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Showing Original Post only (View all)Busting the Myth That Christians Are More Generous Than Non-Believers [View all]
http://www.alternet.org/belief/busting-myth-christians-are-more-generous-non-believers
The story has gone viral: A group got together at Applebees. When the tab came the minister wrote on the ticket, I give God 10 percent, why should I give you 18? She scratched through the automatic large-group tip and substituted a fat zero and signed it with the word Pastor in front of her name. The waitress posted an image on Reddit. The pastor called to complain. The waitress got fired. The internet went wild. Last I saw, one story had 80,000 comments and counting.
In reality, the pastor simply exposed something that is all too common to Christian thinking: the sense that giving to the church and to religious charities is the be-all and end all of generosity. As indignant reactions to the Applebees incident show, service workers sometimes pay the price:
I worked at the Outback Steakhouse for 3 years and we ALL dreaded Sundays.
The Sunday after church crowd were allways the worst tippers. I found another line of work.
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Barbara Ehrenreich had the same experience when she did research for "Nickeled and Dimed":
Arugula Latte
Feb 2013
#44
As a former waiter, I disagree with the idea that churchgoers are the worst tippers
dr.strangelove
Feb 2013
#19
That whole incident speaks to a general entitlement complex I've seen in these God people.
pink-o
Feb 2013
#23
No, they're bad tippers and often uncaring about anyone outside of their narrow worldview
catbyte
Feb 2013
#30
I've already replaced a reference to Christians in the very OP with a group of YOUR chosing
NoGOPZone
Feb 2013
#77
No, I think it's OK to say that it's a myth that Christians are more generous than non Christians
NoGOPZone
Feb 2013
#99
How am I being bigoted? I have PERSONAL EXPERIENCE with after-church cheapskates
catbyte
Feb 2013
#60
The thread title refers to "Christians," not "hypocrites." Do you equate the two? (nt)
Nine
Feb 2013
#43
It's been that way forever. After church was the WORST. And this was the 1970's.
catbyte
Feb 2013
#28
I was a waitress in a very popular place. None of us liked waiting on church groups.
WCLinolVir
Feb 2013
#33
What a colossal waste, to give money to a church, unless it goes directly to helping the needy,
Arugula Latte
Feb 2013
#42
When I was a waitress long ago, I noticed an inverse relationship between income and tipping.
yardwork
Feb 2013
#80
Oooh oooh. I remember this time this woman made me make her salad from the salad bar!
yardwork
Feb 2013
#82
Church offerings are mostly not charity. They are dues to keep the club going.
BlueStreak
Feb 2013
#79