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In reply to the discussion: Top tip for men who want to make women [View all]sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)31. Top Tip to men who think women want men who want to 'MAKe' them 'like them'.
Women don't want to be deceived. They don't want anyone 'making' them do anything, including 'liking someone'.
Women respect honesty. They don't like tricksters. They are perfectly capable of deciding who they like and who they do not. And most women would most likely detect an 'act' like this when they saw it.
Here's a tip for you from a woman. Just be yourself, and we will decide whether we like you or not. Stop with the acting, it's a real turn-off to most women.
Oh, and like men, women are people, they are not some objects that need to be approached with caution, any more than men are. And they like sex too, just fyi and your almost guaranteed next words of advice to the community.
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Thanks, NYC_SKP this kind of thing makes me sick, as a woman. Most of the incredibly independent .
sabrina 1
Apr 2013
#30
i think the tail wagging would be annoyance, guys tails would wag with happiness.
loli phabay
Apr 2013
#45
There have been more than a few men who listened to me and I still didn't like them.
Luminous Animal
Apr 2013
#12
It's a form of tourette syndrome. This poster just can't help himself. n/t
Egalitarian Thug
Apr 2013
#29
Anyone who believes there is some kind of "formula" or "procedure" for making someone like them is
cherokeeprogressive
Apr 2013
#52