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Wed Apr 17, 2013, 08:00 PM

Apr 2013

They are put in a bag, in his car, and he goes alone (besides even me), as long as they are locked up when he gets home. Oh, yes, WAY TOO MUCH to ask? When you forget to lock doors? Yeah, real safe there.

What you people do not like is that I am the wife of a gun owner who does not share or agree with guns. We have been marred almost 40 years. How long have YOU?

Marrying someone does not make you a clone of the other person. Maybe that is why so many marriage fail. Too many people think you have to be exactly the same as them.

Edit: I am a smoker and he does not like smoking, so I smoke outside. Give and take. So I cannot ask him to lock up his guns and not be around his guns? Compromise makes marriage work.

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Make gun owners the new PARIAH [View all] HockeyMom Apr 2013 OP

I am not going to shun my loved ones. ZombieHorde Apr 2013 #1

As long as there IS productive communication! Lots of the time is is ONE WAY... CTyankee Apr 2013 #78

If you're one of us Shankapotomus Apr 2013 #127

But right now you can be in their face a bit flamingdem Apr 2013 #142

Why would I feel any differently about my gun? Pointy_n_sharp Apr 2013 #152

So my sister, brother-in-law, dad, nephews, uncles...why not make criminals pariah's? The Straight Story Apr 2013 #2

Relax, your family's guns are considered more valuable than the lives of urban children in DC. geek tragedy Apr 2013 #10

Ann Richards is dead. That's the only reason she's not currently ridiculing you and your ... 11 Bravo Apr 2013 #26

There were 57 votes in the Senate today to effectively gut every state gun control law. geek tragedy Apr 2013 #30

without a doubt arely staircase Apr 2013 #54

Nice try The Straight Story Apr 2013 #64

I didn't say you value them more than children. I said your government does. geek tragedy Apr 2013 #70

That's rather mean and close-minded. ScreamingMeemie Apr 2013 #3

Want to See MEAN otohara Apr 2013 #25

You go first. Sissyk Apr 2013 #4

Why shun smokers in public? nt. TimberValley Apr 2013 #5

Because they're burning instruments of mass destruction, of course! Bake Apr 2013 #138

So tens of millions of Americans are going to be treated as a new "pariah?" TimberValley Apr 2013 #6

Yes otohara Apr 2013 #27

No you won't. Earth_First Apr 2013 #43

Pffft... pipi_k Apr 2013 #162

Great little idea you have there... Bay Boy Apr 2013 #7

That's going to work in Arkansas, Alaska, Montana and North Dakota? FarCenter Apr 2013 #8

No, it's not the way. You can't talk through a slammed door. nolabear Apr 2013 #9

uh, no arely staircase Apr 2013 #11

In Texas otohara Apr 2013 #28

lots of liberal gun owners all over the country arely staircase Apr 2013 #29

I Don't Know ONE otohara Apr 2013 #34

Not every gun is a Glock... actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #40

meaning? arely staircase Apr 2013 #41

Fuck Guns and The People Who Buy Them otohara Apr 2013 #45

lol arely staircase Apr 2013 #49

Well, We Boycott All Sorts of Corporations otohara Apr 2013 #61

again arely staircase Apr 2013 #66

I Don't Care What You Think otohara Apr 2013 #73

well, if true, you might re-think your tactics arely staircase Apr 2013 #75

Calling Congress Didn't Do A Damn Thing otohara Apr 2013 #85

Just because you don't know one doesn't mean they aren't there. nt. TimberValley Apr 2013 #42

Hes not as liberal as I would like Go Vols Apr 2013 #47

Yep - This Pic Makes Me Wanna PUKE otohara Apr 2013 #48

"Boo to Gabby Giffords" Union Scribe Apr 2013 #51

I Keep Getting E-mails From otohara Apr 2013 #69

"Proud gun owners" WTF does that mean? Moses2SandyKoufax Apr 2013 #77

Here otohara Apr 2013 #86

I think they are trying to appeal... actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #89

I understand that. Nothing wrong with being proud of restoring a classic car, Moses2SandyKoufax Apr 2013 #92

"Boo to Gabby Giffords" actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #68

