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Skelly

(241 posts)
65. When I tip
Sun Feb 10, 2013, 03:09 AM
Feb 2013

it is based on service and price of meal.
typically, I tip 15% for bad service, 20% for good service. more than 20% for really good service.
I also tip more than 20% when I order something that is typically below expected ordering. For example, I do not eat a lot. Frequently, my husband and I will either order appetizers for both courses or else each order an appetizer and then split an entree. We don't do this because we are cheap, we do this because we can not eat an entire entree. So, we typically tip more than 20% when we do this because I do not feel the server should be penalized because we are not ordering the normal one entree per person.
As a server, I do not expect people to do the same. Most just don't think about these things. And I really do not mind when people order appetizers for entrees or split an entree. It can be a bummer though when a lot of tables do this during one night.

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I give God 0% so you get 28%...LMAO! [View all] Playinghardball Feb 2013 OP
Oh...I am so going to have to do that. Wait Wut Feb 2013 #1
You and me both! Fuddnik Feb 2013 #7
great idea this one. that 'pastor' obviously never read the red words in the new roguevalley Feb 2013 #13
I always tip $10 regardless of the bill. Then again I always eat with just 1 other person SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #2
What an interesting thought. I had customers like you when I waited tables. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #16
Perfect. Zoeisright Feb 2013 #20
Since when is $10 a bad tip? LOL, in there for an hour (or less), server gets SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #23
You do know that in most restaurants, the tip is split with the support staff Luminous Animal Feb 2013 #60
A $10 tip is BAD? Also, I never order booze, just so you know. When I delivered pizzas I was SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #22
You really don't get it. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #24
Ok dork, why should a server at a place that charges $75 (and mind you, that SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #25
OK Sunny Boy Slim - leave your $10 and when that bill goes over $50 GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #26
I am not male, thanks. Sadly I do eat at only said crappy type places. SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #27
There is a difference Skelly Feb 2013 #35
So well said! tragicktruth Feb 2013 #36
Again it comes down to a difference of opinion, and not what I'd call a high end restaurant SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #41
lol you are not the first Skelly Feb 2013 #63
THAT is a great post. pangaia Feb 2013 #52
When I tip Skelly Feb 2013 #65
Amen, brother or sister. Pat Riot Feb 2013 #56
That's fine but you also need to be okay with being perceived as cheap Politicub Feb 2013 #66
you neeed to defend your bad tipping practice withn name calling? whatever. nt TeamPooka Feb 2013 #42
Ok I'll now be leaving 15% tips at all times. Whether that's $15 or $1.40. ;) SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #43
i don't care what you tip. Just don't call people names in a debate in this forum. TeamPooka Feb 2013 #44
I know it doesn't justify it, but it was started on me first, basically called bad tipping SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #45
Cute how you excuse your behavior and blame others for "starting it". #rationalizinglikea3rdgrader TeamPooka Feb 2013 #46
Post removed Post removed Feb 2013 #47
Bad tipping etiquette is not a pejoritive insult; it's an accurate description of what you do. dorkulon Feb 2013 #48
A much better than 15% tip the vast majority of the time, and slightly below 15% a tiny fraction SWTORFanatic Feb 2013 #49
Whatever. dorkulon Feb 2013 #50
I think it is great Skelly Feb 2013 #64
While it more than averages out just fine, I guess, it's problematic union_maid Feb 2013 #55
except that the job is not exactly the same job. mopinko Feb 2013 #57
I've been a server in both fine dining places and pub/greasy spoon places mcctatas Feb 2013 #28
So 20 tables at ten dollars a table is $200. What are you complaining about? A Simple Game Feb 2013 #34
If you work at a high end place your buy-in is more. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #37
I had to have shoes that cost about $200 dollars, not to mention clothes A Simple Game Feb 2013 #39
OK I was going to up the ante here - Though it's a useless exercise. GoneOffShore Feb 2013 #59
35 tables at $8-10 a table and the fact that i don't have to tip mcctatas Feb 2013 #54
Okay, but what you're forgetting.. Permanut Feb 2013 #3
So are you saying their is a "minimum wage" for God? nm rhett o rick Feb 2013 #53
Maybe, but.. Permanut Feb 2013 #58
Saw one yesterday that said abelenkpe Feb 2013 #4
The sky daddy never smiled at me and deliverd a nice meal so when he does I will tip him too. libtodeath Feb 2013 #5
HUGE K & R !!! WillyT Feb 2013 #6
Sweet malaise Feb 2013 #8
I saw something on the teevee this morning about a guy who gives $500 tips flyover22 Feb 2013 #9
Thanks for sharing this story. snappyturtle Feb 2013 #15
Thank you! I discovered my local TV station had a link to their story, it is very nice one flyover22 Feb 2013 #17
Thanks again! Great video....does my weak ol' heart good! nt snappyturtle Feb 2013 #21
That was at Puccini's in Lexington, Ky. The family is still giving random $500 tips. alfredo Feb 2013 #18
I read some years ago about a college student SheilaT Feb 2013 #38
oh. NICE! BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2013 #10
I think this is giving 28% to God SaveAmerica Feb 2013 #11
Agreed Sherman A1 Feb 2013 #12
I am Christian Heather MC Feb 2013 #14
Not to worry OwnedByCats Feb 2013 #61
Now I know what John Lennon meant by Imagine No Religion... DaveJ Feb 2013 #19
God probably Cha Feb 2013 #29
surely.. if we can't take it with us when we die... SemperEadem Feb 2013 #32
NB for future reference: the poster did this one right eridani Feb 2013 #30
Agreed! In my line of work... mwooldri Feb 2013 #31
ROTFLMAO!!!! easychoice Feb 2013 #33
Cash versus credit card tips? kmlisle Feb 2013 #40
Actually what I do is timdog44 Feb 2013 #51
I give a 15% tip for crappy service ohheckyeah Feb 2013 #62
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