how would you feel if

[DesertFlower]

21. everyone i told thought it was

despicable. i pointed it out to her over the weekend. in her mind she did nothing wrong.

i really let her have it -- i went back into the past and brought up many other things she did -- like practically throwing our mother out. when she married her first husband she decided to do it on valentine's day. hubby and i were in the bahamas. our plans had been made far in advance of her deciding to get married on valentine's day. we didn't know she got married till we got back.

when my nieces were born she decided to be a catholic again and told nance and i that we couldn't be godparents because we weren't practicing catholics. then a few years later she became an atheist -- this last year she's back to believing in god.

i said to her over the weekend. "who's the real cindy"?