According to Biden, he does n/t Yo_Mama Apr 2013 #62

What He Said About How Good It Feels To Hold A Gun otohara Apr 2013 #71

To you... Pointy_n_sharp Apr 2013 #169

come to vermont. I know dozens of them. cali Apr 2013 #76

I Knew A 9 Year Old otohara Apr 2013 #148

Cali, I was going to say the same... Maine-ah Apr 2013 #160

I do. ecstatic Apr 2013 #147

Lots of liberals that are disgusted by gun ownership, as well etherealtruth Apr 2013 #121

as unregulated as it is today, there are many arely staircase Apr 2013 #128

This message was self-deleted by its author TimberValley Apr 2013 #63

Thats a great idea! beevul Apr 2013 #12

Yeah...no. randome Apr 2013 #13

Have fun living on your own little desert island derby378 Apr 2013 #14

Can't Live Without A Gun? otohara Apr 2013 #17

Nice try derby378 Apr 2013 #19

I Hate Them All otohara Apr 2013 #15

Then your hatred is irrational. Union Scribe Apr 2013 #31

Happiness Is A Warm Gun otohara Apr 2013 #33

Yeah, fuck that murder victim. Union Scribe Apr 2013 #35

Murder Victim? otohara Apr 2013 #38

Yeah, you're clearly pissed Union Scribe Apr 2013 #39

Gun Are The Enemy otohara Apr 2013 #55

jury results arely staircase Apr 2013 #57

DU Moderators Always Have Snarky Remarks About Members otohara Apr 2013 #79

and yet, eom arely staircase Apr 2013 #81

eom? otohara Apr 2013 #84

eom....end of message. n/t oneshooter Oct 2014 #171

Honestly I think I would rather... actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #88

I Got To Say, It Was A Suprise otohara Apr 2013 #91

"Murder Victim? Stupid woman asking for trouble and she got it." Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #110

Was She A Rape Victim? otohara Apr 2013 #117

What about all the other women who carry for self-defense? Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #118

Good Luck Ladies otohara Apr 2013 #120

A "messy purse." How -- stereotypical Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #132

I Was Thinking Of My Purse otohara Apr 2013 #133

Those stats are for men owning guns. Nuclear Unicorn Apr 2013 #134

"Stupid woman asking for it..." See where hatred leads? Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #149

And tell me, what have myself or my family done to you or yours? oneshooter Apr 2013 #93

You Support The Gun Industry otohara Apr 2013 #95

And how have they hurt me and my family? oneshooter Apr 2013 #136

You've Never Heard of ALEC? otohara Apr 2013 #140

You're a silly person. nt Codeine Apr 2013 #125

In the end... pipi_k Apr 2013 #164

Definitely need to change perception of gun culture in our society. Hoyt Apr 2013 #16

See, this is how we start losing good dem! Bad idea! n-t Logical Apr 2013 #18

I only have a problem with the ones who use the guns to commit crimes, the rest are ok by me. JVS Apr 2013 #20

You Never Know When otohara Apr 2013 #111

I'm concerned with knowing the past and present, not the future. JVS Apr 2013 #115

The Only Episode I Had With A Gun otohara Apr 2013 #119

None Lurker Deluxe Apr 2013 #159

I have been putting my foot down for 40 years HockeyMom Apr 2013 #21

That isn't what your OP states. ScreamingMeemie Apr 2013 #22

Did you kick him out? Sissyk Apr 2013 #23

I police him HockeyMom Apr 2013 #37

I'm sorry he is in the hospital, Sissyk Apr 2013 #44

This message was self-deleted by its author actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #46

It sounds like you are both perfectly miserable in your relationship. slackmaster Apr 2013 #56

Since you hate them so much, oneshooter Apr 2013 #94

IF he passes before me, HockeyMom Apr 2013 #103

You just might give them up? oneshooter Apr 2013 #141

I can see that. beevul Apr 2013 #24

My son-in-law and brother-in-law? HockeyMom Apr 2013 #58

Assume much? beevul Apr 2013 #65

Aaaaaaaahahahaha rl6214 Apr 2013 #50

Can you imagine lars1701a Apr 2013 #87

Nothing HockeyMom Apr 2013 #100

I have been married 30 years and neither my wife or I rl6214 Apr 2013 #102

Message auto-removed Name removed Apr 2013 #153

Only his GUNS HockeyMom Apr 2013 #97

Sounds like a loving marriage badtoworse Apr 2013 #59

Hint: MANY gun owners... actslikeacarrot Apr 2013 #32

If this is what you want to do then you can't make it about guns and their owners Beearewhyain Apr 2013 #36

extreme much? mikegray Apr 2013 #52

Does anyone have a good recipe for tar and feathers? slackmaster Apr 2013 #53

There are too many good people who own guns; they shouldn't be made to suffer for the extremists. gateley Apr 2013 #60

