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In reply to the discussion: "MY 12 year old is pregnant. FOR REAL."... [View all]onpatrol98
(1,989 posts)She got pregnant @ 13. Worst days of our life. The swelling was horrible. Her feet and hands did swell. She still walked to school every day, but it was tough. She was an honor roll student, but was not allowed to join the honors club because she was pregnant. The father of the child was 16. It was the first time in our lives that we had to deal with social services. That was horrible, as well. The access in our case was that she was a latchkey child. Had a boatload of free time. And, no adult supervision after school. But, the truth of the matter is...when they're motivated, they're motivated. You can watch them like hawks, and still be surprised.
She did end up having the child. He'll be starting college shortly. He's a great kid. But, boy...that was tough for her to go through that young. Extended family members were not supportive. Some church members were, some were not. I don't know what to tell you. I wish the best for you and your family. I hope your child receives the best care and support possible.