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Posteritatis

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32. I'd add a nice healthy purge of the school's administration to that, too
Sat Apr 13, 2013, 05:57 PM
Apr 2013

Cole Harbour District High's been a troubled place for a long time; this is just the most over-the-top unacceptable example. It's not a terribly nice part of town (by our standards at least - again, "troubled" describes the area well) and the school in particular's had a checkered past at least as far back as when I was attending high school in town in the nineties.

A lot of it around there is straight up machismo, male chauvinism, and a hefty dose of bullies-sure-are-utter-assholes to boot. The dude-bro mindset in general around here, and the fact that it's taken for granted, is a bigger problem than the social upper crust being outside of the law's reach. (They likely are as much here as anywhere, of course, but there's much less of that crust where I live.)

There's plenty of utter viciousness involving bullying in general, especially types of bullying that involve sexual violence or opportunities to drag someone through the mud and document it. The province in general, and local schools in particular, only started trying to systematically look at what to do with that about two years ago or so, with some mixed reactions to their thoughts and proposals so far. The Parsons case is making it very abundantly clear that things aren't working and need to be fixed yesterday, and that fact is still utterly dominating local news and conversation in general.

I dunno what specifically is going to come of it. I expect this case will start moving fairly quickly now that the entire planet's shining spotlights on the town (and I am at least glad this almost certainly destroyed the justice minister's career), but I'm trying to be hopeful, and it at least feels like this is getting people to begin to understand that no, bullying isn't just "kids being kids," not that it ever was.

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ah, you know, teh rape culture a few on du are actually arguing about. seabeyond Apr 2013 #1
Me too... haikugal Apr 2013 #2
Me, too... as a grandmother of a soon-to-be 14 year old beautiful young woman, I am disgusted and secondwind Apr 2013 #16
As the father of two young women, I'm sick and tired of the "she was drunk" excuse. radicalliberal Apr 2013 #48
As the father of a daughter GeoWilliam750 Apr 2013 #53
+1000000000000000000000 blackspade Apr 2013 #76
There is no rape culture in the first world. sufrommich Apr 2013 #3
We haven't seen any comments from anyone claiming to be 'confused' about what is or is not rape redqueen Apr 2013 #6
Example: Downwinder Apr 2013 #21
We live in a sick society that places sports above sufrommich Apr 2013 #22
Sports picks up where religion leaves off. If the importance of religion doesn't distract you from valerief Apr 2013 #68
Anonymous. Whisp Apr 2013 #4
+1 October Apr 2013 #57
Well done, Anon! LittleBlue Apr 2013 #5
Mine too. I might feel differently if they ever came after me Warpy Apr 2013 #17
The police have little interest in taking care of any matter truedelphi Apr 2013 #35
The only advice I got when I had a violent stalker was Warpy Apr 2013 #37
Well done Anonymos! smirkymonkey Apr 2013 #7
Wanna bet they were afraid of ruining the "bright futures" of a bunch of tblue37 Apr 2013 #8
With emphasis on the well-connected. Cleita Apr 2013 #9
I live near the area; there isn't much in terms of right sides of the tracks there Posteritatis Apr 2013 #27
I bow to your superior knowledge of your own place, Cleita Apr 2013 #29
I'd add a nice healthy purge of the school's administration to that, too Posteritatis Apr 2013 #32
Exactly.. sendero Apr 2013 #45
It's amazing, the things that can be done, when people who care and who are solely motivated by Zorra Apr 2013 #10
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WOOT!!!!!!! haikugal Apr 2013 #19
LOVE this!!! calimary Apr 2013 #39
I would love to see GiveMeFreedom Apr 2013 #41
I stole the flag, and put in the motto myself, which actually came from Zorra Apr 2013 #44
Hi Zorra, GiveMeFreedom Apr 2013 #47
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I'd like to recommend that post. +1K mill loudsue Apr 2013 #43
Police are constitutionally and legally limited by privacy rules that Anonymous does not respect. Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2013 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2013 #13
The school sitting on it hasn't helped either Posteritatis Apr 2013 #33
when dozens of people know what happened RILib Apr 2013 #62
It is hard to say timdog44 Apr 2013 #12
K&R Thank you, Anonymous! idwiyo Apr 2013 #55
Found at online site of the area newspaper: Bernardo de La Paz Apr 2013 #14
De Adder's usually a talentless hack but he nailed this one. (nt) Posteritatis Apr 2013 #26
that illustrates the "dude-bro" mentality of the World perfectly. BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2013 #74
Her father mercuryblues Apr 2013 #18
a human being. she was loved. and she loved. seabeyond Apr 2013 #23
SAD mtasselin Apr 2013 #20
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Go Anonymous!!!!! Initech Apr 2013 #28
THANKING ANONYMOUS Skittles Apr 2013 #30
Good For Anonymous. Warren DeMontague Apr 2013 #31
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Me too!!! I'm such a damn technophobe that I can barely deal with the basics. calimary Apr 2013 #40
Oh, I did not need the link to remember the Bobbitt's! Curmudgeoness Apr 2013 #42
It seems that 2naSalit Apr 2013 #71
at least in the US teachers are MANDATORY reporters ZRT2209 Apr 2013 #38
They are here, too. Hopefully some heads will be rolling soon over this. (nt) Posteritatis Apr 2013 #52
I wish Poster...... MAD Dave Apr 2013 #70
I'm not sure that's going to happen in this case Posteritatis Apr 2013 #72
I sincerely hope you are right! MAD Dave Apr 2013 #73
Anonymous Brooklyns_Finest Apr 2013 #46
Because... Lady Freedom Returns Apr 2013 #49
Except in this case they actually *were*. Posteritatis Apr 2013 #51
are you saying we have to BLINDLY follow an org? this is what you felt you needed to say on this seabeyond Apr 2013 #66
Insulting to law enforcement? Iggo Apr 2013 #75
I find it sad Texasgal Apr 2013 #50
If it lands on a few cases like this, people might get the hint and it won't be. (nt) Posteritatis Apr 2013 #65
Thank you Anonymous GeoWilliam750 Apr 2013 #54
Link to the statement released by Anonymous: idwiyo Apr 2013 #56
They need to release the names ASAP. Not sure why they're holding this the names back as they didn't freshwest Apr 2013 #58
Anonymous was saturating Twitter about this 2 days ago. dixiegrrrrl Apr 2013 #59
They're saying they're backing down some at the request of the parents Posteritatis Apr 2013 #64
thank you fresh, for this read. "you are pathetic, quietly sobbing while fondling yourselves in the seabeyond Apr 2013 #67
That makes me so fucking mad Rex Apr 2013 #60
K&R!! hue Apr 2013 #61
Rehtaeh Parsons was not JEB Apr 2013 #63
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