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proud2BlibKansan

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Thu Jan 3, 2013, 05:03 PM Jan 2013

The Incredible Story of What Happened When Two Gay Men Were Harassed While Waiting for Pizza [View all]

This past weekend I was a part of something incredible that happened in my community of Columbus, Ohio. After a fun night out in the Short North, my friend Ethan and I ventured down the street to a popular pizza truck called Mikey's Late Night Slice. As a frequent late night visitor to the truck I knew the requisite wait in line is part of the process for securing an insanely good slice of pizza. It was really cold so Ethan and I were holding hands and standing close together to keep warm, we were laughing and joking about all the fun we'd had that night, when all of the sudden the guy in front of us turns around and tells us to cut our "gay shit" out.

I was a bit startled by his words but I didn't expect what happened next. Almost every single person in that line made it known to him it was not OK for him to speak to us like that. By happenstance my friend John, who is also gay, was standing in front of him and as he continued his rant about being disgusted by us we both let him know that this was our city too and that we were not about to stand down to his bigoted ideas, especially not in one of the gayest neighborhoods in town. As he continued it was actually the straight people in line who spoke up that were so awesome.

I didn't expect to see allies so willing to chime in and let this guy know that his hate speech wouldn't be tolerated. The best part though was as he grew more irate and vocal the guys who work the truck stopped what they were doing and leaned towards the window and told him they would not serve him because he was spewing hate. They said they support everyone in our community and that he should get out of line because they would not be serving him. He begrudgingly got out of line and walked away escorted by a friend who had been hanging back.

As I walked away with my pizza all I could think about was "THAT'S IT!" Every person who spoke up to defend us including the pizza guys representing their business was doing their part to make hate a thing of the past. I've been involved for a number of years with our movement for equality having co-chaired the Human Rights Campaign dinner in Columbus and being involved as a community organizer but I had never witnessed such a public display of support. It was incredibly moving.

