My problem isn't self-identifying as a feminist in front of men, it's women

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82. I agree

that it is good to avoid sparking animosity, generally, and to generally avoid being authoritarian who tells others what their opinions should be.

We can share our experiences and opinions and listen and learn from others, and widen our space of comprehension, empathy and compassion. We can recognize our mutual needs for individual space and solitude, as well as need to share space and to be touched and cared for. These are basic human needs with lot of individual and cultural variety, so the learning process does not end. What I don't like is authoritarianism in any form and will to control more and more abstract and extended spaces in authoritarian way, not least because such attempts tend to just spark animosity between human beings, and in how humans relate to their environment.