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Smilo

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109. Firstly, please know you are not alone

Thu Mar 21, 2013, 03:18 PM

Mar 2013

all of us on DU are sending hugs and love to both you and your lovely husband.

It is rotten and unfair that this should happen to you and your husband - I don't know why things like this do.
All I can hope is that tomorrow is less painful for you than yesterday.

With love and hugs to you and your family.

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My heart is breaking as I [View all] spartan61 Mar 2013 OP

. csziggy Mar 2013 #1

I'm so sorry alcibiades_mystery Mar 2013 #2

+1 lsewpershad Mar 2013 #196

So sorry for both of you. n/t Misskittycat Mar 2013 #3

Big hugs to you babylonsister Mar 2013 #4

No answers, of course. randome Mar 2013 #5

{{{Spartan61}}} leftynyc Mar 2013 #6

So sorry Bryn Mar 2013 #7

Our thoughts are with you. So sorry. Hoyt Mar 2013 #8

I am so sorry. liberal_at_heart Mar 2013 #9

I'm so sorry to hear this. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #10

My deepest sympathies. I hope you have other family members and friends.... OldDem2012 Mar 2013 #11

I am so sorry to hear that. MineralMan Mar 2013 #12

I'm sorry to hear this spartan61.... Little Star Mar 2013 #13

So sorry. ProSense Mar 2013 #14

It's so hard to understand. 99Forever Mar 2013 #15

I am so sorry, spartan61. catbyte Mar 2013 #16

My prayers and best wishes to your family. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #17

I'm so sorry. Wait Wut Mar 2013 #18

so very sorry to hear this. please know that our thoughts and prayers are with both of you. niyad Mar 2013 #19

Sending you both hugs and warm vibes. Solly Mack Mar 2013 #20

how unfair. For both of you renate Mar 2013 #21

So sorry. stevenleser Mar 2013 #22

I wish I knew... City Lights Mar 2013 #23

I am sorry supernova Mar 2013 #24

No good reason, that is for sure siligut Mar 2013 #25

So Sorry! Debbie357 Mar 2013 #26

The fate of others is decided by the Universe. Ikonoklast Mar 2013 #27

I'm sorry. ZombieHorde Mar 2013 #28

Oh sweetheart tblue Mar 2013 #29

no words suffice... magical thyme Mar 2013 #30

My heart MynameisBlarney Mar 2013 #31

so very sorry, spartan. :( Whisp Mar 2013 #32

I am very sorry kairos12 Mar 2013 #33

(((hugs))) spartan61 and husband... So very sorry. nt riderinthestorm Mar 2013 #34

(((((((spartan61 & husband))))))) WillyT Mar 2013 #35

I will keep you and your husband HappyMe Mar 2013 #36

the dickhead chaney's of the world live on because he has a team Javaman Mar 2013 #37

May you both find peace beveeheart Mar 2013 #38

I'm so terribly sorry! And I cannot answer your question, but hope sinkingfeeling Mar 2013 #39

Not much to say except I'm deeply sorry. Warren DeMontague Mar 2013 #40

All I can say is... Lydia Leftcoast Mar 2013 #41

Sending all good thoughts to you tomm2thumbs Mar 2013 #42

I am so sorry MotherPetrie Mar 2013 #43

I'm so sorry. I wish there was some comfort i could offer. FedUpWithIt All Mar 2013 #44

And my heart is breaking to read this. I'm so very very sorry. abq e streeter Mar 2013 #45

Very sad when bad things happen to good people. Nye Bevan Mar 2013 #46

You have my every sympathy. n/t Bossy Monkey Mar 2013 #47

A hug from the Midwest martigras Mar 2013 #48

Oh sweetie...I am so very sorry...we are here with you.. Tikki Mar 2013 #49

I'm so sorry you and he are going through this Marrah_G Mar 2013 #50

I am so sorry!!! Beacool Mar 2013 #51

I'm so sorry Sienna86 Mar 2013 #52

I know exactly what you're feeling malaise Mar 2013 #53

Cancer sucks...... a kennedy Mar 2013 #54

It sucks. I'm so sorry. aquart Mar 2013 #55

I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and prayers AndyA Mar 2013 #56

My prayers are with you both. MissMarple Mar 2013 #57

I asked myself the same question eight years ago PlanetBev Mar 2013 #58

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband Liberalynn Mar 2013 #59

... 2naSalit Mar 2013 #60

No words. Just peace n/t Helen Reddy Mar 2013 #61

I am so very sorry, sheshe2 Mar 2013 #62

No answer except life isn't fair. Our thoughts are with you. mountain grammy Mar 2013 #63

