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In reply to the discussion: no more, no less. a pediatrician looks at ALL parents as POTENTIAL abusers. [View all]Sissyk
(12,665 posts)I've come to believe that the dozen or two that do nothing but bitch about men, and us supposedly men worshipers, have nothing to do IRL to help those in need so they spend their time here or elsewhere on the web thinking they are helping. And/or, they have relationships with their own husbands where they cannot speak out or be heard, so they take it out on some here on this site. They claim you and others post frame bait threads but turn right the fuck around and do the same fucking thing.
Since I've come to believe that, I've started to feel sorry for them. That keeps me from getting angry at some of the stuff I read here.
It's funny. At the women's shelter the other day, I mentioned a topic of conversation that had come up here with a woman I have gotten to know. She looked at me like I had grown horns. One of those "what the fuck are you talking about" looks. That's when I realized that I've been spending way too much time here on trivial matters such as dongles and tits.
Another thing, I've been raped. A long time ago. You know pretty much the only times I even think about it? Here; and when working with women at the shelter that have been raped. Do I think about it walking down the street? No. Do I look at every man as if they are potential rapist? No. I also have enough brain power about me to know that there is a handy dandy little feature on this site that can keep me from reading threads that may trigger, or really piss me off.
Back to the thread. The only time my son's pediatrician ask anything out of the ordinary was when my son at 13 received a black eye from getting hit with a golf club. From his father. Obviously, an accident. Since the doc had never had a reason to question us because our son was healthy and happy, it was not even an issue.
I think I'm babbling, so I'll stop now.