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chowder66

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115. I'm okay, just angry about some of the crap I'm seeing on here.

Reply to MorbidButterflyTat (Reply #111)

Tue Jul 7, 2026, 03:34 PM

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Children have an extremely hard time because they don't even have the concept in their brains of what is happening until later or if they may block, push it down, etc. Women can go through the a similar response but typically find a way to blame themselves (as do some children) or try to push it out of their mind to cope with what happened...but it percolates underneath. Shame shouldn't even be part of the dialogue for victims but it is in many instances.

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Breaking NYT: Platner lays out his conditions for withdrawal [View all] senseandsensibility Monday OP

lol THAT will go over well WhiskeyGrinder Monday #1

Agree. But his most devoted supporters may not see it that way. They may well see him NOW as a hlthe2b 23 hrs ago #123

Good. He's leaving it up to Mainers and no one else!!! Now can we stop posting about this???? nt in2herbs Monday #2

Thank you! duckworth969 Monday #15

This is now national news and problem for dems everywhere. boston bean Monday #50

Yep, how he would vote would affect all of us Grim Chieftain Monday #67

Exactly! It's about the Majority in the Senate Cha Monday #73

Is he leaving it up to Maine voters when he demands the right to choose his replacement? wnylib Monday #69

He's asking that his voters' choice on issues Bettie Yesterday #94

Nah, not until he steps down obamanut2012 Monday #76

Control of the Senate is a national priority. yardwork Yesterday #90

I'm no expert but I don't think it works that way. BannonsLiver Monday #3

Is it a euphemism for himself? Because the voters knew a lot. bucolic_frolic Monday #4

I think he has a lot of leverage because the rules say he has to withdraw LisaL Monday #14

Huh? He has total leverage. He's the nominee. Only he himself can wiithdrawal Wiz Imp Monday #31

So he wants approval rights before leaving? TommyT139 Monday #5

Oh brother. Bullies going to bully. If we havenʻt learned that yet, idk. mahina Monday #6

I think he means Troy Jackson. eShirl Monday #7

Why would anyone "endorse" two Cha Monday #75

I think BS endorsed Jackson for governor, not the senate. PunkinPi Yesterday #91

Oh I see, Mahalo, PunkinPi.. Cha Yesterday #96

Hanging in there. :) nt PunkinPi Yesterday #99

The guy who came in third in the primary? lapucelle Yesterday #97

Yes. I hadn't heard of the guy until today and didn't know BS endorsed him until I looked it up (also today). PunkinPi Yesterday #98

what bullshit. lostincalifornia Monday #8

GB Shaw supposedly said... GJGCA Monday #9

Ha! I've always loved that quote! QueerDuck Yesterday #89

LOL Vote4Kam Monday #10

And what a great kickoff to a campaign, being handpicked by the alleged rapist you replaced. W_HAMILTON Monday #19

X100 WinningAgain Monday #41

Not sure about this guy's "values and vision." johnp3907 Monday #11

He's holding a gun to the party's head. RandySF Monday #12

Hostage situation. sheshe2 Monday #21

"Drop it! or...." lastlib Monday #68

Yup. sheshe2 Monday #23

He thinks he is in charge? niyad Monday #13

He could stay on. I don't think they could force him to withdraw. LisaL Monday #16

Persuasion might work. niyad Monday #18

almost like he has control issues or something WhiskeyGrinder Monday #20

true niyad Monday #22

Hang tough Graham duckworth969 Monday #17

Defending rapists. Boo1 Monday #24

Oh, was he convicted? -misanthroptimist Monday #27

Because ALL rapists are convicted. Boo1 Monday #28

That's right -misanthroptimist Monday #32

Rapists everywhere Boo1 Monday #35

That's true -misanthroptimist Monday #36

I can think of someone who we have long called a rapist sarisataka Monday #39

Who is that someone? -misanthroptimist Monday #42

It is (redacted) sarisataka Monday #44

Doubting motive is not the same doubting allegations -misanthroptimist Monday #46

In my mind, no sarisataka Monday #47

That was a civil trial with a much lower standard EdmondDantes_ Monday #57

He's been adjudicated a rapist. -misanthroptimist Monday #61

This may shock you MorbidButterflyTat Yesterday #110

Nonsense. -misanthroptimist Yesterday #113

So should we have laid off Kavanaugh onenote Monday #54

He was (is) also a drunk -misanthroptimist Monday #59

Sure it should have onenote Monday #60

If conclusions were cliffs, you'd be plunging -misanthroptimist Monday #65

My seven year old self went through hell for defenders like you. chowder66 Monday #38

I'm so sorry MorbidButterflyTat Yesterday #111

I'm okay, just angry about some of the crap I'm seeing on here. chowder66 Yesterday #115

The vast, vast majority of rapists are never convicted. WhiskeyGrinder Monday #29

