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In reply to the discussion: No One Wants To Bury Tamerlan Tsarnaev. [View all]Jim Lane
(11,175 posts)61. I stand with my friend, Peter Stefan.
I got to know him after my father's death. Dad had worked at the Public Inebriate Program (later People in Peril as it expanded to handle drug addicts). The PiP shelter wasn't exactly popular with the neighbors in its Main South area in Worcester, but Peter Stefan, whose funeral home is nearby, was one of those who stood up for it. Both my father and my mother had their funeral services there.
From another article about this fracas:
Stefan is well-known in the Main South neighborhood as someone who will take in anyone in need of funeral services no matter who they are or how much money they have. He is well recognized for the work he did during the height of the AIDS epidemic when other funeral directors would not take in and help bury the bodies of of people who died after a battle with AIDS.
"I can't control the circumstances of someone's death, what they've done or how they died," said Stefan. "Back years ago back when the AIDS epidemic first started, nobody would take the AIDS people. I took them right from the beginning."
Stefan said he has helped pay for funerals for many poor families over the years and if he had to, he would help with Tsarnaev's funeral as well.
"I bury more poor people than anybody here in the entire state," said Stefan. "That's well known, and it's not a matter of money. Sometimes you do what you have to do. If everything was predicated on money there are a lot of things I wouldn't be doing." (from "Boston Marathon bombing suspect Tamerlan Tsarnaev's funeral arrangements being made by Worcester's Graham Putnam and Mahoney Funeral Home")
"I can't control the circumstances of someone's death, what they've done or how they died," said Stefan. "Back years ago back when the AIDS epidemic first started, nobody would take the AIDS people. I took them right from the beginning."
Stefan said he has helped pay for funerals for many poor families over the years and if he had to, he would help with Tsarnaev's funeral as well.
"I bury more poor people than anybody here in the entire state," said Stefan. "That's well known, and it's not a matter of money. Sometimes you do what you have to do. If everything was predicated on money there are a lot of things I wouldn't be doing." (from "Boston Marathon bombing suspect Tamerlan Tsarnaev's funeral arrangements being made by Worcester's Graham Putnam and Mahoney Funeral Home")
My father and mother would both have been proud to know that the home that handled their services was sticking up for decent treatment for the most despised man in America.
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Yeah, I don't know. I just learned about the place a few weeks ago, still creeps me out!
reformist2
May 2013
#56
they lived in dagestan before they came to the us, so i don't know why you think they're scamming.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#69
Follow the conversation. Cha is talking about the poster - putter- uppers in Chechnya.
MADem
May 2013
#92
I agree, Nadin. But don't expect many to understand. We have sunk to such a low level
sabrina 1
May 2013
#38
Dude, dude, be civil, there are countless drainage ditches we could at least roll him into.
Katashi_itto
May 2013
#78
Great idea--NOT. That's the stupidest and most short-sighted thing possible to do.
MADem
May 2013
#44
No one, not to be rude, in the Islamic world gives a sweet shit what you care about.
MADem
May 2013
#91
I think you're right, but I don't understand why it just can't be done in secret
Tom Ripley
May 2013
#18
I don't understand why they don't just ship the body to one of his parents in Russia
scarletwoman
May 2013
#13
Some states have provisions for burial at home, depending on the size of the lot available.
bike man
May 2013
#53
All that is probably why "...depending on the size of the lot..." is important.
bike man
May 2013
#67
send the body home to his parents, for godssake. i'm sure they want to bury him, & i'll bet we
HiPointDem
May 2013
#68
threads like this point to the lack of difference between DU (in some cases)
datasuspect
May 2013
#94