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In reply to the discussion: — Homophobia: The fear that another man will treat you like you treat women. [View all]Zorra
(27,670 posts)there's really no reason for a woman to bring in a third party for this, it just complicates things unnecessarily.
From my POV, it's usually about two women who are profiting from their specific knowledge of men's sexual fantasies. Some men seem to enjoy interacting, some seem to enjoy watching, most seem to like both.
Many female sex workers are lesbian, but engage in sex with men for profit, despite the fact that they are not sexually attracted to men.
I guess we could say that this is a form of needing a man; but I suspect not in the same sense of need you intended in your post.
I'm curious, do you think it is because of the fact that a woman is born lesbian, ie, is naturally romantically/sexually attracted to women, that homophobic men are inclined to hate her?
Or do you believe it is because lesbians engage in sexual activity with other women that inclines homophobic men to hate them?
Is it how lesbians are born, or their sexual activities, that incline homophobes to hate them?