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gulliver

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54. Elizabeth Warren points out the "two-income trap"...

Thu Jun 4, 2026, 12:36 PM

2 hrs ago

...that everyone now falls into. Add that to egomania, laziness, and the addiction to ubiquitous 24x7 entertainment.

Start with what you want to do with your life and what the economy forces you to do for that. It's a recipe for misery and disaster.

Start with what makes healthy, grounded kids and a strong relationship. That will "probably" work better. You have much better odds anyway.

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"Women are expected to work like they have no children and parent like they have no job." [View all] Collimator 21 hrs ago OP

Bookmarked!!! IA8IT 21 hrs ago #1

Most Women sit around watching "A brighter Day" ..polishing their nails... chouchou 21 hrs ago #2

What is "A brighter Day"? TIA Celerity 19 hrs ago #15

A reference to the "soap operas" that women supposedly have nothing niyad 19 hrs ago #16

never heard of it Celerity 19 hrs ago #20

I had never heard of that one, either, so I looked it up. Wayyyyyyyyyy niyad 18 hrs ago #23

One of the ridiculous daytime Dramas that could have wasted one's life away. chouchou 16 hrs ago #37

I've never been a huge fan PatSeg 5 hrs ago #47

Unfortunately, Your words are True. chouchou 4 hrs ago #49

And guess what types of people PatSeg 4 hrs ago #50

Will the Democrats campaign on that issue? MustLoveBeagles 21 hrs ago #3

Symptom of a bigger issue Lithos 21 hrs ago #5

Yes it is. OldBaldy1701E 8 hrs ago #42

A smart candidate would Jilly_in_VA 3 hrs ago #52

Spot on. Raven123 21 hrs ago #4

So Far Timewas 20 hrs ago #6

Until the 70's, women could do little financially on their own. paleotn 18 hrs ago #25

Yep. My mother won't bank with one of the major American banks because of a grudge related to that. RockRaven 17 hrs ago #31

Same thing happened to my spouse in 1986 Farmer-Rick 6 hrs ago #44

I lived those days Lifeafter70 17 hrs ago #33

BTW StoolPigeon 20 hrs ago #7

Oh right... men have nothing but problems getting a lawyer! ihaveaquestion 20 hrs ago #9

Dear Goddess, it is very disappointing to see that sort of thing on a niyad 19 hrs ago #12

Being a single parent H2O Man 19 hrs ago #19

Lawyers won't take your money? Oh really. paleotn 18 hrs ago #26

Sounds serious Torchlight 18 hrs ago #28

Men can't afford lawyers? johnp3907 16 hrs ago #35

And play mommy with benefits to an adult spouse. xuplate 20 hrs ago #8

OMG! After spending all day trying to find the wallet slightlv 19 hrs ago #17

huggggggggs, my friend. Your DU family is here, so lean as hard as niyad 18 hrs ago #21

I feel it for you malaise 18 hrs ago #22

So sorry. paleotn 18 hrs ago #27

We are here for you, V SheltieLover 17 hrs ago #30

If you have a healthcare provider you regularly talk to Sympthsical 17 hrs ago #32

Thanks... slightlv 14 hrs ago #38

So pleased to hear this Sympthsical 14 hrs ago #40

Same here in reverse - playing parent to a 5 year old wife who is 82. Aussie105 14 hrs ago #41

I hear you. Friends we've had for 20 years slightlv 44 min ago #59

A humble suggestion ... if he keeps losing his wallet FakeNoose 6 hrs ago #45

Slightly... CousinIT 6 hrs ago #46

Is the VA program mesnt for the vet who's the slightlv 52 min ago #58

I feel for you; I went thru the dementia caretaker twice. The first time was with my mother. state of stupid 1 hr ago #55

my brother coached the men's company softball team Skittles 20 hrs ago #10

Was watching a comedy routine Nittersing 5 hrs ago #48

And then get no credit for either and blamed for everything Tumbulu 19 hrs ago #11

And that is putting it VERY politely. niyad 19 hrs ago #13

Unless you believe the "rumors" that Harris actually won. Which I do. slightlv 19 hrs ago #18

I mean...everyone is. It's just that women, for the most part, picked up the slack for some time, and now are not. WhiskeyGrinder 19 hrs ago #14

As a single father who raised three daughters BeneteauBum 18 hrs ago #24

Thank you so much for including the video link. I will look at it later, niyad 17 hrs ago #29

"Women are expected to work like they have no children and parent like they have no job." DET 16 hrs ago #34

GREAT and VERY TRUE line! Jack Valentino 16 hrs ago #36

"The mental load" women try to explain to men that they are carrying the mental load BlueWaveNeverEnd 14 hrs ago #39

Yep. Diamond_Dog 3 hrs ago #51

Women marry a man with kids and are shocked when he shifts all child care to him BlueWaveNeverEnd 1 hr ago #57

And society suffers from the epidemic of unparented kids. live love laugh 7 hrs ago #43

My wife and I just passed 30 years of marriage in March of this year... Moostache 3 hrs ago #53

Elizabeth Warren points out the "two-income trap"... gulliver 2 hrs ago #54

I think the biggest problem is the exploitative nature of work now. LT Barclay 1 hr ago #56