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renate

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65. that's horrible. I am so so sorry

Sat Jan 19, 2013, 02:31 AM

Jan 2013

Sometimes I think it's harder to try to hang onto hope in difficult times than to know the outcome for certain and to plan and prepare... and sometimes I think I'd rather still have that hope to hang onto. Both situations are just so stressful.

Now you know what your new normal is, I guess, and can start planning accordingly, and can start to adjust emotionally from the state of having hope that things will work out the way you wanted to having a different kind of hope--that your situation won't always be as bad as it seems today. It really, really sucks that things didn't go your way, but I hope that all the good vibes from your friends here are a source of comfort and strength. Maybe someday this will all be a terrible nightmare that you can look back on with relief that it's over... you just have to get through the process of getting through this stage in your life, which is so difficult. I'm so sorry.

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Vibes, please. [View all] AirmensMom Jan 2013 OP

Always! hedgehog Jan 2013 #1

Thank you, hedgehog. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #10

Hopefully this will lift your mood slackmaster Jan 2013 #2

Excellent! KansDem Jan 2013 #6

Nice. Thanks. /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #9

You've got 'em. The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2013 #3

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #16

Of course!~ PDJane Jan 2013 #4

Thanks. /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #11

Oooooohhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Oooooohhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Scuba Jan 2013 #5

They are so far. Thank you. /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #7

Sending it at you in droves>>>>>STRONG VIBES.. Tikki Jan 2013 #8

I like that. Thanks. /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #14

Of course. snacker Jan 2013 #12

Thank you, snacker. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #17

Good Vibrations Lint Head Jan 2013 #13

That should work. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #20

Good Vibrations!!! KansDem Jan 2013 #15

Those are extra good ones. Thanks! AirmensMom Jan 2013 #19

Here you go! joeybee12 Jan 2013 #18

Thanks. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #21

Will do. Hugs to you. nt laundry_queen Jan 2013 #22

Thanks. Hugs back to you. /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #24

Absolutely!! Bjornsdotter Jan 2013 #23

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #26

Ask and you shall recieve.... Rowdyboy Jan 2013 #25

That was my hope ... AirmensMom Jan 2013 #27

I just mean I've needed good vibes before, often pretty badly.... Rowdyboy Jan 2013 #29

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #35

anytime EarthWindFire Jan 2013 #28

Thank you! AirmensMom Jan 2013 #36

Good vibes sending your way!! closeupready Jan 2013 #30

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #38

~~~~~~~Good Vibes~~~~~~~~ Tyrs WolfDaemon Jan 2013 #31

Extra vibes? AirmensMom Jan 2013 #39

If you call Freya Freda, she might only send you half! Tyrs WolfDaemon Jan 2013 #46

Oh my! AirmensMom Jan 2013 #47

sending you both kinds of vibes... Cooley Hurd Jan 2013 #32

Very cool vibes. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #40

Sending good vibes your way.... CherokeeDem Jan 2013 #33

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #41

Coming your way... Suich Jan 2013 #34

Thanks. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #42

sending best thoughts your way Danmel Jan 2013 #37

Thank you! /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #43

Best wishes to you. n/t PoliticAverse Jan 2013 #44

Thank you, PA! /nt AirmensMom Jan 2013 #48

Best Vibes to You-Welcome Again kairos12 Jan 2013 #45

Thank you. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #49

Wishing you the best. Demo_Chris Jan 2013 #50

Vibe and thoughts that all will unfold to your liking. n/t 1StrongBlackMan Jan 2013 #51

you got 'em! renate Jan 2013 #52

I'll hold amyserious thought upi402 Jan 2013 #53

(((........))) handmade34 Jan 2013 #54

I was just thinking of you a day or so ago siligut Jan 2013 #55

Keep your head up MissHoneychurch Jan 2013 #56

Done. bemildred Jan 2013 #57

good vibes bigtree Jan 2013 #58

Kick for more vibes MissHoneychurch Jan 2013 #59

Good vibes to you, AirmensMom. In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #60

kick renate Jan 2013 #61

From one airman's mom to another ~hugs~ Marrah_G Jan 2013 #62

UPDATE: Thank you, everyone. AirmensMom Jan 2013 #63

that's horrible. I am so so sorry renate Jan 2013 #65

sunshine, lollipops, rainbows, a paycheck, love, and some pets DonRedwood Jan 2013 #64

Thinking of you Danmel Jan 2013 #66