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MarianJack

(10,237 posts)
Wed Feb 8, 2012, 04:17 AM Feb 2012

UPDATED. Some quack BASTARD of a "doctor" REALLY screwed my family and I today... [View all]

Last edited Wed Feb 8, 2012, 12:58 PM - Edit history (3)

...and I'm not taking it sitting down for one f***ing second.

I'm going to do all I can to leave out the 4 letter aria of obscenity that I've been singing since just after noon to avoid a hidden thread by a 6-0 jury vote. Allow me to say that in spite of the trembling rage that I feel now, I have been nothing but courteous to this alleged professional of medicine.

I've been out of work for 8 months. Unemployment compensation is over. I was offered a job for the most I've ever been paid last Friday. My references came back glowing. My background checks came back glowing. All I had to do was get through a pre-employment physical, one of which I've never failed to do in my life. My family and I need a paychek or we may wind up homeless again. This bastard quack knows this.

The position that I was supposed to start tomorrow was working with a Mental Health Agency up here in Maine. I would be going into the homes of troubled families who've consented to in-home treatment. My job would be to TALK with these families to help them problem solve in the most effective manner possible for them. I would counsel, coach, model, empathasize (spelling?), and possibly firmly prompt them to make the changes to which they'd agreed in early sessions .

Of about 30 items listed on the job description, the ability to lift 35 pounds, the ability to push 100 pounds (like a person in a wheelchair) and the need to possibly restrain are the last things listed. This is because they are HIGHLY unlikely to happen. By highly unlikely I mean about a 1 in 10,000 chance. I know this from experience. In a similar position about 6 years ago I had 2 instances out of hundreds where I was dealing with highly agitated clients or families. In one of those circumsrances, I talked them down and back to the kitchen table. In the other, the young woman told me to go F*** myself and left the room. She apologized the next time I came to the home.

This self righteous son of a bitch bastard of a moronic quack ignored the fact that I passed EVERY physical request he made of me, ignored the fact that I explained that I've had a bad cold the last few days and that my strength and stamina are somewhat decreased because of this and he latched onto the fact that I said that if I've done something like move furniture ALL DAY my back would be sore and recommended that I be restricted from any physical activity.

This has quite possibly cost me the job.

I have spoken with this "sock-tucking mortar chucker" and explained to him the consequences of his half assed and arbitrary decision to my famiy and I. I informed him of the need for him to reconsider his findings, especially since the issue of my back would have NEVER come up if I hadn't said that my back would hurt in the same circumstances that Hercules' back would hurt. I also mentioned that the doctor who has been treating me for the last 6 years has never recommended any restriction on my activities.

At this point, I've signed a release for my records to be sent to the quack. I had to sign it twice because the first time they sent my real doctor's office a request for them to SEND and not RECEIVE my records. I've also asked my doctor to write the quack a note explaining that she may actually know my health after 6+ years than he does after 20 minutes. Hopefully he'll pull his headout of his crusty boney ass and reverse his "decision". He is also reviewing with his "Medical Director".

I will say this. If this incompetent bastard of a quack moron, who apparently doesn't believe in actually listening to the patient, doesn't reverse his decision, I will contact an attorney and go after his ass, his medical director's ass and the practice's collective ass with everything I possibly can.

The position that he screwed me out of yesterday paid $16 per hour. I was supposed to start this morning at 8:30 AM, so he has now cost me $128 (8 X $16).

I believe that he is shocked to have a victim who actually fights back, but I'm not about to let this f***er "romney" me out of a job that I want, I need and I will do very well in because he's to damn lazy to pay any attention to his temporary patient.

I'll let you know what happens. Thank you for letting me rant!

PEACE!

UPDATE as of 11:53 AM. See response # 17. Thanks.

PEACE!

