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WilliamPitt

(58,179 posts)
Fri Mar 22, 2013, 08:22 PM Mar 2013

I want to thank every DUer who has survived/endured sexual assault and discussed it here. [View all]

The DU conversation on rape, assault, rape culture and everything else that travels in this wretched applecart has been going on (in GD anyway) for a long while now. I, for one, have learned a lot, and have been required to look inward at a variety of things that I'd honestly never considered before. The conversation has gotten ugly more than once, but it is an ugly topic, and painful, and burdened with all the baggage that upbringing and culture and ignorance and anger brings along.

In particular, I am deeply grateful to the DUers who have survived/endured sexual assault, and have chosen to speak of their experience here. It takes a tremendous amount of personal courage and strength to bring up and speak out about such horrors, and that shared experience has given profound and important depth to the conversation. Of course I wish it had not happened, but it did, and by sharing it, you have made me and many others think very hard about a great many things, and I thank you for that from the bottom of my heart.

Also, in case you didn't know, this just happened:

Sexual Assault Survivors Support (Group)
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=forum&id=1266

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Rec'd; thanks, and you're right. babylonsister Mar 2013 #1
Well said Will Pitt. nm rhett o rick Mar 2013 #2
Thank you TxDemChem Mar 2013 #3
There has been a cost. salin Mar 2013 #4
Great post, thank you Salin. The silent acceptance of all that by our Mods here is disheartening bettyellen Mar 2013 #8
I'm sorry. WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #11
I am sorry timdog44 Mar 2013 #12
Oh Salin... myrna minx Mar 2013 #15
+100 boston bean Mar 2013 #17
I remember every one of those examples. LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #28
(( )) blm Mar 2013 #26
+1 me too. I still pay but no longer feel I'm part of DU or safe here. LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #27
Although I am fairly new to DU, TxDemChem Mar 2013 #33
K&R n/t krispos42 Mar 2013 #5
While I no longer suffer Ilsa Mar 2013 #6
Exactly salin Mar 2013 #20
+1 LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #29
Yes, brave souls..thank you. Cha Mar 2013 #7
K&R ismnotwasm Mar 2013 #9
Thank you Will. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #10
Don't thank me. WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #13
Sigh. I was thanking you for bringing it to my attention. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #14
It is wrenching to speak about. I wish I was braver. cali Mar 2013 #16
I can't imagine. progressoid Mar 2013 #18
K&R demmiblue Mar 2013 #19
Good post. I have also learned a lot from their posts. NCTraveler Mar 2013 #21
^^^ This. ^^^ WilliamPitt Mar 2013 #22
Thank you, NCTraveler. nt redqueen Mar 2013 #24
It makes me so angry. So angry that so many have suffered. Evoman Mar 2013 #23
Joined the group. undergroundpanther Mar 2013 #25
+1 LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #30
Thank you William Pitt. It helps so much there are men like you out there. LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #31
What is so very painful to comtemplate... love_katz Mar 2013 #32
Beautiful post! Thank you for writing it and thank you for being here. LiberalLoner Mar 2013 #34
They are very brave libodem Mar 2013 #35
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