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1StrongBlackMan

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42. In my youth ...

Fri Jan 11, 2013, 11:42 AM

Jan 2013

I went to a prep school where the median household income of students was about 200% of the regional MI. (I know this from having done a economics project). Most of the families were "Old Money" wealthy, i.e., more than 2 generation; whereas, a hand full were "New Money",i.e., their parents made the money.

From personal observation, the "Old Money" crowd were more tolerable ... they were the kids that didn't care about the status stuff, like clothes, cars, making displays of outrageous spending (though they ALL had the clothes, the cars and spent like ... well ... millionaires); whereas, the "New Money" crowd were the obnoxious group, flaunting their (parent's) money.

Being the (relatively) poor kid (both my parents were Civil Servants) ... I saw that the "New Money" kids trying to spend to fit in and the "Old Money" kids, laughing at them.

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I *STILL* can't fucking believe laundry_queen Jan 2013 #83

Completely agree BainsBane Jan 2013 #85

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Yes Larrymoe Curlyshemp Jan 2013 #10

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LOL mmonk Jan 2013 #82

As someone who used to work service Beearewhyain Jan 2013 #5

That's my rule, too. LuvNewcastle Jan 2013 #14

And if a coupon is used, one should tip for the the cost JanMichael Jan 2013 #21

I agree. In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #29

and good management would back you up KurtNYC Jan 2013 #44

The "aggrieved-taxpaying tipper" . . . MrModerate Jan 2013 #6

and what could this person be trying to say defacto7 Jan 2013 #7

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Just remember HeiressofBickworth Jan 2013 #9

"I did get quite a few embarrassingly pathetic tips... KansDem Jan 2013 #11

Translation: nyquil_man Jan 2013 #12

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I agree totally. BlueMTexpat Jan 2013 #71

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Hi - BlueMTexpat Jan 2013 #70

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Passive aggressive is a defect. aandegoons Jan 2013 #16

Make no mistake- that's a person and direct hit, intentionally, at people who make low wages cecilfirefox Jan 2013 #17

Translated: Since I can't steal your money via a rigged tax system anymore, wildeyed Jan 2013 #18

Yeah, I thought, "overentitled son of a bitch" when I saw this tavalon Jan 2013 #64

Workers get screwed one way or another. no_hypocrisy Jan 2013 #19

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And repukes KamaAina Jan 2013 #73

Funny, they've never needed an excuse before. nt wtmusic Jan 2013 #22

Hah! good one! tavalon Jan 2013 #65

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Same As It Ever Was NeedleCast Jan 2013 #25

I'm wondering if it's really a good idea to piss on the people who touch your food tavernier Jan 2013 #27

I Worked in Food Service NeedleCast Jan 2013 #33

Of course... I was speaking figuratively. tavernier Jan 2013 #38

That's really too bad tavalon Jan 2013 #66

That's fine, but then there ought to be gratuities included closeupready Jan 2013 #28

I've always thought that would be best NeedleCast Jan 2013 #32

I think for the good ones librabear Jan 2013 #47

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Take their picture leftynyc Jan 2013 #30

If the note was actually left ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #34

That's my personal experience, too. closeupready Jan 2013 #35

In my youth ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #42

this part is too funny 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #39

Not a problem ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #46

Wow, that's funny and extremely sad. 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #49

He's a ... 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #50

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Another "Joe" the "Plumber", sounds like. Mariana Jan 2013 #69

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I'm sure that once this tipper is recognized 2pooped2pop Jan 2013 #37

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I want to see them try that note in a strip club. n/t KurtNYC Jan 2013 #45

I'd bet lunch that the person who left this Capt. Obvious Jan 2013 #52

Good grief! HappyMe Jan 2013 #53

But without the haughty explanation tavalon Jan 2013 #68

Time to have mandatory gratuity or increase the meal cost and pay a living wage Fresh_Start Jan 2013 #54

Saw this on the internet? Oh! It must be true then.... diphthong Jan 2013 #56

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Unbelievable how many people treat internet hoaxes as real. former9thward Jan 2013 #75

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