You mean...like Gabby Giffords? nadinbrzezinski Apr 2013 #67

You cannot look at me and know whether or not I own a gun. You're not likely to see me with it. cherokeeprogressive Apr 2013 #72

I have said many times I prefer open carry HockeyMom Apr 2013 #104

I don't carry my gun anywhere but to the range and back. I'm as much of a gun owner as one who cherokeeprogressive Apr 2013 #114

do you really think sweetapogee Apr 2013 #116

ha ha. like that will happen. I live in Vermont, as liberal a state as there is cali Apr 2013 #74

This is the stupidest post I've seen in a while. tammywammy Apr 2013 #80

Get over yourself, please Mopar151 Apr 2013 #82

Do you support National Repocrity? HockeyMom Apr 2013 #107

When in that state, sure. Mopar151 Apr 2013 #112

Now ya got me smokin' outside with a bunch of gun nuts? Thanks. trof Apr 2013 #83

I'm not going to shun my family and friends just to make *you* feel better about yourself. nt Llewlladdwr Apr 2013 #90

The NRA Thanks You otohara Apr 2013 #96

Yeah, cause spending time with my 72 year old father who happens to own a shotgun is pure evil. Llewlladdwr Apr 2013 #99

Family & Friends otohara Apr 2013 #105

Ignore? No need. Llewlladdwr Apr 2013 #113

Poke All You Want otohara Apr 2013 #126

ok sweetapogee Apr 2013 #166

It's not true no matter how much you self righteously rant SpartanDem Apr 2013 #109

Remember When Drunk Drivers otohara Apr 2013 #129

So we hold people who act irresponsibly accountable Union Scribe Apr 2013 #144

Uhmm no unclebob Apr 2013 #98

You refuse to be around them when they have guns with them HockeyMom Apr 2013 #106

... rrneck Apr 2013 #101

How do I shun myself? Throd Apr 2013 #108

I tried it once... pipi_k Apr 2013 #168

Oh, what a GREAT idea: make tens of millions of Americans pariahs. Lizzie Poppet Apr 2013 #122

Shun the nonbelievers... beevul Apr 2013 #123

NOPE Serve The Servants Apr 2013 #124

Joe Biden has guns... dkf Apr 2013 #130

As I understand it, the President himself enjoys the occasional round of skeet. Llewlladdwr Apr 2013 #143

No Marrah_G Apr 2013 #131

And exactly how will you know who they are? lynne Apr 2013 #135

Better idea, let's make anyone who doesn't agree with me a pariah Demo_Chris Apr 2013 #137

Wait a sec, I want to add to that list davidpdx Apr 2013 #157

Nope. Brigid Apr 2013 #139

Over-the-top, and for many people, impractical. nomorenomore08 Apr 2013 #145

Is this really about gun owners, most of whom are for background checks... ecstatic Apr 2013 #146

This thread is so sad. No pile on for the OP... Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #150

That's the amazing thing about CONCEALED carry... Pointy_n_sharp Apr 2013 #151

90% of Americans, which includes a good many gun owners, support this legislation justiceischeap Apr 2013 #154

They already are hepkat Apr 2013 #155

The Republican Party Called..... Macoy51 Apr 2013 #156

Lead by example!!! Pack your stuff up and move out Lurks Often Apr 2013 #158

Cool! pipi_k Apr 2013 #161

the problem is not gun owners BainsBane Apr 2013 #163

Stupid post. n/t cynatnite Apr 2013 #165

I do not wish to make 22% of Democrats pariahs Joshua Pistachio Apr 2013 #167

Hypocrisy and double standards pipi_k Apr 2013 #170