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hlthe2b

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27. I have addressed this repeatedly in this and other posts...

Reply to obamanut2012 (Reply #20)

Tue Jul 7, 2026, 06:30 PM

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The legal realities are as I have defined--straight from discussions with one who has tried to prosecute on this--very very difficult. Even if you think it should be or would be otherwise. Juries, judges, and even other prosecutors do not always agree on your interpretation nor that the accusations are valid sans a lot of other victims echoing the same. Sans that, your interpretation is instead interpreted as the "accidental" excuse swallowed (no pun intended) judges and juries so often these are not being prosecuted.

Don't like it? We have a hell of a time getting sexual assault and rape (same in some states where penetrative) prosecuted. An intentionally failed or claim of an intentionally "removed" condom mid-act is not going to be pursued the same given its likely failure in court sans a lot of additional evidence.

So, yes. This is gratuitous in this context.

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Ex-girlfriend of Graham Platner says he removed condoms without consent during sex [View all] demmiblue Tuesday OP

I don't need to know more about this guy... lame54 Tuesday #1

I believe her. QueerDuck Tuesday #2

Also a crime in many states. RandySF Tuesday #3

Only if it is a clear violation of a consensual agreement--and then almost always ONLY if repercussions hlthe2b Tuesday #6

It is illegal in my state because it negates a woman's consent and it is treated as sexual assualt. 50 Shades Of Blue Tuesday #9

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Regardless, it's a crime. Plenty of crimes are hard to prove. 50 Shades Of Blue Tuesday #15

And given courts, juries, judges believe the defendent's claim of accident--sans a lot of other hlthe2b Tuesday #16

How many shitty behaviors does a guy get to get a pass on? EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #28

EdmondDantes. You tell me we exactly where I have ever given him benefit-of-the-doubt? hlthe2b Tuesday #31

Here's the exact quote: EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #53

The intent (as you WELL know is to put emphasis on the rape allegations already made) hlthe2b Tuesday #54

Nothing would surprise me about him now. WinningAgain Tuesday #4

This is becoming gratuitous.. We get it.. He needs to go... hlthe2b Tuesday #5

This woman already talked about this months ago with the NYT obamanut2012 Tuesday #20

I have addressed this repeatedly in this and other posts... hlthe2b Tuesday #27

Platner is done MerryBlooms Tuesday #38

I fear the party powers-that-be are going to make everything even worse (if that is possible).. hlthe2b Tuesday #40

Mills was right of centrist MerryBlooms Tuesday #49

I take your opinion on Mills and the reasons for her rejection... hlthe2b Tuesday #51

TMI (too much information). Spare us the details Katinfl Tuesday #7

She is talking about him sexually assaulting her obamanut2012 Tuesday #22

This message was self-deleted by its author WhiskeyGrinder Tuesday #8

Oh who cares about this? Are people really interested in these kinds of details? Nanjeanne Tuesday #10

Same here. Why do I need to hear about this. Polly Hennessey Tuesday #12

it's sexual assault, so it's okay if it happens all the time? obamanut2012 Tuesday #24

Even those few states that have developed (mostly civil statutes) fail to consider it rape hlthe2b Tuesday #36

Yes, it's sexual assault obamanut2012 Tuesday #23

In only a few states, no matter how you or I may feel about it. Please stop calling out DUers hlthe2b Tuesday #37

Ok I'm jumping out of semi retirement to address this JefilteFish Tuesday #52

I am downplaying nothing. Only that the emphasis on the rapes is enough to remove him hlthe2b Tuesday #55

You're carrying water for anyone who wants to dismiss JefilteFish Yesterday #56

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It's been eye-opening. demmiblue Tuesday #30

Maybe, just maybe others are either less informed or actually MORE INFORMED on the issue hlthe2b Tuesday #44

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Except this is more proof of rape obamanut2012 Tuesday #42

It can be. As I posted earlier... hlthe2b Tuesday #46

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You and I believe so-- along with most women. The law has NOT caught up and we need to hlthe2b 21 hrs ago #62

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Thank you obamanut2012 Tuesday #43

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No, she wasn't obamanut2012 22 hrs ago #59