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Ghost in the Machine

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48. Well I guess we will have to politely agree to disagree then, ok? Or at least see both sides

Wed Feb 13, 2013, 12:00 AM

Feb 2013

When a guy takes advantage of a girl who has had too much to drink and is too drunk to legally consent, or the guy who slips a mickey or rapes a passed out female, it's about sex.... a quick, easy piece of ass.

On the other hand, when you have a predator or serial rapist who just abducts, or breaks into the homes of, random women, then I can see the "Power play" you speak of. He's holding all the cards and calling all the shots through fear and intimidation of his victim.

Two different scenarios, two valid points... yes?

Peace,

Ghost

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Assault??? It's SEXUAL ASSAULT.... Ghost in the Machine Feb 2013 #40

Has nothing to do with sex. It's about power. No more than a police officer jtuck004 Feb 2013 #46

Well I guess we will have to politely agree to disagree then, ok? Or at least see both sides Ghost in the Machine Feb 2013 #48

Ok. And yes, of course. I just don't create the distinction - I think it's about power. jtuck004 Feb 2013 #50

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