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In reply to the discussion: Tip Your Server and Save the World [View all]PDJane
(10,103 posts)30. I have never worked as a waitress; I'm too damn clumsy, for starters.
I do tip. I tip generously. I tip because I know that my server needs the money. I tip because people like delivery people and taxis and waiters do the best they can, day after day, week in, week out, for less than the minimum wage, and it keeps people like the waitress in a job that doesn't pay enough for them to get out of it.
I cannot understand why people think that stiffing the waitress or server or driver is a good thing to do. As long as these people are paid less than the minimum and people have their hand out for the tips they do make, it's part of my night out to make sure they get that little bit of money.
Those restaurant chains make enough money to pay their people; that they don't and aren't forced to is shameful.
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Being the type of person who has worked in the service industry, this resonated with me.
Lone_Star_Dem
Feb 2013
#12
The word needs to get out more in those locations. About the truth on wages for food servers.
LiberalFighter
Feb 2013
#24
I waitressed in a mid-sized east coast town. Also a small seaport town in New England
Matariki
Feb 2013
#63
Giving tips to waitpersons is not enabling anyone. The problem is with the restaurants.
rhett o rick
Feb 2013
#64
Hate to tell you but the rich snobs are not good tippers as a general rule. They EXPECT
appleannie1
Feb 2013
#36
I know that too; a former friend let me walk out without paying the ticket at Rhodes.
PDJane
Feb 2013
#43
Both my wife and my son spent years waiting tables, needless to say we are a tipping family
1-Old-Man
Feb 2013
#44
My perspective here is somewhat informed by the fact that I've lived in the UK for several years
Spider Jerusalem
Feb 2013
#48
I always tip at least 20%, usually more...tip food delivery people the same.
forestpath
Feb 2013
#50
Why does the server at Denny's get tipped so much less than the server at Jean Georges?
hedgehog
Feb 2013
#58
I wish they would just pay waitstaff a LIVING wage and get rid of the fucking tipping shit.
madinmaryland
Feb 2013
#60