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67. Dearest Calif. Peg ,,,
Sat May 16, 2026, 07:35 PM
14 hrs ago

Do NOT become discouraged! After each of two surgeries past 79 yrs, I lost my short term memory for about 6-8 mos. due to combination of anesthesia and pain meds. Long term remained intact. Took about 2 yrs. to clear up errors that I made during that period of memory loss.
Very good friends helped me clear up the errors and get back on tract. (Note: I lived alone and still do,)
Prior to updating my Last W&T a short time ago, my PCPs (NP and her boss) both gave written statements as to my mental acuity.
Yes, there are words that I mispronounce, some that know well, but can not say as my brain can find the synapse to get them to my tongue. I put things away and don't remember where. These are normal happenings for us. (I laugh at myself a lot - and keep looking til they turn up.)
My Grandmother wrote a poem in her mind at age 98 and dictated it to a visiting niece who wrote it down sent it to all of us living grand-children (was15, now 7). All 7 of us Grandkids, (oldest 91; youngest, 73) inherited Grandmothers sense of of humor and her optimism. As all of our bodies are aging, it is the last two (plus family, friends and Angels) that keep us going.
Hang in there, my friend. We DUers NEED your beautiful posts!

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Great news malaise 22 hrs ago #1
Time is moving too fast for all of us Boomers. I'll livetohike 22 hrs ago #2
Dearest CaPeggy Niagara 22 hrs ago #3
Congratulations, CaliforniaPeggy! Totally Tunsie 22 hrs ago #4
Wonderful pathology report. spanone 22 hrs ago #5
You have been through a lot, Peggy! SheltieLover 22 hrs ago #6
Great news! Swede 22 hrs ago #7
Good to hear they got it all. sinkingfeeling 22 hrs ago #8
Excellent news on the cancer being fully removed! Solly Mack 22 hrs ago #9
Feel safe, rest and get better. BootinUp 22 hrs ago #10
Six hours is rough Nigrum Cattus 22 hrs ago #11
One of the earliest things I remember learning in nursing school... 3catwoman3 22 hrs ago #12
I waa wondering about that, how cleanly the cancer came out... NNadir 21 hrs ago #13
Really great news CaliforniaPeggy! bsiebs 21 hrs ago #14
I find the hardest part after surgery is to be patient during recovery. HeartsCanHope 21 hrs ago #15
Your new job is recovery Marthe48 21 hrs ago #16
The best news, Peggy . . . peggysue2 21 hrs ago #17
I'm glad to hear they got it all out :) Dave says 21 hrs ago #18
"the cancer was removed in its entirety" is the absolute BEST news. I think you LoisB 21 hrs ago #19
Give yourself some grace. hamsterjill 21 hrs ago #20
Good news and you are doing great! cksmithy 21 hrs ago #21
Wonderful news. Enjoy living.... surfered 21 hrs ago #22
Oh dear Peggy Grim Chieftain 21 hrs ago #23
I'm so glad they got it all! cate94 21 hrs ago #24
You are doing great. Keep it up. multigraincracker 21 hrs ago #25
Continued healing. Tommy Carcetti 21 hrs ago #26
Every day is a good day Wild blueberry 21 hrs ago #27
Be kind to yourself. Nevilledog 21 hrs ago #28
That is really great news, Peggy! kentuck 21 hrs ago #29
My dear Ms Peggy. It is such good news that the surgeon got it all, niyad 21 hrs ago #30
Peggy, I so get every word of your OP. I'm with Ninga 21 hrs ago #31
It does seem longer than two months to me. LeftInTX 21 hrs ago #32
There were lots and lots of prayers going out for you. lamp_shade 21 hrs ago #33
That's wonderful news CP, JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #34
You are an amazingly strong woman... Spazito 20 hrs ago #35
Happy for you people 20 hrs ago #36
We were on Pins and Needles for those early days IbogaProject 20 hrs ago #37
So happy to see this.. mountain grammy 20 hrs ago #38
Glad to hear you're doing OK. edbermac 20 hrs ago #39
So happy to hear angrychair 20 hrs ago #40
Yeah, recovery after cancer surgery is like that. mwmisses4289 20 hrs ago #41
Perfect, California Peggy... stay healthy and positive as always about your health! hlthe2b 20 hrs ago #42
Smiles BaronChocula 20 hrs ago #43
I typed enough pathology reports to recognize that this is very good news....often with deep emotion for the patient joanbarnes 20 hrs ago #44
I'm so happy for you, Peggy! karin_sj 19 hrs ago #45
Peggy, that's fabulous news that they got all the cancer! I am sorry to hear that the recovery has been highplainsdem 19 hrs ago #46
Such wonderful news! bif 19 hrs ago #47
awesome, Ms. Pegster Skittles 19 hrs ago #48
Congratulations! DelMar dem 19 hrs ago #49
This si great news! Have the doctors cleared you ... JustABozoOnThisBus 19 hrs ago #50
Of course they have! CaliforniaPeggy 19 hrs ago #51
OMG, prayers answered on that pathology report! :D Beartracks 19 hrs ago #52
We are so happy you're with us! Nt spooky3 19 hrs ago #53
I'm glad the cancer was completely removed senseandsensibility 18 hrs ago #54
Well, Peggy, ... A successful surgery with a long recovery time is SO much better.... 70sEraVet 18 hrs ago #55
Wow! There's a lot to unpack in that message. debsy 18 hrs ago #56
Coming up on a year since my wife's diagnosis. Old Crank 18 hrs ago #57
The good news, CP, you're are here now and recovering everyday. Buddyzbuddy 18 hrs ago #58
You are bravely facing rehabilitation with loads of caring energy coming from us every day. Facing the trauma of a KitFox 18 hrs ago #59
I can relate having been through a long recovery from surgery myself. The anxiety of it all, GoodRaisin 18 hrs ago #60
Keep on truckin' n/t malthaussen 17 hrs ago #61
Excellent News ProfessorGAC 17 hrs ago #62
I've had to say this to several friends in recent months. Trueblue Texan 16 hrs ago #63
You have nailed my situation perfectly, my dear Trueblue Texan! Thanks so much! CaliforniaPeggy 16 hrs ago #64
You are such a lovely human being California Peggy. 1WorldHope 15 hrs ago #65
So glad to hear the pathology report showed they had gotten it all!!! woodsprite 15 hrs ago #66
Dearest Calif. Peg ,,, oldsoldierfadingfast 14 hrs ago #67
God Speed Peggy! n/t Jacson6 13 hrs ago #68
Wonderful popsdenver 13 hrs ago #69
good pathology news! Kali 12 hrs ago #70
Cancer is so scary! Congratulations on your recovery Dan 12 hrs ago #71
Give yourself time to heal MustLoveBeagles 11 hrs ago #72
Hallelujah, dear Peggy! summer_in_TX 10 hrs ago #73
Good to hear padfun 10 hrs ago #74
Keep on truckin' mama BeneteauBum 9 hrs ago #75
If asked canetoad 9 hrs ago #76
Together we are more than the sum of us an idividuals. DU has certainly made a difference in my recoveries. marble falls 9 hrs ago #77
Sending you hugs! FM123 9 hrs ago #78
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m 3 hrs ago #79
I am really happy for you Peggy.nt jfz9580m 2 hrs ago #80
Sit yerself down and stick around for a while! DFW 1 hr ago #81
Very good to hear, m'dear! Maeve 57 min ago #82
Please continue to update, kpete 46 min ago #83
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