more . . . http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joel-diaz/lgbt-tolerance_b_2397363.html
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thank you! hedgehog Jan 2013 #1
Wonderful! Excellent... and every superlative ever written! Sekhmets Daughter Jan 2013 #2
I totally titanicdave Jan 2013 #34
Great story. HappyMe Jan 2013 #3
Fantastic! ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #4
great story. I bet even the friend thought he was a jerk. Liberal_in_LA Jan 2013 #5
Good for you and good for the straight guys. Auntie Bush Jan 2013 #6
Nice story. Thanks! closeupready Jan 2013 #7
It is a very Emotional story that represents Cha Jan 2013 #8
did you see the video of the bowling champion smooching his husband? made me cry! DonRedwood Jan 2013 #12
Actually, I had only K&R that yesterday.. Cha Jan 2013 #30
YAYYYYYYYYYYYYY! !!!!!!!!!!! BlancheSplanchnik Jan 2013 #9
Evolution, too!!! calimary Jan 2013 #97
I rec all posts that are about delicious pizza DonRedwood Jan 2013 #10
bowling link...smooches at the end DonRedwood Jan 2013 #13
wow! beautiful! AlecBGreen Jan 2013 #46
I know! A bunch of everyday bowlers got their eyes opened a little bit. DonRedwood Jan 2013 #64
Such a great story! Thanks for sharing! budkin Jan 2013 #11
There is hope for the world after all! Thanks for sharing that! nt Speck Tater Jan 2013 #14
HUGE K & R !!! WillyT Jan 2013 #15
Big grin here! Amaril Jan 2013 #16
Columbus, Ohio! sheshe2 Jan 2013 #17
Thanks for sharing cate94 Jan 2013 #18
I posted this on Mikey's Facebook page Tempest Jan 2013 #19
Since I-70 UncleYoder Jan 2013 #90
Thanks Uncle. Tempest Jan 2013 #94
Beautiful. Hate should always be responded to like this. That would end it. nt SunSeeker Jan 2013 #20
You are so correct. That is how all ignorant hate should be addressed. IndyJones Jan 2013 #81
Hallelujah! ReRe Jan 2013 #21
Great story, as a straight man, I would have spoken up as well. DrewFlorida Jan 2013 #22
As a gay man I'm so happy to see people standing up to bigots loyalkydem Jan 2013 #23
I love this story! NICO9000 Jan 2013 #24
Wow, K&R! AZ Progressive Jan 2013 #25
every once in a while that darn Ohio steps up to the plate! Ninga Jan 2013 #26
Awesome. Nt xchrom Jan 2013 #27
Oh noes! WoodyD Jan 2013 #28
We've come a long way. Thanks for the reminder. Beautiful! mountain grammy Jan 2013 #29
Very cool thanks for sharing.... bowens43 Jan 2013 #31
That story gives me hope lillypaddle Jan 2013 #32
Great story 2naSalit Jan 2013 #33
Bravo! greyghost Jan 2013 #35
I was hoping this would be an uplifting OP nt cbrer Jan 2013 #36
What? Raine1967 Jan 2013 #48
Sometimes the written word cbrer Jan 2013 #49
Don't ever piss off the Pizza Nazi. Ikonoklast Jan 2013 #37
Love, love, love! This is the way it should be! nt babylonsister Jan 2013 #38
Yeah, we're all sick of that shit. vlyons Jan 2013 #39
Tears in my eyes! What a beautiful story, so uplifting! Thanks for posting this, p2blk! freshwest Jan 2013 #40
'bout damn time. n/t AmBlue Jan 2013 #41
as a straight person PatrynXX Jan 2013 #42
This is wonderful! LisaLynne Jan 2013 #43
great to share this Locrian Jan 2013 #44
God that's a great way to start the New Year Hekate Jan 2013 #45
As the mother of a gay man this makes me tear up. badhair77 Jan 2013 #47
The tide has, indeed turned. 99Forever Jan 2013 #50
K&r... spanone Jan 2013 #51
Good to hear strangers standing up for what is right! stultusporcos Jan 2013 #52
I agree. Late Night Slice is insanely good. limpyhobbler Jan 2013 #53
This makes my heart glad. redwitch Jan 2013 #54
That's a wonderful story. Thank you. nt. WeekendWarrior Jan 2013 #55
Yeah ColumbusLib Jan 2013 #56
Glad it turned out that way .. Very heart warming n/t rtassi Jan 2013 #57
bet that pizza tasted good rurallib Jan 2013 #58
Thank you sharing Gothmog Jan 2013 #59
Notice Served: Cut out the HATE crap Zambero Jan 2013 #60
K&R bread_and_roses Jan 2013 #61
What a great story. Jenoch Jan 2013 #62
This is me; being a wet blanket as usual. Rozlee Jan 2013 #63
Well, it might not have happened ANYWHERE 20 years ago. Chorophyll Jan 2013 #67
True that. Rozlee Jan 2013 #71
Fantastic... defacto7 Jan 2013 #65
I waited all day to read this and I'm so glad I did! Chorophyll Jan 2013 #66
Wonderful! Love is stronger than hate! Aristus Jan 2013 #68
Columbus has its points. nt riqster Jan 2013 #69
my courage grew three sizes today... icarusxat Jan 2013 #70
The title of this story made me think it wasn't gonna have a happy ending... We People Jan 2013 #72
Thank you for making my day. K&R. nt DLevine Jan 2013 #73
And this is how you change the world! n/t Bluestar Jan 2013 #74
+1000 blackspade Jan 2013 #75
Yea, saw that on Facebook. Makes me very proud of my city. phleshdef Jan 2013 #76
I had a vagely similar experience years and years ago TrogL Jan 2013 #77
Wonderful story. TDale313 Jan 2013 #78
May situations like this Iwillnevergiveup Jan 2013 #79
BIG K & R! NT caledesi Jan 2013 #80
Sometimes, after a long hard fight, you get to win. aquart Jan 2013 #82
K&R friendly_iconoclast Jan 2013 #83
Thanks for sharing that. Rain Mcloud Jan 2013 #84
Hate talkers are republicans. momsrule Jan 2013 #85
Bigots are the one demographic I want to see go back IN the closet lunatica Jan 2013 #86
The guys in the truck pulled soup nazi on him! Warren Stupidity Jan 2013 #87
THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKIN' 'BOUT! drynberg Jan 2013 #88
Great story beerandjesus Jan 2013 #89
This story gives me hope against all the other crazy that's surrounds us right now SacoMaine61 Jan 2013 #91
great story! I wish my small repug town in CT would stand up for environmentalists like that wordpix Jan 2013 #92
Wonderful! texshelters Jan 2013 #93
kick samsingh Jan 2013 #95
what a great story flying_wahini Jan 2013 #96
K&R and shared - to my Facebook page LongTomH Jan 2013 #98
great community schoolage_evan Jan 2013 #99
Cool - we're winning toby jo Jan 2013 #100
Columbus seems pretty left of center JesterCS Jan 2013 #101
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