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MineralMan

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14. It's tough for a boy to tell a table full of college

Wed Apr 24, 2013, 09:08 AM

Apr 2013

women off. Not so much for a girl who is the boy's sister. Sisters are wonderful people to have around. My sister was always ready to put up a defense for me when I couldn't. She's a year younger than I am. The reverse is and was also true.

These days, there's not so much mystery as there once was, either, about body functions.

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Aggressive Girls Put Teenage Boy In Embarrassing State [View all] cbdo2007 Apr 2013 OP

Every 17 year old pipoman Apr 2013 #1

So in a way those girls were helping him - that's very sweet. el_bryanto Apr 2013 #5

I didn't read where this was his co-workers? Did I miss that? pipoman Apr 2013 #11

Ah so you are saying if I want to help a woman by harrassing her el_bryanto Apr 2013 #13

Maybe I'm not clear on what you think pipoman Apr 2013 #17

You are defending them - I'm saying that people like these offenders should be held up to scorn nt el_bryanto Apr 2013 #18

OOO, scorn, eh? pipoman Apr 2013 #25

Imagining someone posting this in response to the Westborugh fucks el_bryanto Apr 2013 #27

That is exactly what has to happen to funeral goers.. pipoman Apr 2013 #29

This isn't about what they should do - this is about what you should do el_bryanto Apr 2013 #32

Not defending anyone.. pipoman Apr 2013 #38

Wow so the next time an HR department has a harrasment case MattBaggins Apr 2013 #12

You do know the difference between a work environment and a public pipoman Apr 2013 #22

Yes and harassment is wrong in both places. MattBaggins Apr 2013 #23

Nobody said it is fine.. pipoman Apr 2013 #26

You put the blame on the victim MattBaggins Apr 2013 #30

No, I stated a possible pipoman Apr 2013 #39

Oh, right. So they were doing him a favor. pnwmom Apr 2013 #40

So this is the only time in his life he will encounter this? pipoman Apr 2013 #46

Your answer failed to validate the young man's experience, pnwmom Apr 2013 #47

No blaming the victim would be blaming the victim.. pipoman Apr 2013 #50

Good advice to an extent, but I must respectfully take issue... Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #49

I agree, it doesn't warrant it pipoman Apr 2013 #71

Oh, I don't doubt there needs to be some supportive discussion... Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #74

Same thing true for 17 year old girls Crunchy Frog Apr 2013 #67

As stated at least 3 times in this thread pipoman Apr 2013 #70

This is clearly sexual harassment. KitSileya Apr 2013 #2

Yes, it is. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #6

Smart mom. Lesson learned, I bet. MineralMan Apr 2013 #19

i was around speedos all day, for the first two decades of my life. bodily function were not even seabeyond Apr 2013 #31

{erhaps more women are acting badly & mimicking the wretched behavior that's been deemed acceptable KittyWampus Apr 2013 #56

I believe so.... Seems to me to be what we are creating. Yes. Nt seabeyond Apr 2013 #57

So, it's a case of monkey see, monkey do? HappyMe Apr 2013 #58

I know what you're saying. We're so focused on MineralMan Apr 2013 #65

Your mom blamed the vicitm? The2ndWheel Apr 2013 #21

No, she took an opportunity to educate me. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #80

and sexual assault. cbdo2007 Apr 2013 #35

Exactly, I was thinking cue the posts from guys treestar Apr 2013 #36

Amen! How many times have you seen posts from guys saying they wished some hot teacher raccoon Apr 2013 #54

Mean people suck! MineralMan Apr 2013 #3

i would have LOVED to see the 14 yr old girl brave enough to take on the other, older girls. seabeyond Apr 2013 #4

I just have to say this GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #7

thank you for recognizing this. it is very important to me. nt seabeyond Apr 2013 #10

You're welcome. GaYellowDawg Apr 2013 #16

and a clear stated agenda with no apologies. I asked a question galileoreloaded Apr 2013 #59

indeed-seabeyond has honor and honesty sigmasix Apr 2013 #33

I'm going to piggyback on that and... WhaTHellsgoingonhere Apr 2013 #89

Yeah, I have to admit she got it right. Eleanors38 Apr 2013 #51

. Iggo Apr 2013 #55

I can imagine that happening. MineralMan Apr 2013 #8

absolutely. and the girl taking them on is a win all around. for all the people. seabeyond Apr 2013 #9

It's tough for a boy to tell a table full of college MineralMan Apr 2013 #14

This message was self-deleted by its author blueamy66 Apr 2013 #41

Predatory behavior. Possibly criminal. nt geek tragedy Apr 2013 #15

Creepy predators. HappyMe Apr 2013 #20

I have to wonder what's in it for those college women. Sheldon Cooper Apr 2013 #24

Like other sex crimes, it's power and control. A college aged woman (and most women actually) stevenleser Apr 2013 #44

A sex crime!? Quick, convene the grand jury! Comrade Grumpy Apr 2013 #68

In less than a year her poor baby will have to learn to fend for himself CBGLuthier Apr 2013 #28

Females can act like jerks, too. dawg Apr 2013 #34

As a man I have been groped fitman Apr 2013 #43

How sad... that poor kid. redqueen Apr 2013 #37

How about this for a title: Brigid Apr 2013 #42

All the more interesting due not only to gender reversal, LanternWaste Apr 2013 #45

She says her son said he felt trapped and didn't know what to do The2ndWheel Apr 2013 #48

my inner ww2 granpda would say datasuspect Apr 2013 #52

Bullying sucks, it is always bad form. Rex Apr 2013 #53

pretty pc answers so far. galileoreloaded Apr 2013 #60

This reads JustAnotherGen Apr 2013 #61

Breaking News: Tens of millions of girls and women experience this every day. Zorra Apr 2013 #62

yep, it's man bites dog. welcome to our world, fellas. Sucks sometimes, huh? bettyellen Apr 2013 #63

Your comment and the one it is in response to aren't constructive at all. Hosnon Apr 2013 #76

Really, sir? Pointing out that this happens to millions of women every day is not constructive? Zorra Apr 2013 #79

Well, pardon us while we gawk at your shock and indignation. We didn't know you had it in you. bettyellen Apr 2013 #81

Women employ their sexuality as tools to get what they want by the millions as well. Bonobo Apr 2013 #85

Unwelcome sexual advances regardless of gender are sexual harassment Cleita Apr 2013 #64

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Would you dare ask a woman a similar question? Sen. Walter Sobchak Apr 2013 #69

You're right- that is an awful comment. bettyellen Apr 2013 #73

Dear Abby? nolabels Apr 2013 #72

lol Sheldon Cooper Apr 2013 #75

My initial reaction is almost always hypocritical in situations like this octothorpe Apr 2013 #77

"Dear Abby"? Yeah, that really happened. Ikonoklast Apr 2013 #78

What would be the point of making it up? BainsBane Apr 2013 #83

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Not That I Doubt Your Statistic, But It Would Be Nice to Have a Link to the Source. dballance Apr 2013 #87

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they probably do this a lot, it's a joke to them JI7 Apr 2013 #84

Many are saying this is fake, but I saw this happen whe I was in college. Lady Freedom Returns Apr 2013 #86