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tblue37

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18. I am 62. I use a cane. On my last flight--on Dec. 31 this week--
Sat Jan 5, 2013, 03:58 PM
Jan 2013

I sat next to a nice man who helped me put my coat and my heavy roll-on bag in the overhead and then get them down after we landed.

Now, I had also replaced my regular purse with a supersized one as a way of weaseling the equivalent of two carry-on bags so I would not have to check a bag, but I had overstuffed that second bag, thus breaking its zipper. I tied the bag's handles together to prevent everything from spilling out, but even when the zipper was intact I had trouble handling with just my left hand the heavily packed roll-on bag with the overstuffed "purse" perched on top of it, since my right hand had to use my cane to allow me to walk safely.

From my first steps off the plane, as we made our way through the tunnel from the plane to the airport, I struggled with my bag. I told those behind me to go on past me, saying that I would be moving too slowly and didn't want to delay them.

My seatmate, whose name I hadn't learned, even though we'd chatted during much of our flight, excused himself to squeeze past the two passengers that he had allowed to get in front of him for debarcation after getting my overhead bag down for me. He took my heavy, awkward bags from me--even though he had a roll-on bag and a messenger bag of his own to carry--and pulled them through the tunnel for me. I tried to take my big "purse" from him at least, since it--and its broken zipper situation--made it the worst problem, but he insisted on handling all of my stuff for me.

When we got into the airport, he stayed with me even after we exited the gate area, and he would not abandon me until we located the friend who had come to pick me up.

If I had been the kind of racist idiot that awful woman was, I would have been deprived of the company of this man during that 2-hour-plus flight, as well as his much appreciated--and much needed--assistance after we landed. Even without his help after we'd landed that would have been a real loss, since I was too tired to read as I usually do, but too uncomfortable in those tiny airplane seats to sleep. My conversation with this sweet man--which covered the sort of political and economic topics we discuss here on DU--made a huge difference in making the flight bearable.

ON EDIT: I see from other comments that the OP story isn't actually true. Well, mine is, even though it's not as perfect in its revelatory arc.

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That's pretty cool. HappyMe Jan 2013 #1
Aw man, that made my eyes water. Maraya1969 Jan 2013 #2
Mine, too etherealtruth Jan 2013 #5
A lovely story Orrex Jan 2013 #3
Much like Aesop's fables or parables .... etherealtruth Jan 2013 #6
Not snarky at all--don't worry Orrex Jan 2013 #13
Other versions on snopes Lex Jan 2013 #4
I was hoping the story would end that way as I read it. freshwest Jan 2013 #7
K & R L0oniX Jan 2013 #8
If that really happened that woman would never again speak her racism in public again lunatica Jan 2013 #9
True, very true. daleanime Jan 2013 #11
Nice story, but just a legend Android3.14 Jan 2013 #10
In one of the originals, the objecting person is Islamic and won't sit next to a Bible-reading... Moonwalk Jan 2013 #12
I thought the original story was Glassunion Jan 2013 #16
Yes. In any of those scenarios you describe the person objecting is a bigot. alphafemale Jan 2013 #17
I'm not assuming you would be okay with that--re-read my post as you... Moonwalk Jan 2013 #19
I was a modern parable. An Urban Legend. alphafemale Jan 2013 #20
Damn that was good, thanks madokie Jan 2013 #14
alas, it appears to be a 'modern parable' bigtree Jan 2013 #24
It's rare - but I DID see this one coming. Very appropriate Mira Jan 2013 #15
I am 62. I use a cane. On my last flight--on Dec. 31 this week-- tblue37 Jan 2013 #18
I've had some of the nicest conversations with strangers on NY mass transit. KittyWampus Jan 2013 #21
Your story is one of the reasons I pity bigots. alphafemale Jan 2013 #22
Beautiful Timbuk3 Jan 2013 #23
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