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trixicopper

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24. I only have 37 years in the business

Reply to Pat Riot (Original post)

Mon Feb 4, 2013, 09:38 PM

Feb 2013

I'm sorry that the young server lost her job. But I have to agree that putting someones identifying info on line would not be something I would do. When you work with the public for any length of time, you realize that while the vast majority of people are actually pretty nice. There are of course those members of the public,who let's face it, shouldn't be allowed out in public. You have to learn to let things go in one ear and out the other. The customer was an asshat. It happens.

I totally agree with the OP about not eliminating tips. There isn't a restaurant around that would/could pay their servers what I average an hour. And if their was, most people couldn't afford to eat there. I may never be wealthy, but I have also been able to make a decent living working about 26 hours/4 nights a week.

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Two Wrongs Don't Make A Right - A 54-Year Old Waitress Speaks Out On The Applebees Debacle [View all] Pat Riot Feb 2013 OP

Get *what* off your chest? Robb Feb 2013 #1

Gosh, She made you feel inferior? RobertEarl Feb 2013 #4

Well put, Pat Riot DollarBillHines Feb 2013 #2

The thing is Applebees apparently had no problem releasing dsc Feb 2013 #3

really? Pat Riot Feb 2013 #5

yeah really dsc Feb 2013 #6

Thanks Pat Riot Feb 2013 #10

If that employee wasn't fired dsc Feb 2013 #12

They probably ask for permission to do so. n/t Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #9

I doubt it dsc Feb 2013 #11

Yup. Glad you posted that... SidDithers Feb 2013 #13

Those cards you fill out, Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #14

this was not a card dsc Feb 2013 #16

That is not proof they didn't get authorization to use it. Sekhmets Daughter Feb 2013 #18

They harped repeatedly on the SIGNATURE in their statement dsc Feb 2013 #27

Hats off to you, Pat. tosh Feb 2013 #7

I'm not glad a kid lost her job OriginalGeek Feb 2013 #8

No one posted the pastor's identity. She outed herself. DirkGently Feb 2013 #15

The "team member" who posted the pastor's signature Pat Riot Feb 2013 #17

If you go signing your name to a card that's an "up yours" to a server... Daemonaquila Feb 2013 #19

The "pastor" is a public figure. When he exhibits behaviour which most would consider "unChristian" baldguy Feb 2013 #20

In the interest of accuracy FrodosPet Feb 2013 #31

An intelligent rant.. sendero Feb 2013 #21

I'm glad we have things like the Internet to publicly shame people for acting like assholes... EastKYLiberal Feb 2013 #22

I agree with most of what you said here except Sadiedog Feb 2013 #23

I only have 37 years in the business trixicopper Feb 2013 #24

Really? I also worked in "food service" (server) and the public was not "nice" anneboleyn Feb 2013 #30

Huh? RetroLounge Feb 2013 #25

My experience with tipping is to make waitress's or waiters remember me.... Historic NY Feb 2013 #26

There were a few alternative responses for each person each step of the way. It was poorly handled. patrice Feb 2013 #28

In this culture, we hold Reverends to a higher standard Warpy Feb 2013 #29

Thanks Pat for your informed post Hekate Feb 2013 #32

All restaurants in CA are forced to pay 8$/hr, we still have small eateries. Sirveri Feb 2013 #33