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Lifeafter70

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24. Yes more women are abused by someone thwy trust

Tue Apr 14, 2026, 05:56 PM

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It might happen in a short time are take years of grooming. There can be isolated incidents, that we excuse or blame ourselves for. Eventually the abuse increases with time in some cases. That's one of the reasons women don't leave their abuser.
There is many different types of abusers some may never get physical but emotional abuse is just as damaging as physical.

Education can be a powerful tool and needs to be done not only for young women but our young men as well.

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A friend and I were discussing assaults, both sexual and otherwise, [View all] niyad Tuesday OP

Most sexual assaults are not stranger abductions. yardwork Tuesday #1

Yes, taught to be nice is abig one. Figarosmom Tuesday #4

Exactly! yardwork Tuesday #5

You will notice that I did not limit my OP to sexual assaults only. niyad Tuesday #20

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I think it's Solar plexus, Insole, Nose, Groin EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #11

Thanks! LearnedHand Tuesday #12

Watch Miss Congeniality! MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #25

That's where i first learned about it lol LearnedHand Tuesday #33

I like that dye idea, like in money robbed from a bank EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #9

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My fantasy is that men are barred from owning any weapon. Irish_Dem Tuesday #27

Sadly, the way things are going in this misogynist, patriarchal niyad Tuesday #28

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All very interesting. But PLEASE notice that I specifically mentioned niyad Tuesday #32

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??? niyad Tuesday #17

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If you find yourself in a bad situation, wnylib Tuesday #34

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