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Showing Original Post only (View all)Carrie Underwood: I'd quit my job if my husband told me to [View all]
Country music superstar Carrie Underwood has discovered the secret to a happy marriage, and it's kind of retro: Look hot, have date nights, and let your her husband call the shots.
Sheryl Sandberg, avert your eyes: Underwood, a six-time Grammy Award winner, says she would totally "lean out" of her career if her husband, professional ice hockey player Mike Fisher, wanted her to.
"If Mike ever told me he needed me to quit, I'd quit," she tells People magazine this week. "When you make that promise to somebody, and you stand before God and your family and friends, you've got to do everything that you possibly can to make that work."
It's easy to make a sweeping statement like that when a.) you're independently wealthy and b.) it's unlikely that your husband would ever ask you to give up your very lucrative and successful career just because he wants you to hang out with him at the rink. Plus, given the amount of time Fisher, 32, spends on the road playing hockey and Underwood, 30, spends on the road while on tour, some downtime might be a very welcome thing. Still, while Underwood says she's willing to cut short her career if it makes their marriage stronger, it's unclear whether the idea works both ways. Would Fisher consider leaving the Nashville Predators hockey team to spend more time with his wife? Would she ever ask him to? (Though we do think it's sweet that he left the Ottawa Senators and moved to Nashville, presumably to be with his country star.)
Sheryl Sandberg, avert your eyes: Underwood, a six-time Grammy Award winner, says she would totally "lean out" of her career if her husband, professional ice hockey player Mike Fisher, wanted her to.
"If Mike ever told me he needed me to quit, I'd quit," she tells People magazine this week. "When you make that promise to somebody, and you stand before God and your family and friends, you've got to do everything that you possibly can to make that work."
It's easy to make a sweeping statement like that when a.) you're independently wealthy and b.) it's unlikely that your husband would ever ask you to give up your very lucrative and successful career just because he wants you to hang out with him at the rink. Plus, given the amount of time Fisher, 32, spends on the road playing hockey and Underwood, 30, spends on the road while on tour, some downtime might be a very welcome thing. Still, while Underwood says she's willing to cut short her career if it makes their marriage stronger, it's unclear whether the idea works both ways. Would Fisher consider leaving the Nashville Predators hockey team to spend more time with his wife? Would she ever ask him to? (Though we do think it's sweet that he left the Ottawa Senators and moved to Nashville, presumably to be with his country star.)
http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/-carrie-underwood--i-d-quit-my-job-if-my-husband-told-me-to-164651550.html
I know some people here were praising Underwood for her support of gay marriage. But not sure if you want her to be a role model for feminism.
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Actually, by making this Stepford-Wife tripe public, she's influencing a LOT of young women
BlueCaliDem
Apr 2013
#7
So she should speak up on issues with which you agree, but needs to STFU when ...
11 Bravo
Apr 2013
#19
Should women who have a more progressive mind and outlook make public statements about what they do
The2ndWheel
Apr 2013
#93
Indeed it does. Her fanbase are the same people who threatened the Dixie Chicks.
Dawson Leery
Apr 2013
#79
If I don't know who she is, how can I imagine that it's "superior" not to know? Maybe she's GREAT.
Warren DeMontague
Apr 2013
#114
And I know what I'd tell him, also. That's why I never remarried after I divorced more
Arkansas Granny
Apr 2013
#46
Excelent post! I don't see her eeking out a living, working at Wal-Mart even if Mike needed for
ladjf
Apr 2013
#57
She probably needs hauled off to re-education camp before it gets worse and she makes a dongle joke
The Straight Story
Apr 2013
#24
This shows that one doesn't have to be very smart to be a successful entertainer.
ladjf
Apr 2013
#56
Sure honey. Every husband in America would ask you to quit a career worth about a billion.
MichiganVote
Apr 2013
#58
Carrie Underwood, Taylor Swift, anything on the radio = country POP. Real country =
alp227
Apr 2013
#84
Will never understand why it seems so often that it's the woman that needs to give everything up
Number23
Apr 2013
#92
I wonder how long she'd enjoy that? How much time can be spent bossing the maids about and
MADem
Apr 2013
#101
Or maybe she knows he wouldn't ask that of her unless it was a very very serious situation.
dkf
Apr 2013
#102
It's really nice when your rich like she is and she can make that choice. Not everyone has that
southernyankeebelle
Apr 2013
#132
Corporate Nashville country/pop/rock is probably the most collectively right-wing music genre...
YoungDemCA
Apr 2013
#135