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MADem

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56. Those guys, I noticed, weren't all that svelte, fit, or stylish themselves!

Tue Jan 31, 2012, 12:47 PM

Jan 2012

I'd go out to clubs every now and again with some of those fellahs, who enjoyed that bar-n-drink-pouring bargirl lifestyle, and when I'd meet their wives at official functions, I found the wives to be the "better half" often as not.

In my experience, it seemed to me that a lot of the Japanese wives got the short end of the stick--they worked, some of them, took care of kids, had to do all the housework and laundry. Didn't look like much of a party to me on their end. That was a couple of decades ago; maybe things have changed.

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Not all of Japan is like that by any means. Bonobo Jan 2012 #27

I miss Tokyo a lot. Snake Alchemist Jan 2012 #30

When were you here? Bonobo Jan 2012 #32

It's been about a year and a half. Snake Alchemist Jan 2012 #33

Nice. Come on back. Bonobo Jan 2012 #35

Wow, I actually understood that. Snake Alchemist Jan 2012 #37

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what does land area have to do with anything? Confusious Jan 2012 #19

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Speaking of saving energy Art_from_Ark Jan 2012 #9

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Or make single parenthood "stylish." MADem Jan 2012 #50

some men would like the family without Snake Alchemist Jan 2012 #51

Those guys, I noticed, weren't all that svelte, fit, or stylish themselves! MADem Jan 2012 #56

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