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In reply to the discussion: Women in public, no matter how they're dressed, are not "inviting" ANYTHING. [View all]Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Why am I saying this? Because in don't think you can use such a broad brush on either gender. If I remember a lot of the men watched if on a daily basis and quite a few women watched it semi weekly. And I thought no you will agree that this is a nicer cross section of the public. I've seen polls in a lot of places that show the same. Do you assume from this that the VAST majority of them are bigoted pricks? As others have said here to stare or leer is quite different from a look. I don't think even the majority of men who are players let alone the average guy stare or leer.
One thing I see a lot here is that men are made to feel guilty of their own biology. We certainly aren't wired to stare, harass or be violent. But yes we are wired to look at a pretty girl. Like it or not it's automatic, we can not stare certainly, we can be nice, we can do all of that. We should and I think most do. But I'm sorry the saying that sex is on a guys mind every X number of seconds is only a bit of an exaggeration. At least for younger guys.