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Rat bastards, they're everywhere. sakabatou Feb 2012 #1
One is certainly here in Maine! MarianJack Feb 2012 #7
I know the physical you speak of . I have to go through one everytime I get a job working with Justice wanted Feb 2012 #2
Thank you, and... MarianJack Feb 2012 #8
Sorry you're having to go through all this crap MJ... Surya Gayatri Feb 2012 #3
Thank you MarianJack Feb 2012 #9
Are things actually bad enough in the good old USA kickysnana Feb 2012 #4
Thank you,kickysana. MarianJack Feb 2012 #10
Best of luck. nt. Mr_Jefferson_24 Feb 2012 #5
Thanks! MarianJack Feb 2012 #11
I just went through the same physical Maine-ah Feb 2012 #6
Thanks Maine-ah. MarianJack Feb 2012 #12
Whatever happens, good for you for fighting back lunatica Feb 2012 #13
This "doctor"... MarianJack Feb 2012 #15
I don't understand Dorian Gray Feb 2012 #68
The employer has a contract with these numbskulls. MarianJack Feb 2012 #69
I guess Dorian Gray Feb 2012 #97
I will. MarianJack Feb 2012 #102
Employers, especially state and local agencies, usually use their own doctor obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #83
Thanks for the explanation Dorian Gray Feb 2012 #98
Thank you for the clarification, obamanut2012. MarianJack Feb 2012 #103
Aw, shit. That just sucks. I hope things work out, this sounds like a really good opportunity. n/t renie408 Feb 2012 #14
It certainly IS a good opportunity... MarianJack Feb 2012 #16
+1 truebrit71 Feb 2012 #19
You speak truth, truebrit71! MarianJack Feb 2012 #21
Update, as of an hour ago... MarianJack Feb 2012 #17
Can your doctor also fax that to the agency your are applying to? Matariki Feb 2012 #18
The HR people claim that... MarianJack Feb 2012 #20
Well, good luck Matariki Feb 2012 #22
Thank you, Matariki! MarianJack Feb 2012 #23
That Dr. probably has a relative or friend that wants the job too... That happens! Auntie Bush Feb 2012 #94
On what basis would you sue? Joe the Revelator Feb 2012 #45
Whatever basis an attorney advises me to do. MarianJack Feb 2012 #46
Unless you can prove malicious intent obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #47
Possibly MarianJack Feb 2012 #49
The legal system caused this Broderick Feb 2012 #67
Maybe I can get someone who can remedy this... MarianJack Feb 2012 #70
Businesses are so wary of potential lawsuits all the time it seems Broderick Feb 2012 #71
They are attempting to cover their asses from lawsuits,... MarianJack Feb 2012 #72
Seems rather unfair Broderick Feb 2012 #78
Sanity Reigns. MarianJack Feb 2012 #80
I think you're right Yo_Mama Feb 2012 #75
Yeah, I would assume so in what little I know that it would be Broderick Feb 2012 #79
A desire to provide for my family MarianJack Feb 2012 #82
The more I think about this Yo_Mama Feb 2012 #95
Right! MarianJack Feb 2012 #81
I think you will be shocked at how limited your options are... Joe the Revelator Feb 2012 #48
We'll see. MarianJack Feb 2012 #51
Exactly, because this isn't a question of misusing biometrics obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #55
I have my fingers and toes crossed for you! nt Mojorabbit Feb 2012 #58
Thank you, Mojorabbit. MarianJack Feb 2012 #62
see the lawyer first, it can't hurt Motown_Johnny Feb 2012 #26
I've left a message with the Medical Director... MarianJack Feb 2012 #77
Your real dr. cleared you for "moderate physical activity"? Is that a restriction? Honeycombe8 Feb 2012 #54
The question about my cold was obvious,... MarianJack Feb 2012 #63
Best of luck Yo_Mama Feb 2012 #74
Thank You, Yo_Mama MarianJack Feb 2012 #76
Lemme ge this straight ... IggleDoer Feb 2012 #24
I didn't understand it either sammytko Feb 2012 #25
Certainly something I've learned. MarianJack Feb 2012 #28
Patient gave an example. Doctor decided example wasn't reasonable. Occulus Feb 2012 #50
THANK YOU, Occulus! MarianJack Feb 2012 #52
At NO point did I ask this person to lie for me. MarianJack Feb 2012 #27
Why don't you read it again.. sendero Feb 2012 #33
Thank you, sendro. MarianJack Feb 2012 #36
What were you reading? Curmudgeoness Feb 2012 #38
Thank You, Curmudgeness! MarianJack Feb 2012 #53
No, no, no Yo_Mama Feb 2012 #73
Thank ayou again, Yo_Mama! MarianJack Feb 2012 #90
I am sorry for all this--what an asshole. I'd be livid, too. TwilightGardener Feb 2012 #29
I definitely will TwilightGardiner! MarianJack Feb 2012 #30
You need to tell the medical director that the dr doesn't listen very well, Ilsa Feb 2012 #31
Thank you, Ilsa MarianJack Feb 2012 #35
Some progress was made today, Ilsa MarianJack Feb 2012 #92
This is great news, just to get the attention Ilsa Feb 2012 #104
Thanx, Ilsa! MarianJack Feb 2012 #106
Sue the doctor for defamation and discrimination The Second Stone Feb 2012 #32
ADA means reasonable accommodations to perform job duties REP Feb 2012 #34
The OP was pretty clear that the job did not require a young athlete The Second Stone Feb 2012 #59
That's not an ADA issue then; it's an EOE one REP Feb 2012 #60
Mr. Mittel may well be the one I contact. MarianJack Feb 2012 #37
That seems to be the issue dana_b Feb 2012 #88
Moderate Physical activity in the sense that I couldn't take something like a warehouse job. MarianJack Feb 2012 #91
Well hopefully you gave that doctor a cold tawadi Feb 2012 #39
If I wind up getting the job,.. MarianJack Feb 2012 #40
Good luck tawadi Feb 2012 #41
Thank You, tawadi. MarianJack Feb 2012 #42
LOL you're BAD DiverDave Feb 2012 #87
go after his stupid ass! Whisp Feb 2012 #43
I'm going after him with every legal resource I can find. MarianJack Feb 2012 #44
What's his motivation for doing that? maximusveritas Feb 2012 #56
At this point,... MarianJack Feb 2012 #66
I agree with you. dotymed Feb 2012 #57
$16 an hour. MarianJack Feb 2012 #65
Please don't take this the wrong way, but JayhawkSD Feb 2012 #61
I was answering his question. MarianJack Feb 2012 #64
I'm curious, though JayhawkSD Feb 2012 #96
If I recall,... MarianJack Feb 2012 #101
I think the poster volunteered too much info sammytko Feb 2012 #93
A word of caution before initiating any litigation Freddie Stubbs Feb 2012 #84
After 2 days of cooling off,... MarianJack Feb 2012 #85
any new news? Motown_Johnny Feb 2012 #86
I sopke to the medical director late this afternoon. MarianJack Feb 2012 #89
It's about time someone finally fought back. Zalatix Feb 2012 #99
I may have some evidence... MarianJack Feb 2012 #100
Go for the throat! Zalatix Feb 2012 #105
My first approach when things get adversarial with a totally unreasonable person... MarianJack Feb 2012 #107
Whatever happened with this matter, MarianJack? Any update? nt Honeycombe8 Feb 2012 #108
I was going to post an update (or a new thread) tomorrow. MarianJack Feb 2012 #109
k&r Liberal_in_LA Feb 2012 #110
Thank You, Liberal_in_LA! MarianJack Feb 2012 #111
Keep your eyes peeled for a new thread update... MarianJack Feb 2012 #112
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