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In reply to the discussion: Serious questions about pot smokers [View all]SomethingFishy
(4,876 posts)Every person is different.
Ask yourself if it's the smoke that bothers you, or the fact that they smoke. If it's the fact that they smoke then you have to judge for yourself how "special" this person is to you. Special enough to change your views that smoking pot is disgusting? Because that's what it's going to take. If you give this person an ultimatum "me or the pot" you will lose either way. You will lose the "special" person if they choose pot or, they will resent you for making them choose, and the relationship will be over before it starts.
Now if it's just the smoke that bothers you there are all kinds of ways to fix that. Vaporizing is the best solution, for you and your friend. There is no smoke, it vaporizes the THC and you get a little puff of vapor instead of burning leaves. There are also edibles drinks, candies.... Lots of ways to "smoke pot"
I don't usually say too much about myself but I'll tell you this, I smoke daily. I have a son with Autism, a son we adopted who has Muscular Dystrophy, my wife has been on oxygen 24/7 and in a wheelchair outside of the house for the last 2 years. We also seem to be a home for wayward strays, the past year has been our nephew on our couch. So even though I smoke daily I manage to carry 6 people. (Just as an aside I live in Colorado where it is now legal!)
On the other hand I know pot smokers who can barely hold a job..
Every person is different.
You need to decide for yourself if they are worth it. Do you accept this person as they are or not?
I wish you all the best..