Only the good die young Rider3 Mar 2013 #64

So so sorry, Dearheart ReRe Mar 2013 #65

Oh, Spartan... kimmylavin Mar 2013 #66

I don't even have words. Puglover Mar 2013 #67

This world is grossly unfair LittleBlue Mar 2013 #68

Strong hugs to both of you Plucketeer Mar 2013 #69

First, I am sorry, Lifelong Protester Mar 2013 #70

I am so sorry. Ilsa Mar 2013 #71

So so sorry, spartan61 graywarrior Mar 2013 #72

I am so sorry. I have been there... Honest_Abe Mar 2013 #73

Bless your heart - my prayers are mercymechap Mar 2013 #74

Do not spend this time thinking about Cheney/Rummy/W and so on ..... Botany Mar 2013 #75

I'm so sorry, spartan61. Raffi Ella Mar 2013 #76

I'm sorry you have to face this. hedgehog Mar 2013 #77

Peace be with your husband and you. Granny M Mar 2013 #78

I am so sorry for you and you have my prayers. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #79

My thoughts are with you. nt hack89 Mar 2013 #80

May you both find peace, strength and comfort in being together during this time. Mnemosyne Mar 2013 #81

I feel your pain and I am so sorry for your grief. RebelOne Mar 2013 #82

Oh, spartan61... OneGrassRoot Mar 2013 #83

i'm so sorry to hear that ... shireen Mar 2013 #84

I'm so incredibly sorry. Chellee Mar 2013 #85

Sending caring thoughts and prayers to you and your family. gademocrat7 Mar 2013 #86

(((Hugs))) I am so sorry. If there any way I can help, please don't hesitate to ask. idwiyo Mar 2013 #87

I hope you will feel some small comfort knowing Loki Mar 2013 #88

. myrna minx Mar 2013 #89

I'm So Sorry NikolaC Mar 2013 #90

My deepest sympathy Worried senior Mar 2013 #91

Ouch. Nothing I can say, but I wish you well. n/t Laelth Mar 2013 #92

There is no justice nor sensible reason......ever Sheepshank Mar 2013 #93

Sounds like your husband is someone who worked for the sunrise. patrice Mar 2013 #94

My heart is with you both. Milliesmom Mar 2013 #95

Sending you and your husband love and light, spartan61 n/t RayOfHope Mar 2013 #96

I understand and I feel your pain..... chillfactor Mar 2013 #97

May you find peace No Vested Interest Mar 2013 #98

Billy Joel got it right. Spitfire of ATJ Mar 2013 #99

I'm so sorry for what you are going through. jaded_old_cynic Mar 2013 #100

awww... SHRED Mar 2013 #101

I'm so sorry... Phentex Mar 2013 #102

Oh man, Spartan. I am so sorry. loudsue Mar 2013 #103

So sorry brucefan Mar 2013 #104

Prayers and good thoughts sent to you. (nt) Paladin Mar 2013 #105

Peace and love MFM008 Mar 2013 #106

My thoughts are with both of you. LeftofObama Mar 2013 #107

My heart goes out to you. narnian60 Mar 2013 #108

Firstly, please know you are not alone Smilo Mar 2013 #109

Best of thoughts to you LiberalLovinLug Mar 2013 #110

I am so sorry. RiffRandell Mar 2013 #111

For you and your husband. Cleita Mar 2013 #112

((((((( spartan61 )))))))) lunatica Mar 2013 #113

... Fumesucker Mar 2013 #114

Good luck dear, thank you for posting. mahina Mar 2013 #115

I am so sorry... southern_belle Mar 2013 #116

Hold to the memories. Eleanors38 Mar 2013 #117

Your husband has really made a difference. Peace, and gratitude. nolabear Mar 2013 #118

You have my heart today... TeeYiYi Mar 2013 #119

Maybe because Sweet Freedom Mar 2013 #120

Post removed Post removed Mar 2013 #121

I am so sorry nadinbrzezinski Mar 2013 #122

I'm so sorry.... ProfessionalLeftist Mar 2013 #123

Oh my. There is no answer to your question. I don't understand it, either. mnhtnbb Mar 2013 #124

I'm so sorry Spartan61. I always felt that Satan is keeping the bad people like Cheney alive kimbutgar Mar 2013 #125

I am so sorry. My grandmother used to say that when good people die younger than LoisB Mar 2013 #126

