members samplegirl Apr 13 #15
The death of accountability is a good headline. yardwork Apr 13 #18
The difference between virtue signalling and actual virtue on full display Sympthsical Apr 13 #21
And every other woman in sight was blamed, too. yardwork Apr 13 #23
I think Katie Porter will actually be hurt by this Scrivener7 Apr 13 #25
Absolutely. She's getting the Hillary Clinton Kamala Harris treatment. yardwork Apr 13 #37
There's another element here. She's running against a man people liked a lot who turned out to be a dog. Scrivener7 Apr 13 #44
On the other hand - I suspect many Democratic voters will now see her as more of a sure bet peppertree Apr 13 #54
As a former CA member of the House, she was in karynnj Apr 13 #92
Probably true. Scrivener7 Apr 13 #102
OMG, nobody said anything like that on here. MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #135
She clearly is being hit on this karynnj Apr 13 #90
Tribal reaction. Dems are not immune from it. paleotn Apr 13 #49
Exactly! This is not a game, folks. paleotn Apr 13 #43
there's been nothing but accountability from the party and Dem supporters, including Swalwell's bigtree Apr 13 #143
nothing in that article backed up the claim that 'His sexual misconduct was an open secret' bigtree Apr 13 #22
It was very much an open secret Sympthsical Apr 13 #24
That's sad. I wonder if this was known more than locally? Many will blow it off as "just gossip" LeftInTX Apr 13 #32
Unfortunately, it seems to be considered 'acceptable' for men to behave like that RandomNumbers Apr 13 #33
For years. Incredible, one would imagine he was the only politician they could back. Passages Apr 13 #36
Why encourage him to run for governor? MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #132
"Everybody just turned a blind eye and went about their lives for years?" Sympthsical Apr 13 #137
Kevin MCarthy on CNN question everything Apr 13 #52
not one of the sources I'd trust for anything bigtree Apr 13 #85
Whatever else is true about how "known" Swalwell's behavior was, My Kevin is not a reliable reporter. deurbano Apr 13 #99
Kevin MCarthy??? MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #131
I noticed the word "misconduct" people knew of his "misconduct" and chose to ignore it. But "misconduct" has now Ninga Apr 13 #66
Stop blaming Nancy Pelosi. yardwork Apr 13 #79
Excuse me. There are "upstanders" and "bystanders" Ninga Apr 13 #107
Exactly. No matter their last name or gender. N/T AloeVera Apr 13 #120
"Inappropriate" behaviour by a person in power is grooming. AloeVera Apr 13 #119
Here is a possible explanation karynnj Apr 13 #96
it's not clear anyone knew except the people claiming it was well known bigtree Apr 13 #121
Just because you didn't know... Random Boomer Apr 13 #100
internet gossip bigtree Apr 13 #122
There is this tweet from Dec 2025 LeftInTX Apr 13 #26
great reply Celerity Apr 13 #29
what did he do with that information bigtree Apr 13 #41
The answer is right in the article. Nanjeanne Apr 13 #47
more background as well Celerity Apr 13 #57
He's an interesting read. Did you see this one? Sympthsical Apr 13 #69
I figured as much. Unless Becerra finds rocket fuel and blows up out of his months-long 2 to 5 per cent level, it looks, Celerity Apr 13 #88
I see the problem with Becerra Sympthsical Apr 13 #97
"...what did both of these men do other than this political chit-chat on social media?" WhiskeyGrinder Apr 13 #48
that's still just conjecture bigtree Apr 13 #86
Because the victims had to come forward Sympthsical Apr 13 #51
That's how it was with Tony Gonzales. LeftInTX Apr 13 #70
Yep. Just like Weinstein and Ronan Farrow Sympthsical Apr 13 #81
The comments made by some poster here Lifeafter70 Apr 13 #72
Humans gonna human Sympthsical Apr 13 #84
Threat of lawsuit? RoseTrellis Apr 13 #65
