My problem isn't self-identifying as a feminist in front of men, it's women

[Sekhmets Daughter]

44. Yes, I read the OP

and yes it was critical of women just like yourself, who would, no doubt, roll your eyes at him for calling himself a feminist. He said nothing critical of women in general...had he, I wouldn't have bothered to read one more word of the thread. The definition of "feminist" reads a Person who supports the movement, not just women who do. Are you wiling to kick him to the curb because he chooses the wrong label? How will that benefit anyone?

I saw no evidence that Taverner expects women to feel blessed by his support, nor that he became upset with anyone. Perhaps your attitude is due to previous run-ins with him? That, of course, would change the dynamic.

You must be younger than I, Identity Politics, developed after Reagan moved the county so far to the right, played no part in the early movement.