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CrispyQ

(40,948 posts)
31. My thought, too.
Sat Mar 9, 2013, 08:06 PM
Mar 2013

Is it because it's easier when they outnumber the victim? Is there some weird bonding between the rapists? Am I the only one who feels that violence against women is getting worse, not better? I try to tell myself that it's a final backlash of the patriarchy, but seriously, I don't believe that. Misogyny is as prevalent with young men as old.

This commentary resonated with me.


The New Misogyny
By Kathleen Geier
3/11/12

http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/political-animal-a/2012_03/the_new_misogyny035990.php


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One way in which things are much, much worse for women these days than 20 years ago is the sheer amount of virulent misogyny that is openly expressed, and tolerated, in our society. It feels to me that, in many ways, our culture is much more openly sexist now that it was then. Rush Limbaugh’s comments about Sandra Fluke are only the most recent and notorious example of this new misogyny. You see it online; women bloggers, for example, report they are frequently the target of vicious verbal abuse, up to and including rape threats and death threats. Female political leaders of both parties are held to a double standard and subjected to much humiliatingly sexist treatment. Many movies and TV shows,and reality shows especially, traffic in extremely sexist stereotypes; TV commercials sometimes seem to go out their way to be offensive to women. Tabloids obsessively police the bodies of female celebrities and cruelly ridicule any famous woman who dares to go out in public looking less than perfect.

There’s an extremely nasty edge to much of this running media commentary about women. It’s not just garden variety sexism, because it’s very conscious of itself and a lot of it is clearly driven by pure hatred. Here are some examples of what I mean:

When I was growing up, there was certainly a lot of sexism in television shows, but misogyny is something different. Sexism was Archie Bunker calling his wife Edith a dingbat; annoying and insulting, certainly; sexist, definitely; but not violent or hateful. An example of misogyny is, for example, the way the character of the daughter, Meg, is portrayed in the popular cartoon sitcom, The Family Guy. Meg is frequently the subject of rape “jokes” and cruel jibes about her supposed ugliness; a frequent theme is that she is worthless and beneath contempt because she is not “hot.”




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It's also possible the women are reporting being raped where before they were silent. dkf Mar 2013 #1
THIS. redqueen Mar 2013 #5
these are acts of annihilation. Evil evil evil. roguevalley Mar 2013 #2
Acts of annihilation. Well said. freshwest Mar 2013 #4
Is this because of more rapes, or because the high-profile case has more victims coming forward? Donald Ian Rankin Mar 2013 #3
Police do not take rape too serious in India and treat the victim as the guilty one. JaneyVee Mar 2013 #6
Is this about oppressing women? siligut Mar 2013 #7
They would prefer Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #21
Lest anyone think this is a 'third world' problem... redqueen Mar 2013 #8
Rape seems to be epidemic in India. MineralMan Mar 2013 #9
What Cultural differences? Vehl Mar 2013 #22
Women in India understand the solution guardian Mar 2013 #10
Well, THIS should be interesting! Bake Mar 2013 #11
Point is we shouldn't have to arm Texasgal Mar 2013 #12
No, you shouldn't. Bake Mar 2013 #13
Except it's not an "equalizer". JaneyVee Mar 2013 #17
Are you serious? Bake Mar 2013 #19
Except in a perfect world Texasgal Mar 2013 #24
If you're at close range, you don't have to be that great a shot. Bake Mar 2013 #25
in India the woman would be charged with murder most likely JI7 Mar 2013 #30
Arm all school age girls to prevent rapes like happened to that 7 yr old! woohoo!!! uppityperson Mar 2013 #14
Just to help you out guardian Mar 2013 #16
Maybe you missed the 7 yr old in the OP. Just taking it to the logical conclusion, and back at you.. uppityperson Mar 2013 #18
Two Snaps! n/t Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #23
Maybe you missed the whole subthread prompted by the Salon link. Bake Mar 2013 #26
Since our back and forth is the subthread, no, I didn't miss it. uppityperson Mar 2013 #27
Not to minimize that, but compare Delhi to New Orleans cthulu2016 Mar 2013 #15
+1 Thank you for fact checking. Delhi has 16 million people! Vehl Mar 2013 #20
GANG rapes seem on the rise, especially. WinkyDink Mar 2013 #28
My thought, too. CrispyQ Mar 2013 #31
those numbers of Rise in Rapes are misleading JI7 Mar 2013 #29
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