Wow Lifeafter70 Monday #26

Rupert Murdoch wins again. Initech Monday #25

Why? Because Platner is a rapist? obamanut2012 Monday #77

Or how about we go with pinkstarburst Monday #30

We can't go with anyone else unless he withdraws. LisaL Monday #33

I thought most everyone here hated the DNC Wiz Imp Monday #34

Couldn't agree more. FoxNewsSucks Monday #53

They won't... 2naSalit Yesterday #81

Yeah, another "moderate" "corporate-friendly" dem. FoxNewsSucks Monday #51

Typical. Still thinks he's in charge mcar Monday #37

He has no choice! 2naSalit Monday #40

Of course he has a choice Shrek Monday #64

The DSA just came out and told him to drop obamanut2012 Monday #78

Those excusing the actions of a possible rapist is amazing to me. WinningAgain Monday #43

So many on here, it's horrifying obamanut2012 Monday #79

True colors shining through, unless you are blind. Raftergirl Monday #45

wonder how many actual Maine Voters are on this item ? dave99 Monday #48

I wonder how many have had frontal lobotomies to please others here. ColoringFool Yesterday #87

At least one. WinningAgain Monday #49

Well, forcing himself when people say "no" seems to be the norm for him. Music Man Monday #52

Good. TVguyCards Monday #55

lie moonshinegnomie Monday #56

I agree with him. His supporters believe in his policies that he wanted to fight for. If his replacement Nanjeanne Monday #58

So does this mean those who so enthusiastically supported Platner are going to now support Collins? Janbdwl72 Monday #70

No, if he withdraws, LisaL Monday #72

Probably not. But depending who the Dem is they might sit home. Kind of like many do when they aren't Nanjeanne Yesterday #85

Agreed. Maine should decide. SSJVegeta Monday #62

I think, in your zeal to silence some of us with brains, you... ColoringFool Yesterday #88

Why does the Democratic Party DO THIS? Paxton CAN'T lose, but MILLS was the HARD SELL??? ForeGoneLegsBirne Monday #63

What if the Democratic party refuses to negotiate? sarisataka Monday #66

We will find out soon enough. LisaL Monday #71

He can get paid at 49-1 if he stays in Shrek Yesterday #107

OK, I've had my 4 or so hours of dispair, and am ready to stand up again and continue the good fight. patphil Monday #74

VERY important reminder! calimary Monday #80

Pound sand Graham Peppertoo Yesterday #82

"true to the values" So, like, MORE rape accusations? flvegan Yesterday #83

This message was self-deleted by its author Stacey Grove Yesterday #84

😄😄😄😄😄😄😂 Somebody should tell him. ColoringFool Yesterday #86

I thought anointing was bad. betsuni Yesterday #92

Under Republican "leadership" somethingshiny Yesterday #93

What an arrogant jerk.💩 milestogo Yesterday #95

The more I think about this creep (and I'm trying hard not to) I think he is also bully and a conman. Raftergirl Yesterday #100

Agree. MorbidButterflyTat Yesterday #114

Is he insisting on being replaced by another sex pest? Walleye Yesterday #101

Because many of us wanted someone more progressive than she is. GPV Yesterday #104

Well, at least she has a clean record? I don't know I haven't followed it, but I just think when the country is i Walleye Yesterday #122

You can bet the centrists will whine about that! Emile Yesterday #102

That doesn't help him. Jesus themaguffin Yesterday #103

Remember the last time a candidate was forced to drop out because the media-created firestorm stampeded sop Yesterday #105

You think he is going to win if he stays on the ballot? 🤣 Raftergirl Yesterday #106

I honestly don't know. sop Yesterday #109

Why in the heck would you want him to run and win?! obamanut2012 Yesterday #118

Control of the Senate. Period. sop Yesterday #120

Why in the world would you want him in the Senate??? obamanut2012 3 hrs ago #126

Why do you want Collins in the Senate? sop 2 hrs ago #127

Then I guess all of their previous cries MorbidButterflyTat Yesterday #119

I know what we did here in CA, we did the right thing obamanut2012 Yesterday #116

Accused rapist, Platner denies he sexually abused his accuser. And the Politico story has set off a media firestorm, sop Yesterday #121

I've seen the evidence, I believe the women, too bad you don't obamanut2012 3 hrs ago #125

What evidence have you seen? Please share. sop 2 hrs ago #128

That is up to the party. LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #108

Okay. Sure. We promise. Iggo Yesterday #112

Lol senseandsensibility Yesterday #117

Him working for Blackwater in the past was a big red-flag for me. Crowman2009 7 hrs ago #124

I've stayed out of the Platner debate ever since the upsetting tat debate months ago because I don't live in Maine ImNotGod 1 hr ago #129

He will stay in. WinningAgain 1 hr ago #130

My feelings exactly. LisaL 1 hr ago #131