I'm so sorry. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2013 #127

i'm so sorry JI7 Mar 2013 #128

I am so sorry etherealtruth Mar 2013 #129

I am so sorry life long demo Mar 2013 #130

i'm so sorry. mopinko Mar 2013 #131

Sorry for you and your family... Bennyboy Mar 2013 #132

I'm very sad about what you and your husband must be going through... AikidoSoul Mar 2013 #133

I am so sorry. brer cat Mar 2013 #134

I'm very sorry, I can't imagine. Bosso 63 Mar 2013 #135

So sorry for your loss ..... BUT .... Dick Chaney's day in court .... flying-skeleton Mar 2013 #136

My best to you luv, going through the same here arthritisR_US Mar 2013 #137

i'm so sorry spartan61 barbtries Mar 2013 #138

Thank you to my wonderful DU family spartan61 Mar 2013 #139

I'm so sorry Liberal_in_LA Mar 2013 #140

I have been in your shoes too often to say I have an answer DFW Mar 2013 #141

I can't imagine what you're going through melody Mar 2013 #142

I wish I could give you a hug, spartan. pacalo Mar 2013 #143

spartan61, I am heartbroken for you. Sissyk Mar 2013 #144

Oh sparan, I am sorry. There are no words adequate to express enough to ease your pain freshwest Mar 2013 #145

{{{spartan61}}} You ask a very good question. WinkyDink Mar 2013 #146

Life is full of mysteries like this. Know you are in my thoughts... agracie Mar 2013 #147

This breaks my heart too emsimon33 Mar 2013 #148

..because they live so much more in a few hours than others would in 7 or 8 decades. Festivito Mar 2013 #149

I'm so sorry, spartan. AirmensMom Mar 2013 #150

I'm so sorry. emmadoggy Mar 2013 #151

I am so very sorry you have to go through this. Curmudgeoness Mar 2013 #152

I'm sorry... vankuria Mar 2013 #153

very sorry you are going through this sadness hopemountain Mar 2013 #154

I wish you and your husband peace. TheOther95Percent Mar 2013 #155

I'm so sorry you are both going through this. Maraya1969 Mar 2013 #156

So very sorry. Lizzie Poppet Mar 2013 #157

I am not sorry TomClash Mar 2013 #158

{{{hug}}} Ruby the Liberal Mar 2013 #159

tigerram Tigerram Mar 2013 #160

Peace to you and your husband, so sorry. uppityperson Mar 2013 #161

.... spanone Mar 2013 #162

Was he conscious when the President spoke today? fadedrose Mar 2013 #163

I'm so sorry, spartan. frogmarch Mar 2013 #164

Oh dear spartan61. My heart goes out to you and yes.... glinda Mar 2013 #165

I know your pain and posted here too. ZX86 Mar 2013 #166

I wish peace for both of you. n/t joesdaughter Mar 2013 #167

I am so, so sorry, spartan61. WinstonSmith4740 Mar 2013 #168

I have asked myself that quite often lately cynannmarie Mar 2013 #169

My heart goes out to you relayerbob Mar 2013 #170

(((hugs))) n/t sueh Mar 2013 #171

Damn, I wish life were fair tavalon Mar 2013 #172

:( BlancheSplanchnik Mar 2013 #173

My heart goes out to mzmolly Mar 2013 #174

All my love to you and yours. donheld Mar 2013 #175

May time leave with the warm glow of fond memories. Moostache Mar 2013 #176

I'm so sorry TDale313 Mar 2013 #177

I've sat in your chair and know exactly what you are going through. Frustratedlady Mar 2013 #178

I'm so sorry you and your love have to go through this Sugarcoated Mar 2013 #179

damn backwoodsbob Mar 2013 #180

It just is not fair. libodem Mar 2013 #181

I can only send love and hugs to you both n/t radhika Mar 2013 #182

I wonder those things also lovemydog Mar 2013 #183

Sorrow mtasselin Mar 2013 #184

I am so sorry. lonestarnot Mar 2013 #185

Wish I had answers sellitman Mar 2013 #186

so sorry JCMach1 Mar 2013 #187

I'm so sorry. SalmonChantedEvening Mar 2013 #188

I am so sorry samplegirl Mar 2013 #189

the hospital vigil is horrible cally Mar 2013 #190

I'm so sorry. CrispyQ Mar 2013 #191

I am so sorry Highway61 Mar 2013 #192

I'm so sorry! Cane4Dems Mar 2013 #193

I'm very sorry BootinUp Mar 2013 #194

Condolences spartan61 sarge43 Mar 2013 #195

I am so sorry spartan61. My onecent Mar 2013 #197

i'm so sorry RFKHumphreyObama Mar 2013 #198