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baldguy

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13. This is for you. You don't seem to be handling this well.
Thu Apr 25, 2013, 06:30 PM
Apr 2013
How to Deal With Someone Mocking You

Getting bullied and dealing with people making fun of you is unfortunately a reality for millions of kids every day, and most people have their own emotional scar tissue from these experiences. The sad thing is, many adults continue this practice. These practices can be stopped when you learn how to deal with someone mocking you.

Instructions

1 Laugh. If someone is laughing with you, they can't be laughing at you. This holds the most true in situations when it is someone that you don't have to normally deal with. If you are never going to see the person again, laughing a comment off exudes a class and confidence that your bully is sorely lacking.

2 Turn it around. Think about what the person is saying and think about ways in which they are being hypocritical. If the statement or something similar can be said about them, turn it back around to the subject of who they are. Doing this with a laugh and merry tone will confuse and catch the person off-guard. Difficult people tend to know reactions they always get from people.

3 Ask someone why they are being mean. This is the most honest and direct way to deal with the problem, and it can be most effective. Most people don't call a bully by what they truly are. Asking them to face the reasons why is important and will leave most speechless, searching their own heads for how they got to this point.

more:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2302842_deal-someone-mocking-you.html

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One day at the offices.... truebluegreen Apr 2013 #1
All toons SteveG Apr 2013 #2
Thank you for the cartoons Gothmog Apr 2013 #3
K & R Wounded Bear Apr 2013 #4
Man! That stop sign cartoon! Made my point! calimary Apr 2013 #5
Second cartoon hasn't been legal since 1934. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #6
. baldguy Apr 2013 #9
Yep. That's exactly what I thought when I saw the cartoon, given the 1934 National Firearms Act. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #12
This is for you. You don't seem to be handling this well. baldguy Apr 2013 #13
I can't tell which of us is which based on your post. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #15
And thereby lies your problem. baldguy Apr 2013 #16
I don't consider it a problem. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #17
The worst way to deal with your sins is to pretend that they are virtues. baldguy Apr 2013 #18
Call me a conservative again. Go for it. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #19
I call anyone who carries water for extremist RW loonies who want to destroy America "conservative". baldguy Apr 2013 #20
Oh please. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #21
There's that wonderful RW compassion on display. baldguy Apr 2013 #22
That's interesting, I too have a hard time keeping RW'ers on topic, and from constructing pointless AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #23
I'm not the one pushing an extremist RW agenda. baldguy Apr 2013 #24
Sorry to tell you, but that 'pushing' exists only in your head. AtheistCrusader Apr 2013 #25
Thank you! hedgehog Apr 2013 #7
Most of the time these cartoons get me through the day--thanks! asjr Apr 2013 #8
k&r Electric Monk Apr 2013 #10
k & r surrealAmerican Apr 2013 #11
Cool. Dpm12 Apr 2013 #14
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