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Jennicut

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60. My girls aren' t close to being teens yet but they will never ever

Tue Mar 26, 2013, 05:36 PM

Mar 2013

have to pledge their "purity" to me or their father. Eww, yuck, sexist. Ironically, I was a virgin until I was 23 because the guys I went to high school and college with just seemed like such meatheads. It was not to be pure, it was just waiting for the right person. And it ended up being my husband and that worked out well. This purity crap is so ultra fundie and "blames" girls for their decisions to have sex, leaving teenage boys scot free in responsibility.

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Aaaaah! I just found out that on old school friend took his teenage daughter to a "Purity Ball" [View all] progressoid Mar 2013 OP

these people are scary wierd.......... bowens43 Mar 2013 #1

American Paterfamilias Taverner Mar 2013 #2

I'm creeped out haikugal Mar 2013 #3

I read an article one time get the red out Mar 2013 #4

Yep - American Taliban. n/t progressoid Mar 2013 #8

Gross and embarrassing--speaking as a former teenage girl. TwilightGardener Mar 2013 #5

Agreed. It would have been appropriate for my development at age 7-8. Not as a teen. KittyWampus Mar 2013 #6

At 7-8 I would have been so creeped out at the thought of sex, and Doremus Mar 2013 #67

Speaking as a parent of former teenage girls, progressoid Mar 2013 #10

Yup, wrong on so many levels Art_from_Ark Mar 2013 #41

Me too, that would be none of my father's business and the thought Raine Mar 2013 #22

Truth in advertising - they should call them "STD Balls" RainDog Mar 2013 #7

Quiver Full Parenting.. haikugal Mar 2013 #9

Unfortunately, I think there may be some of that Quiver Full crap going on with him. progressoid Mar 2013 #21

Those purity balls are creepy. MineralMan Mar 2013 #11

Let's hope he didn't spend $100 on dinner. sadbear Mar 2013 #12

*cough* Recursion Mar 2013 #15

Not appropriate response. n/t RebelOne Mar 2013 #16

How's this? sadbear Mar 2013 #17

Maybe not - but funny aint_no_life_nowhere Mar 2013 #20

Hysterical! StrongBad Mar 2013 #56

Most appropriate response. n/t TroglodyteScholar Mar 2013 #65

It makes me sick, that they don't Isoldeblue Mar 2013 #13

That "standard" shouldn't apply to anyone. It's unrealistic and unfair. nomorenomore08 Mar 2013 #19

Truly! n/m Isoldeblue Mar 2013 #66

Very creepy richmwill Mar 2013 #14

I personally think they are sick and more than a little perverted. appleannie1 Mar 2013 #18

...Paging Doctor Freud...... Demoiselle Mar 2013 #23

It's called "Emotional Incest". Manifestor_of_Light Mar 2013 #24

No purity dances or anything like that for the sons? davidn3600 Mar 2013 #25

Excellent post! rurallib Mar 2013 #31

Of course not. temporary311 Mar 2013 #36

Only on Arrested Development. Quantess Mar 2013 #45

Motherboy!!!!!! Initech Mar 2013 #62

My wife gave me a Bluth Frozen Banana t-shirt last month. progressoid Mar 2013 #70

That is awesome. Initech Mar 2013 #71

No time for that nonsense - gotta get to football practice! JustABozoOnThisBus Mar 2013 #46

They have 'em jmowreader Mar 2013 #49

I wanna know where the boys are Texasgal Mar 2013 #26

Well, boys will be boys Warpy Mar 2013 #30

I guess so. Texasgal Mar 2013 #33

"purity ball with his mama would be creepy to the men"... awoke_in_2003 Mar 2013 #39

This is just creepy. Sissyk Mar 2013 #27

Father of 9 kids by 7 women takes daughter to "purity ball". Ian David Mar 2013 #28

Ewwwww! Sorry, that is just creepy. smirkymonkey Mar 2013 #32

Fantastic picture! Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #37

I just puked in my mouth a little. nt awoke_in_2003 Mar 2013 #40

... LittleBlue Mar 2013 #43

"Why can't I have normal parents?" Quantess Mar 2013 #44

I don't think the girls in that picture are acting like they want to be there. Initech Mar 2013 #63

Really, really, creepy. NaturalHigh Mar 2013 #29

Okay, glad I was not the only one Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #38

Oh no, you are not the only one Hekate Mar 2013 #58

Saw this on Free Speech TV about 4 years ago rurallib Mar 2013 #34

"Purity Culture Is Rape Culture" LadyHawkAZ Mar 2013 #35

Uttery disgusting LittleBlue Mar 2013 #42

You know, there *is* a loop hole... Ian David Mar 2013 #47

That is fucking great!!! truebrit71 Mar 2013 #50

I believe both of these ladies were on Big Bang. MrSlayer Mar 2013 #52

A muslim guy I knew from Turkey RainDog Mar 2013 #53

Fucking hilarious! Fantastic Anarchist Mar 2013 #64

Very good. Boudica the Lyoness Mar 2013 #69

And these girls are probably far more likely to have an unintended pregnancy. alphafemale Mar 2013 #48

Soldiers call shit like this "mandatory fun" jmowreader Mar 2013 #51

I think it's revolting. sibelian Mar 2013 #54

One learns something new every day on D.U. Auggie Mar 2013 #55

Congratulations mercuryblues Mar 2013 #57

I'm a guy and I am extremely weirded out by this concept. Initech Mar 2013 #59

My girls aren' t close to being teens yet but they will never ever Jennicut Mar 2013 #60

Regarding the BOYS and their "balls".... Hekate Mar 2013 #61

Real-life Ned Flanders Jamaal510 Mar 2013 #68