Wow. Passages Apr 13 #42
The Democratic Party doesn't allow this kind of behavor. Escape Apr 13 #30
True. Shades of Gary Hart. peppertree Apr 13 #46
Wait-a-sec mr715 Apr 13 #111
Sure. peppertree Apr 13 #113
I'll have to check out Ms. Kelley's book. mr715 Apr 13 #114
That could have something to do with it peppertree Apr 13 #116
Thanks for the insight mr715 Apr 13 #133
You're very welcome peppertree Apr 13 #140
Well, The Democratic Party Apparently Does So "Allow," Until...., ColoringFool Apr 13 #80
True - but at least they have limits peppertree Apr 13 #105
Sent me to the all knowing internet to find out who Rielle Hunter is... Escape Apr 13 #136
Nobody wants to be the messenger. milestogo Apr 13 #34
That's true... LeftInTX Apr 13 #38
The Gary Hart of our times peppertree Apr 13 #39
My exact thought this morning. paleotn Apr 13 #50
Gary Hart may have been a reckless philanderer, but Jose Garcia Apr 13 #56
There's still issues of consent going after a parade of young women EdmondDantes_ Apr 13 #95
I believe the House introduced a resolution in 2018 prohibiting any sexual contact between a member and staff MichMan Apr 13 #103
Luckily for Lady G, it didn't apply to the Senate peppertree Apr 13 #106
"Accountability" only applies to Democrats. valleyrogue Apr 13 #40
Sad - but true. And you see that in many other democracies. peppertree Apr 13 #108
Gandhi??? LeftInTX Apr 13 #126
So Gandhi was quite the dandy. peppertree Apr 13 #141
Scene from the 1933 movie 42nd Street LeftInTX Apr 13 #144
If party leadership knew about this & didn't discourage him from running for gov, then they're complicit, too. CrispyQ Apr 13 #53
That's the part that got me Tree Lady Apr 13 #74
The weird thing is jfz9580m Apr 13 #55
He is resigning. Accountability is taking place. Martin68 Apr 13 #58
Philandering is one thing but Billsdaughter Apr 13 #61
"Was an open secret for a long time" sunnybrook Apr 13 #63
The open secret appears to have been that he was sleeping around while married. LisaL Apr 13 #64
If higher ups in the party knew, they shouldn't have encouraged him to run for governor. LeftInTX Apr 13 #76
I agree. LisaL Apr 13 #83
I'd like to see those sources too MorbidButterflyTat Apr 13 #130
I think a lot of people just liked that Swalwell that was an attack dog against Trump and didn't care about much else MichMan Apr 13 #71
Too many people repeat everything Trump says and seem to believe it as well Just_Vote_Dem Apr 13 #75
that's not evident in anything bigtree Apr 13 #87
This message was self-deleted by its author MichMan Apr 13 #98
"The rumors that are being discussed as being generally known are of consensual relationships, not sexual assault or WhiskeyGrinder Apr 13 #101
I never understood the Avenatti stanning. He always seemed like a plonker to me. I certianly never got invested in the Celerity Apr 13 #91
DURec leftstreet Apr 13 #73
I'm not a fan of situational ethics. democrank Apr 13 #89
Yes. And a horror I have heard applauded jfz9580m Apr 13 #112
How soon we forget Edwards and other Dem 'womanizers' JCMach1 Apr 13 #109
How soon we forget Edwards and other Dem 'womanizers' JCMach1 Apr 13 #110
I mean like, what 50 year old man sends dick pics to his girlfriends? Jersey Devil Apr 13 #115
This is another dispiriting revelation peggysue2 Apr 13 #117
Power does strange things to some people MustLoveBeagles Apr 13 #139
I have counter evidence for the last sentence. My daughter endorsed Swalwell before hearing any rumors, then "quickly deurbano Apr 13 #118
Obviously most of us (in general public) LisaL Apr 13 #127
I certainly did not, even thoI fancy myself to be rather well informed. 3catwoman3 Apr 13 #134
With all due respect Sympthsical Apr 13 #138
As The "Old Folks" Say..........🎶........ ColoringFool Apr 13 #142
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