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In reply to the discussion: "I've never heard a white man talk about impostor syndrome. I haven't met one." [View all]Happy Hoosier
(9,659 posts)2. I love Michelle, but yeah... NO. I suffer from that almost every day.
I come form a working class family... first with a college degree. I'm in engneering, a fairly well-paid career. MANY of my colleagues come from a much more privileged background... military officers (my Dad was enlisted), from families of enegineers, country-club generational money kind of stuff. Even after decades, I STILL feel out of place at times... like I'm the kitchen urchin who snuck into the castle's great hall. I CONSTANTLY have to battle the idea that somehow I'm a fake, and they'll realize it any moment, and BACK TO THE SKULLERY for me.
I suspect Michele Obama was running in circles where the white men she met all came from privilege.
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"I've never heard a white man talk about impostor syndrome. I haven't met one." [View all]
malaise
11 hrs ago
OP
Please explain it then, is she only talking the upper crust hoity toity stuff?
questionseverything
9 hrs ago
#33
The Obama White House was pretty transparent about what the president and first family were doing
questionseverything
7 hrs ago
#78
ironically in my work -- the imposters never seem to feel like imposters. just arrogant POS
JT45242
9 hrs ago
#31
Trmp at a Mensa meeting would feel that he was among a whole bunch of imposters. nt
eppur_se_muova
11 hrs ago
#8
Hanks has it because deep down, he knows Peter Scolari was the better actor on "bosom buddies"
unblock
10 hrs ago
#13
Hi, Mrs. Obama. I'm Aristus. Nice to meet you. I am a great admirer of you and your husband.
Aristus
10 hrs ago
#16
He may not talk about it, but our so-called President has deep insecurity about not being good enough, good looking
Sogo
10 hrs ago
#21
No offense to her, but I'm guessing she's not really in the same circles as white men who experience imposter syndrome.
WhiskeyGrinder
9 hrs ago
#34
IIRC, when asked if she was ever intimidated by these meetings, she said, "No, they're not all that smart."
OMGWTF
9 hrs ago
#43
That's hyperbolic, and may be true in her experience, but not universally true.
Ursus Rex
8 hrs ago
#61
Sorry, but she needs to get out more. She hasn't heard about imposter syndrome from white men
RockRaven
7 hrs ago
#67
It's a fact that some white men are more insecure or less fortunate than some black men.
Doodley
7 hrs ago
#70