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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]FedUpWithIt All
(4,442 posts)I've noticed those who take the stance of "boys will be boys" tend to have a viscerally different reaction if the subject of the sexual encounter, with an adult, is a young girl. You are aware that there were young girls and boys as young as 13 who had to accept what was happening because one woman decided they should be exposed to it? There wasn't any consideration as to the possible discomfort these kids may experience. I have now raised three children past the age of 13. I can assure you that all kids would NOT handle this exposure in the same way. One of my kids would be SEVERELY traumatized by the feeling of helplessness she would feel being dropped off to a place where this was happening. I suspect my other two kids would allow the experience to "roll off" more easily. ALL KIDS ARE NOT THE SAME.
And if these young kids, girls included, were not emotionally or psychologically prepared to deal with this exposure to adult woman pressing their crotch into a peers face, "fuck em". At least that seems to be the extent of the concern of many here and certainly that of the mother.