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In reply to the discussion: Woman fined for hitting man who grabbed her [View all]antigone382
(3,682 posts)As portrayed in the OP, the story indicates that she acted very quickly. Her reaction is just as likely to have been a conditioned reflexive response to someone grabbing her in an aggressive and inappropriate manner as it is to have been a deliberate act of aggression. When a man takes it upon himself to sexually assault me, I don't know in that moment what he is or is not capable of. I do know that it is likely he is physically stronger than me and if I wait for him to escalate force, I will be outmatched. The safest option in my opinion is to incapacitate him as quickly as possible, and striking him hard enough to break his nose seems like a quick and effective way to do that. And this isn't even taking into account the possibility that she is one of the many people who suffers from a trauma-related disorder from previous incidents; for such an individual, survival instincts take complete control in the situation.
I don't want to leave out room for excessive use of force in response to a threat; I think if she had continued to be physically violent with him once he was incapacitated, that would show a level of malice beyond the need to protect one's self in an uncertain situation. However, I don't think that turning around quickly to dispatch someone who has physically assaulted you is a disproportionate response, or one that implies revenge over self-defense, given the uncertainty of the situation.